On The Floor with Wayne and Rob

Vacations

Episode Summary

Wayne and Rob discuss the importance of taking vacations. They also talk to several hardwood flooring contractors and have them chime in how they handle taking vacations. Follow Bona US Professional online: Website: https://www1.bona.com/en-us/professional/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/BonaProfessional Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bonauspro/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonapro.us/

Episode Transcription

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Hello and welcome to another episode

 

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of On the Floor with Wayne and Rob.

 

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I'm Wayne Highlander,

 

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Director of Sales for Bona Adhesives.

 

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And I'm Rob Johnson from Bona Training.

 

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How you doing, Rob?

 

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Pretty good, but how are you?

 

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I'm well, thank you.

 

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Well, let's get this out of the way.

 

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Okay.

 

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People have been

 

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you know,

 

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we got a long listeners out there.

 

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People have been waiting

 

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for a few weeks, myself included.

 

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This is about vacations.

 

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I'm not going to call

 

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what you did a vacation

 

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because it was only a couple of days.

 

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A very competitive vacation,

 

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if you ask me.

 

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But how did the fishing tournament go?

 

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Oh, well,

 

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it was kind of a well, it was it was

 

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I won't say a letdown.

 

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It was I was fishing.

 

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So it was still fun to go,

 

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but it was very tough conditions.

 

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So I one day one and he one day, too.

 

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Overall, I had the most weight,

 

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so it makes me the winner.

 

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But it was a lot of fun and

 

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and good to see an old friend. So.

 

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But you know what?

 

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We're great friends.

 

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We're like,

 

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you know,

 

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I've known him for over 35 years,

 

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but we cannot fish

 

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in the same boat together.

 

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And this is true.

 

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He knows it.

 

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And I know we can't we cannot be.

 

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And that's why

 

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I had to drive all the way

 

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there in my boat with my boat.

 

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And he had drive

 

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all the way there in his boat.

 

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We face the same leg together.

 

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But that's

 

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that's far very we cannot

 

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fish in the same boat together.

 

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So day one or the totals.

 

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They were low, man.

 

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It was the

 

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the lake was dropping,

 

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the water was dropping.

 

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And so the bait was off and everybody

 

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all the even either fish.

 

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I never seen the lake before

 

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until that day either did he?

 

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And everybody we talked to said no,

 

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that's just really tough.

 

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So I had four, seven, one £4.

 

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Everyone else is or 71 yet he had.

 

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So you had close to £5, day one.

 

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Yeah. With two.

 

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No, I'll take it back and say no.

 

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I had a

 

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I had almost £7 because I had a £2.

 

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Oh.

 

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So I about £7 and he had zero.

 

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No fish. No fish.

 

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And the second day

 

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I had a dismal £1.2 and he had a £1.5.

 

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It was just brutal.

 

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So. So second day.

 

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Yep.

 

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1.2 for, you know, 1.4 for him.

 

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One point. Five. 1.5. Yeah.

 

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So anyhow.

 

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Yeah.

 

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No big deal. Wow.

 

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That's kind of a letdown.

 

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I mean. Yeah.

 

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You know what it sounds like.

 

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Wait, wait, wait.

 

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Look, you know, I almost want to

 

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in this,

 

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Chris, I'd like you to put in

 

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what Wayne was saying.

 

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I don't know if he was saying it to me

 

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or the show, but this was going to be it.

 

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Well, this was it.

 

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This this was going to be it.

 

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I mean, you

 

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and this guy, this you've been saying

 

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this guy has been telling everybody,

 

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telling you he is a much

 

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better fisherman than you. Mm hmm.

 

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And he knew it.

 

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He was adamant about it.

 

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And you were kind of out of the same way.

 

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I mean, I'm looking at these totals.

 

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I don't

 

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you know,

 

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I hate to give you a pat on the back, but

 

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it looks like I could have beat this guy.

 

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Well.

 

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This guy, he's really a good fisherman.

 

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It's really it was really, really caught.

 

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One fish in two days.

 

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Well, one keeper. Yeah.

 

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So, yeah, it was tough, man.

 

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And in the

 

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but I did beat him,

 

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so that's all that matters.

 

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But that's it.

 

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I mean, is that is it it now?

 

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Is it over?

 

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Did he give. It to you? It's.

 

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He gave it up.

 

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Yeah, but it's never really over.

 

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So there'll be another time or so.

 

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Well, right now.

 

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Right now. You got the crown, then?

 

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Absolutely. Yeah.

 

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Okay. Yeah.

 

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You should make another

 

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belt buckle and say, here this is.

 

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Here you go.

 

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This is what I want.

 

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This is mine to you, you know.

 

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So you wear this, you got a

 

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you got to beat me to wear.

 

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There you go.

 

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All right, do the belt buckle.

 

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I'll get you a belt.

 

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So at least you have a belt.

 

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Yeah, because I got

 

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I can't have one without the other.

 

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And I want to be like.

 

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You know, you get belts and belt buckles.

 

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Don't give a kid a fire truck

 

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with no batteries in it.

 

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All right.

 

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We're only going to talking

 

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about vacations here.

 

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And we also we had we interviewed some

 

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some guys

 

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that there are

 

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regional training center in New Jersey,

 

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some the same guys we talked

 

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to about pressure.

 

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We asked them about vacations.

 

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Just in

 

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general in America,

 

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we don't handle vacations very well.

 

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A lot of people here in America

 

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and it seems like

 

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we take less vacation time than most

 

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any country out there.

 

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Surprisingly, I think we like

 

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we like work more hours than anybody.

 

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And I will admit that I was still not

 

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very good at taking vacations.

 

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I don't

 

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I just kind of put it on the backburner

 

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a lot and whatever,

 

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probably to my detriment. But.

 

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But I'm fine.

 

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I'm fine. I'm happy. But.

 

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So when you run your own business,

 

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it's hard to go on vacation.

 

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It's I always say it's hard to leave

 

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because there's so many things

 

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you have to do to line up

 

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before you can possibly go.

 

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And then it's hard to come back

 

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because there's so much to do

 

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since you've been gone

 

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and you have to get cut up.

 

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I'm amazed at some of the responses

 

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that we had

 

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that guys are able to delegate,

 

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which I always said

 

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was one of my Achilles heel.

 

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I didn't like to deal.

 

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They just didn't

 

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wasn't good at delegating.

 

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So what about yourself, Rob?

 

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I mean, you

 

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you value your family time

 

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and you like your vacations.

 

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And so maybe you can tell us how you

 

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how you handle it.

 

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Well, you know, when I first got married,

 

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but I was still working

 

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the family business.

 

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And I think I had

 

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I had two kids.

 

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And after I had my second kid,

 

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it wasn't far

 

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long after that

 

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that I started my own business.

 

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But before the family business

 

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is the sport business.

 

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And sport business is

 

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six months of cruise

 

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and then six months of

 

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crazy hours, 80 hours a week.

 

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And those six months are the vacation.

 

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Once, you know,

 

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starts and starts in spring and ends in

 

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in the fall.

 

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So we never my family,

 

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we never did vacations.

 

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And if we did, it was always a

 

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a late fall vacation

 

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when everything was closed.

 

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So vacations pretty much sucked, right?

 

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I mean, they were just kind of

 

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useless, but

 

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my grandparents had a

 

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beautiful cottage up in

 

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Lake Horace.

 

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In where? New Hampshire.

 

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So wasn't there.

 

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We got family vacations,

 

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but we got, you know,

 

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great weekends on the lake,

 

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so don't feel bad for me anyways.

 

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When I started my own thing,

 

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I'll never forget the first time

 

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I took a family vacation because now I'm,

 

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you know, I'm

 

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not in a sport business anymore,

 

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so I'm just doing residential.

 

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So

 

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we took a vacation and it was awesome and

 

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turned out,

 

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you know, we wanted to do

 

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at least a couple of weeks every year.

 

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But what Pete and I found out was

 

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to take

 

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a one week vacation for Peter and I.

 

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We had to do like

 

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three times

 

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the amount of work

 

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for the two weeks before

 

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and then three times

 

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the amount of work for

 

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a few weeks after the vacation.

 

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They were killers,

 

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but it was

 

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it was definitely worth it because,

 

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you know, everybody

 

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in this business knows, you know,

 

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I tell the story of my daughter

 

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in law saying

 

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my my dad came home every day at 545

 

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and you never know when my husband's

 

263

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coming home.

 

264

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You never know when the floor mats go.

 

265

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If we can get a coat on,

 

266

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we're getting a coat on.

 

267

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Or if we're behind, we're behind.

 

268

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So you never know.

 

269

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So, you know,

 

270

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you take a lot of family

 

271

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time away from your family

 

272

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when you're doing this job.

 

273

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I get it.

 

274

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And that's why

 

275

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I thought the vacations

 

276

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were pretty important for everybody,

 

277

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just to have some fun, decompress.

 

278

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The only problem is,

 

279

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you know, now when I go on vacation,

 

280

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it's not just three kids, it's

 

281

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three other families.

 

282

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So they all want to vacation together.

 

283

00:08:44,824 --> 00:08:47,460

So so when you think it's

 

284

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the the the

 

285

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your your kids families as well,

 

286

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you all vacation together?

 

287

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Everybody vacation. Yes.

 

288

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We go out for ice cream.

 

289

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It costs me 100 bucks.

 

290

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That's interesting.

 

291

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And so, I mean. They love it.

 

292

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They love it.

 

293

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They so it's a riot.

 

294

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So the family all vacations together.

 

295

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Yes. I know.

 

296

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And I know another family that does that.

 

297

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And there's a lot of them

 

298

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there's probably like 15 of them

 

299

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that all go together.

 

300

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And it's so strange to me.

 

301

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I love that.

 

302

00:09:22,528 --> 00:09:24,263

I think that's fantastic

 

303

00:09:24,263 --> 00:09:25,698

that you do that.

 

304

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But it seems very odd to me now.

 

305

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What if one of them,

 

306

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when you know,

 

307

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when you're one of them says,

 

308

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no, we're going to go to Italy this year.

 

309

00:09:32,471 --> 00:09:34,040

I grew up.

 

310

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Is that a problem or.

 

311

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No, that's awesome. Go.

 

312

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That's really great. Yeah, that

 

313

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that's just I'm going to save money.

 

314

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Yeah, I say, well, that's.

 

315

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That's nice that you guys do that.

 

316

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I think that's pretty cool.

 

317

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Yeah, it's a lot of fun.

 

318

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But like I said

 

319

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when we were self-employed, that was,

 

320

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that was, that was tough doing it.

 

321

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So I get it.

 

322

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And some of the questions

 

323

00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:02,468

are some of the answers

 

324

00:10:02,468 --> 00:10:04,437

we were getting from guys

 

325

00:10:04,437 --> 00:10:06,539

was how they deal with vacations

 

326

00:10:06,539 --> 00:10:08,941

was just great. Very lucky.

 

327

00:10:08,941 --> 00:10:11,210

Some of them, yeah.

 

328

00:10:11,210 --> 00:10:12,878

You say there's important reasons

 

329

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to take vacations to.

 

330

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You told me that there are seven.

 

331

00:10:20,753 --> 00:10:22,521

Seven important reasons, right.

 

332

00:10:22,521 --> 00:10:22,655

Yeah.

 

333

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So yeah

 

334

00:10:23,589 --> 00:10:24,690

I'll give the

 

335

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I'm going to give seven reasons

 

336

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why to take a vacation.

 

337

00:10:27,893 --> 00:10:28,995

I'll give seven.

 

338

00:10:28,995 --> 00:10:31,430

Seven reasons why not to take a vacation.

 

339

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Yes, that's it.

 

340

00:10:33,132 --> 00:10:35,167

That's, um. Yeah, that's one. Mm.

 

341

00:10:38,871 --> 00:10:40,706

Okay, here we go.

 

342

00:10:40,706 --> 00:10:42,274

Uh, taking

 

343

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a vacation improves your physical health,

 

344

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lowers your blood pressure,

 

345

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both men and women.

 

346

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And that's from a New York Times report.

 

347

00:10:53,185 --> 00:10:56,222

Okay.

 

348

00:10:56,222 --> 00:10:57,790

Do you really want

 

349

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everybody to know how long they.

 

350

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Well, they can get along without you.

 

351

00:11:03,863 --> 00:11:07,933

You really want to take that chance?

 

352

00:11:07,933 --> 00:11:08,968

You know, you come back

 

353

00:11:08,968 --> 00:11:10,870

and then we had a fantastic week.

 

354

00:11:10,870 --> 00:11:12,872

I mean, the profits are up.

 

355

00:11:12,872 --> 00:11:14,440

You know, things were humming.

 

356

00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:14,940

Didn't really

 

357

00:11:14,940 --> 00:11:18,310

even seem to miss your position.

 

358

00:11:18,310 --> 00:11:20,079

They're going to go out of their way

 

359

00:11:20,079 --> 00:11:22,181

to do a great job now, right? Yeah.

 

360

00:11:22,448 --> 00:11:24,650

Yeah. To just to prove to you.

 

361

00:11:24,650 --> 00:11:26,318

Yeah, we didn't.

 

362

00:11:26,318 --> 00:11:28,387

We didn't need you. Yeah. Yeah.

 

363

00:11:29,121 --> 00:11:29,655

You know what else

 

364

00:11:29,655 --> 00:11:31,223

the New York Times said?

 

365

00:11:31,223 --> 00:11:32,825

Maybe not every year,

 

366

00:11:32,825 --> 00:11:34,393

once every two years,

 

367

00:11:35,361 --> 00:11:36,262

take a vacation.

 

368

00:11:36,262 --> 00:11:37,630

Oh, really?

 

369

00:11:37,697 --> 00:11:40,166

Yeah. Hmm.

 

370

00:11:40,166 --> 00:11:43,202

Yeah, that one I don't get.

 

371

00:11:43,202 --> 00:11:44,370

Are you a vacation guy?

 

372

00:11:44,370 --> 00:11:46,472

Do you plan a vacation?

 

373

00:11:46,472 --> 00:11:49,241

No. I've said that many times. I don't.

 

374

00:11:49,442 --> 00:11:50,509

And I.

 

375

00:11:50,509 --> 00:11:52,244

And Judy never.

 

376

00:11:52,244 --> 00:11:54,380

Duty is bad attitude.

 

377

00:11:54,380 --> 00:11:56,415

Yeah, we're both bad at taking vacations.

 

378

00:11:56,682 --> 00:11:58,517

And I think, like her parents, her

 

379

00:11:58,517 --> 00:12:00,252

her family never took vacations either.

 

380

00:12:00,252 --> 00:12:02,621

Her dad never took off, ever.

 

381

00:12:03,089 --> 00:12:04,557

Like they would go to Lake Tahoe

 

382

00:12:04,557 --> 00:12:05,891

when she was a kid

 

383

00:12:05,891 --> 00:12:06,959

and he would work

 

384

00:12:06,959 --> 00:12:07,626

and he would come up

 

385

00:12:07,626 --> 00:12:09,695

like Saturday, Friday, Saturday,

 

386

00:12:09,695 --> 00:12:11,130

and then take them home,

 

387

00:12:11,130 --> 00:12:11,597

you know what I mean?

 

388

00:12:11,597 --> 00:12:12,798

So he would, like not be there

 

389

00:12:12,798 --> 00:12:14,533

for the for their vacations

 

390

00:12:14,533 --> 00:12:15,868

and where, you know, military,

 

391

00:12:15,868 --> 00:12:16,569

you don't have any money

 

392

00:12:16,569 --> 00:12:17,803

to go on vacation.

 

393

00:12:17,803 --> 00:12:19,939

So we never really took

 

394

00:12:19,939 --> 00:12:21,807

we would just go like, um, fishing trips

 

395

00:12:24,243 --> 00:12:27,213

in a tent.

 

396

00:12:27,213 --> 00:12:27,980

Stay always said.

 

397

00:12:27,980 --> 00:12:29,248

When you ever say fishing trip,

 

398

00:12:29,248 --> 00:12:30,116

I always think of that kid

 

399

00:12:30,116 --> 00:12:31,417

who was crying.

 

400

00:12:31,951 --> 00:12:32,818

Yeah. Yeah, that's.

 

401

00:12:32,818 --> 00:12:35,054

A hell of a vacation.

 

402

00:12:35,054 --> 00:12:36,322

If this poor kid thinks he's

 

403

00:12:36,322 --> 00:12:37,423

getting a nice

 

404

00:12:37,423 --> 00:12:39,391

three day fishing vacation.

 

405

00:12:39,391 --> 00:12:41,827

Yeah, yeah.

 

406

00:12:42,027 --> 00:12:44,029

There's a thing for my second reasons.

 

407

00:12:44,163 --> 00:12:46,298

So what's your second reason?

 

408

00:12:46,298 --> 00:12:47,333

Second reason?

 

409

00:12:47,333 --> 00:12:49,502

It says, what was the first one again?

 

410

00:12:49,902 --> 00:12:51,971

Because brace yourself.

 

411

00:12:51,971 --> 00:12:52,605

Yeah.

 

412

00:12:52,605 --> 00:12:55,040

Next one, it improves mental health.

 

413

00:12:56,408 --> 00:12:57,777

That should be number one.

 

414

00:12:57,777 --> 00:12:58,911

Also.

 

415

00:12:59,411 --> 00:13:01,614

The chronic exposure to stress

 

416

00:13:01,981 --> 00:13:03,783

can alter your brain structure

 

417

00:13:03,783 --> 00:13:05,951

and bring on anxiety and depression.

 

418

00:13:06,585 --> 00:13:08,087

When you take a vacation,

 

419

00:13:08,087 --> 00:13:11,223

feelings of calm arise.

 

420

00:13:11,223 --> 00:13:15,795

Ha, sometimes a lot of.

 

421

00:13:15,795 --> 00:13:18,631

Feelings of calm arise.

 

422

00:13:18,631 --> 00:13:19,231

Let me tell you,

 

423

00:13:19,231 --> 00:13:20,933

the last three days of vacation,

 

424

00:13:20,933 --> 00:13:22,001

all I had in my head

 

425

00:13:22,001 --> 00:13:23,702

was I get this job,

 

426

00:13:23,702 --> 00:13:24,336

I get this job,

 

427

00:13:24,336 --> 00:13:25,437

I got to do this estimate.

 

428

00:13:25,437 --> 00:13:26,806

I got to call that

 

429

00:13:26,806 --> 00:13:29,408

I don't know about feelings of calm arise

 

430

00:13:29,408 --> 00:13:31,443

maybe in the beginning.

 

431

00:13:31,443 --> 00:13:33,145

Yeah that was the other thing

 

432

00:13:33,145 --> 00:13:35,881

I found out about vacations too.

 

433

00:13:35,881 --> 00:13:37,850

You know, let's say you're going,

 

434

00:13:37,850 --> 00:13:38,417

you know,

 

435

00:13:38,417 --> 00:13:40,052

leaving Saturday, coming home

 

436

00:13:40,052 --> 00:13:42,321

Saturday, seven day vacation.

 

437

00:13:42,321 --> 00:13:43,756

We used to we used to

 

438

00:13:44,757 --> 00:13:46,692

rent this huge house in Cape Cod.

 

439

00:13:46,692 --> 00:13:48,627

It's actually two houses.

 

440

00:13:48,627 --> 00:13:51,297

So there is plenty of room for everybody.

 

441

00:13:51,297 --> 00:13:52,231

And

 

442

00:13:53,432 --> 00:13:54,834

it would be seriously,

 

443

00:13:54,834 --> 00:13:56,302

you would wake up and go,

 

444

00:13:56,302 --> 00:13:57,703

oh, my God, it's Thursday.

 

445

00:13:57,703 --> 00:13:59,872

Or What happened?

 

446

00:14:00,573 --> 00:14:02,308

What happened in the last five days?

 

447

00:14:02,308 --> 00:14:04,510

And that was just.

 

448

00:14:04,710 --> 00:14:08,180

Yeah, it goes quick.

 

449

00:14:08,180 --> 00:14:09,181

You know,

 

450

00:14:09,782 --> 00:14:13,619

vacations are expensive.

 

451

00:14:13,619 --> 00:14:14,954

And so you see a lot of people

 

452

00:14:14,954 --> 00:14:16,856

doing those staycations, whatever,

 

453

00:14:16,856 --> 00:14:18,891

where they're kind of staying home

 

454

00:14:18,891 --> 00:14:21,227

and not really going anywhere.

 

455

00:14:21,227 --> 00:14:24,096

But I think like I did that one time

 

456

00:14:24,663 --> 00:14:25,831

and you started walking around

 

457

00:14:25,831 --> 00:14:26,265

the house are

 

458

00:14:26,265 --> 00:14:27,533

look at everything that needs to be

 

459

00:14:27,533 --> 00:14:28,400

needs to be done.

 

460

00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:29,268

And, you know, you

 

461

00:14:29,268 --> 00:14:29,668

the fence

 

462

00:14:29,668 --> 00:14:30,336

you want to build

 

463

00:14:30,336 --> 00:14:31,937

and the floor you want to do

 

464

00:14:31,937 --> 00:14:33,038

and all these other different things

 

465

00:14:33,038 --> 00:14:33,606

that you want to do.

 

466

00:14:33,606 --> 00:14:34,406

And it ends up costing

 

467

00:14:34,406 --> 00:14:35,941

you a lot of money. And

 

468

00:14:37,042 --> 00:14:37,810

so

 

469

00:14:38,510 --> 00:14:42,114

I can't I can't get by on staycations.

 

470

00:14:42,114 --> 00:14:43,749

I don't know in way that even

 

471

00:14:43,749 --> 00:14:44,650

I don't think they did

 

472

00:14:44,650 --> 00:14:47,786

that years ago and consider it a vacation

 

473

00:14:47,786 --> 00:14:48,387

to mother.

 

474

00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:49,221

Just keep on working

 

475

00:14:49,221 --> 00:14:50,055

and keep making money

 

476

00:14:50,055 --> 00:14:52,892

and just just just forget about it.

 

477

00:14:53,192 --> 00:14:54,660

Just throw the whole thing out.

 

478

00:14:54,660 --> 00:14:56,128

Yeah, yeah.

 

479

00:14:56,395 --> 00:14:56,695

Well,

 

480

00:14:56,695 --> 00:14:57,663

you know, since COVID

 

481

00:14:57,663 --> 00:14:58,230

and everything,

 

482

00:14:58,230 --> 00:15:00,399

we haven't done that family thing.

 

483

00:15:00,866 --> 00:15:02,601

We are doing it this year.

 

484

00:15:02,601 --> 00:15:03,636

We got a place up

 

485

00:15:03,636 --> 00:15:06,272

and we're going to a lake up in Canada.

 

486

00:15:06,739 --> 00:15:07,706

We got a big enough place

 

487

00:15:07,706 --> 00:15:08,641

for everybody to go,

 

488

00:15:08,641 --> 00:15:10,309

so we'll be doing that

 

489

00:15:10,309 --> 00:15:11,243

at the end of August.

 

490

00:15:11,243 --> 00:15:12,611

But we haven't

 

491

00:15:12,611 --> 00:15:15,014

done our family structure vacation

 

492

00:15:15,014 --> 00:15:17,283

since Cove it because of all the

 

493

00:15:18,050 --> 00:15:19,652

all the craziness and everything.

 

494

00:15:19,652 --> 00:15:20,853

So who who.

 

495

00:15:20,853 --> 00:15:22,154

Picks the

 

496

00:15:22,154 --> 00:15:24,456

who picks the locations you guys go to.

 

497

00:15:24,456 --> 00:15:25,591

Whoever pays.

 

498

00:15:25,591 --> 00:15:28,127

So it's usually me.

 

499

00:15:28,127 --> 00:15:28,794

So you have to pay

 

500

00:15:28,794 --> 00:15:29,528

for the whole lot of them.

 

501

00:15:31,163 --> 00:15:31,764

Yeah,

 

502

00:15:32,531 --> 00:15:35,067

yeah.

 

503

00:15:35,067 --> 00:15:38,771

That's a problem.

 

504

00:15:38,771 --> 00:15:40,205

Not really. It's not.

 

505

00:15:40,205 --> 00:15:41,006

Okay.

 

506

00:15:41,073 --> 00:15:42,541

It's a deal.

 

507

00:15:42,541 --> 00:15:45,144

You know, I was I was going to say

 

508

00:15:45,144 --> 00:15:47,313

you could have everybody chip in.

 

509

00:15:47,313 --> 00:15:49,381

I'll tell you, the honest to God

 

510

00:15:49,381 --> 00:15:51,817

story out of Trinity Lake when we

 

511

00:15:51,817 --> 00:15:53,786

we were in there probably late,

 

512

00:15:53,786 --> 00:15:55,421

maybe mid twenties.

 

513

00:15:55,421 --> 00:15:57,823

And when I vacation myself,

 

514

00:15:57,823 --> 00:15:59,591

my two brothers went

 

515

00:15:59,591 --> 00:16:00,893

and some other friends

 

516

00:16:00,893 --> 00:16:02,027

and my one of my brothers.

 

517

00:16:02,027 --> 00:16:03,228

But but this guy

 

518

00:16:03,228 --> 00:16:04,863

that I didn't really know

 

519

00:16:04,863 --> 00:16:06,799

kind of didn't really like.

 

520

00:16:06,799 --> 00:16:07,566

And

 

521

00:16:09,101 --> 00:16:10,269

and then we said,

 

522

00:16:10,269 --> 00:16:12,037

all right, well, let's all put, you know,

 

523

00:16:12,037 --> 00:16:13,372

we put in 50 bucks or whatever.

 

524

00:16:13,372 --> 00:16:14,039

We're going to town, we'll

 

525

00:16:14,039 --> 00:16:14,807

get something to eat.

 

526

00:16:14,807 --> 00:16:15,641

You know, you dumb kid,

 

527

00:16:15,641 --> 00:16:16,942

you're 20 some odd years old.

 

528

00:16:16,942 --> 00:16:17,576

You don't know what the

 

529

00:16:17,576 --> 00:16:19,311

hell you're doing. Right? So

 

530

00:16:21,981 --> 00:16:22,881

I went

 

531

00:16:23,315 --> 00:16:25,351

in my van, I took the work van.

 

532

00:16:25,851 --> 00:16:27,586

I went in the van to go get my wallet.

 

533

00:16:27,586 --> 00:16:29,655

And this guy was in the back of the van

 

534

00:16:29,655 --> 00:16:30,789

with my wallet in his hand

 

535

00:16:30,789 --> 00:16:32,658

and the wallet was open.

 

536

00:16:32,858 --> 00:16:33,659

Right.

 

537

00:16:33,692 --> 00:16:35,961

And I turn around the corner

 

538

00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:36,862

and there he is.

 

539

00:16:36,862 --> 00:16:37,696

He looks at me

 

540

00:16:37,696 --> 00:16:38,831

and he's got my wallet in his hand

 

541

00:16:38,831 --> 00:16:40,132

and wallet is open.

 

542

00:16:40,132 --> 00:16:41,700

And I, you know, I've got probably four

 

543

00:16:41,700 --> 00:16:43,268

or $500 in there.

 

544

00:16:43,268 --> 00:16:44,003

And

 

545

00:16:45,604 --> 00:16:46,638

he goes, Oh,

 

546

00:16:46,638 --> 00:16:49,041

I've found this on the floor.

 

547

00:16:49,041 --> 00:16:51,377

And it's not possible,

 

548

00:16:51,377 --> 00:16:51,877

you know what I mean?

 

549

00:16:51,877 --> 00:16:53,746

I know exactly where it was.

 

550

00:16:53,746 --> 00:16:55,881

And, you know, I felt horrible for him,

 

551

00:16:56,548 --> 00:16:57,049

you know what I mean?

 

552

00:16:57,049 --> 00:16:58,450

Because I started thinking

 

553

00:16:58,450 --> 00:17:00,119

when everybody said, hey,

 

554

00:17:00,119 --> 00:17:01,520

everybody put in $50,

 

555

00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:02,888

he probably didn't have any money,

 

556

00:17:02,888 --> 00:17:04,156

you know what I mean?

 

557

00:17:04,323 --> 00:17:05,958

And I just.

 

558

00:17:05,958 --> 00:17:07,893

I really felt bad for the guy.

 

559

00:17:07,893 --> 00:17:09,661

He was in your wallet.

 

560

00:17:09,661 --> 00:17:11,230

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

 

561

00:17:11,230 --> 00:17:12,965

I didn't get your wallet.

 

562

00:17:12,965 --> 00:17:14,533

But it was in my van.

 

563

00:17:14,533 --> 00:17:16,735

Have a wallet, which is unusual for me.

 

564

00:17:16,735 --> 00:17:17,703

But I had to back it

 

565

00:17:17,703 --> 00:17:18,103

because, you know,

 

566

00:17:18,103 --> 00:17:19,138

you're swimming and everything.

 

567

00:17:19,138 --> 00:17:21,507

So I had or actually in my case just

 

568

00:17:22,341 --> 00:17:23,475

flailing in the water

 

569

00:17:23,475 --> 00:17:24,576

because that way that's women.

 

570

00:17:24,576 --> 00:17:26,078

Yeah. You're a waiter.

 

571

00:17:26,078 --> 00:17:28,213

Waiting, hoping that to get needed,

 

572

00:17:28,213 --> 00:17:29,581

not to get a miserable sunburn,

 

573

00:17:29,581 --> 00:17:34,219

which I don't get when I'm working.

 

574

00:17:34,219 --> 00:17:35,487

So. Yeah.

 

575

00:17:35,487 --> 00:17:38,057

So I honestly, I wasn't mad at him.

 

576

00:17:38,424 --> 00:17:40,192

I you would think that you would be here.

 

577

00:17:40,192 --> 00:17:41,060

I should be or whatever.

 

578

00:17:41,060 --> 00:17:43,195

But I kind of feel sorry for the guy, so.

 

579

00:17:43,962 --> 00:17:44,463

Yeah.

 

580

00:17:44,463 --> 00:17:44,963

Yeah,

 

581

00:17:44,963 --> 00:17:45,697

I'm surprised

 

582

00:17:45,697 --> 00:17:47,066

you just didn't pull directly

 

583

00:17:47,066 --> 00:17:48,934

into the police station and say this.

 

584

00:17:48,934 --> 00:17:52,805

This guy's trying to rob me and.

 

585

00:17:52,805 --> 00:17:53,906

No, but I.

 

586

00:17:53,906 --> 00:17:56,041

Yeah, you pay for what was interesting.

 

587

00:17:56,041 --> 00:17:57,576

Well, here's the other thing.

 

588

00:17:57,576 --> 00:17:58,677

Don't feel too bad.

 

589

00:17:58,677 --> 00:18:01,080

It's not like I had to spend $10,000

 

590

00:18:01,747 --> 00:18:03,015

this this house

 

591

00:18:03,015 --> 00:18:04,016

I was talking about that

 

592

00:18:04,016 --> 00:18:05,084

we went to in the Cape

 

593

00:18:06,819 --> 00:18:08,454

we rented from a friend

 

594

00:18:08,454 --> 00:18:09,955

of a really good friend.

 

595

00:18:09,955 --> 00:18:13,025

So, you know, we got it at a, you know,

 

596

00:18:13,025 --> 00:18:15,260

probably a quarter of the cost of what

 

597

00:18:15,794 --> 00:18:17,062

they should have been charging.

 

598

00:18:17,062 --> 00:18:19,431

So it was

 

599

00:18:19,431 --> 00:18:21,834

it was it was it didn't hurt at all.

 

600

00:18:21,967 --> 00:18:22,935

Seriously.

 

601

00:18:22,935 --> 00:18:24,036

Did you leave the place

 

602

00:18:24,036 --> 00:18:26,371

all in a disarray when you left?

 

603

00:18:26,371 --> 00:18:27,339

God, no.

 

604

00:18:27,339 --> 00:18:28,140

That you know,

 

605

00:18:28,140 --> 00:18:30,742

that was the thing that we used to do

 

606

00:18:30,742 --> 00:18:33,412

before we found that place.

 

607

00:18:33,412 --> 00:18:33,712

You know,

 

608

00:18:33,712 --> 00:18:35,147

we had rented some other places

 

609

00:18:35,147 --> 00:18:36,882

around Cape Cod,

 

610

00:18:36,882 --> 00:18:40,219

and they were always in better shape.

 

611

00:18:40,219 --> 00:18:41,320

They were always in better shape

 

612

00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:43,088

when we left them. When we got there.

 

613

00:18:43,088 --> 00:18:43,522

Mm.

 

614

00:18:43,522 --> 00:18:44,890

Like, like one day we,

 

615

00:18:44,890 --> 00:18:45,891

we got to this place

 

616

00:18:45,891 --> 00:18:47,192

in the kitchen chairs were,

 

617

00:18:47,192 --> 00:18:48,360

you know, when you rent in a house

 

618

00:18:48,360 --> 00:18:49,728

you never know what you're going to get.

 

619

00:18:49,728 --> 00:18:51,964

Kitchen chairs are all crappy. And

 

620

00:18:52,931 --> 00:18:53,765

so

 

621

00:18:54,533 --> 00:18:57,336

Mom and I and Pauline's cousin Patrick,

 

622

00:18:58,303 --> 00:18:59,905

we went to town on these kitchen

 

623

00:18:59,905 --> 00:19:01,673

chairs gluing screw

 

624

00:19:01,673 --> 00:19:03,375

and we repaired everything in the place.

 

625

00:19:03,375 --> 00:19:05,511

They were solid as a rock, so.

 

626

00:19:05,511 --> 00:19:07,079

No, we were.

 

627

00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:09,314

You wanted you wanted me to rent from you

 

628

00:19:09,314 --> 00:19:11,049

because the place is going to be better.

 

629

00:19:11,049 --> 00:19:11,750

Okay?

 

630

00:19:11,750 --> 00:19:13,118

I've heard so many horror stories

 

631

00:19:13,118 --> 00:19:14,386

where people would rent out

 

632

00:19:14,386 --> 00:19:14,820

their B

 

633

00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:15,454

and B place

 

634

00:19:15,454 --> 00:19:17,222

to people that they know,

 

635

00:19:17,222 --> 00:19:19,124

and they just got trashed.

 

636

00:19:19,124 --> 00:19:20,759

And after doing them a favor.

 

637

00:19:20,759 --> 00:19:23,162

But you know something?

 

638

00:19:23,595 --> 00:19:26,298

I don't do B and B's for one reason.

 

639

00:19:26,298 --> 00:19:28,800

And because you don't go on vacations.

 

640

00:19:29,067 --> 00:19:30,536

Well, that's two reasons.

 

641

00:19:30,536 --> 00:19:33,772

And but I was working in

 

642

00:19:34,306 --> 00:19:40,846

in one of our rep's territory.

 

643

00:19:40,846 --> 00:19:43,582

This guy's name, that another name

 

644

00:19:43,582 --> 00:19:44,349

I need to know.

 

645

00:19:44,349 --> 00:19:46,351

This guy, he's not with us anymore.

 

646

00:19:46,351 --> 00:19:48,987

But he said he said, you know what,

 

647

00:19:49,555 --> 00:19:50,622

you don't need to get a hotel.

 

648

00:19:51,757 --> 00:19:53,358

Stay the night in my house.

 

649

00:19:53,358 --> 00:19:55,027

My wife's a great cook.

 

650

00:19:55,027 --> 00:19:56,161

Nice person.

 

651

00:19:56,161 --> 00:19:56,695

Love to have

 

652

00:19:56,695 --> 00:19:59,731

you meet my kids and everything.

 

653

00:19:59,731 --> 00:20:01,099

And

 

654

00:20:01,433 --> 00:20:02,868

I said no.

 

655

00:20:03,202 --> 00:20:05,204

Now the reason I said no

 

656

00:20:05,204 --> 00:20:06,939

is the same reason I don't I don't

 

657

00:20:06,939 --> 00:20:09,841

I don't rent Airbnb keys.

 

658

00:20:09,841 --> 00:20:11,043

With all this technology today,

 

659

00:20:11,043 --> 00:20:13,412

you could have a camera watching me,

 

660

00:20:13,412 --> 00:20:14,479

you know what I mean?

 

661

00:20:14,479 --> 00:20:14,980

You could have a.

 

662

00:20:14,980 --> 00:20:17,082

That's your reason. Yes.

 

663

00:20:17,516 --> 00:20:18,150

You

 

664

00:20:18,483 --> 00:20:20,085

you think somebody wants to watch

 

665

00:20:20,085 --> 00:20:20,986

you change?

 

666

00:20:20,986 --> 00:20:24,189

Well, you know, I mean, yes.

 

667

00:20:24,790 --> 00:20:26,158

You never know.

 

668

00:20:26,158 --> 00:20:27,826

You never know.

 

669

00:20:27,826 --> 00:20:28,961

So you just I mean.

 

670

00:20:28,961 --> 00:20:31,129

There's 1 million reasons.

 

671

00:20:32,030 --> 00:20:34,299

It's just a 1 million reasons.

 

672

00:20:35,234 --> 00:20:36,501

That would be the last one

 

673

00:20:36,501 --> 00:20:37,803

I would ever think, oh, god,

 

674

00:20:37,803 --> 00:20:38,804

somebody is going to take me

 

675

00:20:38,804 --> 00:20:40,472

when I'm in the bathroom.

 

676

00:20:40,472 --> 00:20:42,140

It happens to people.

 

677

00:20:42,140 --> 00:20:43,342

I don't want to be on YouTube

 

678

00:20:43,342 --> 00:20:43,742

one day

 

679

00:20:43,742 --> 00:20:45,811

or wake up one day on Twitter

 

680

00:20:45,811 --> 00:20:47,312

or one of these other social media

 

681

00:20:47,312 --> 00:20:49,014

things that are out there

 

682

00:20:49,014 --> 00:20:51,516

and see me with a towel walking

 

683

00:20:51,516 --> 00:20:54,853

out of the shower.

 

684

00:20:54,853 --> 00:20:56,255

And then he would always have that.

 

685

00:20:56,255 --> 00:20:57,356

Then he'd go, Hey, when I like,

 

686

00:20:57,356 --> 00:20:58,624

go on vacation, he yeah.

 

687

00:20:58,624 --> 00:21:00,025

We can't really let you go on vacation.

 

688

00:21:00,025 --> 00:21:02,361

Well there's this sure. Take,

 

689

00:21:03,362 --> 00:21:04,563

you take a month.

 

690

00:21:04,563 --> 00:21:06,198

Who thinks like that.

 

691

00:21:06,198 --> 00:21:07,266

The winters.

 

692

00:21:07,266 --> 00:21:08,967

Who thinks like that.

 

693

00:21:08,967 --> 00:21:11,937

The winters.

 

694

00:21:11,937 --> 00:21:12,437

That's it.

 

695

00:21:12,437 --> 00:21:14,306

Every time I go anywhere now I'm right.

 

696

00:21:14,306 --> 00:21:16,141

I'm going to walk around balk man.

 

697

00:21:16,141 --> 00:21:17,209

Go ahead, put me on.

 

698

00:21:17,209 --> 00:21:19,945

What do you remember the ESPN lady?

 

699

00:21:19,945 --> 00:21:22,147

That was that hotel and.

 

700

00:21:22,447 --> 00:21:23,582

Yes, yeah.

 

701

00:21:23,582 --> 00:21:25,784

Okay. Yeah. Oh, my God. Yeah.

 

702

00:21:25,784 --> 00:21:26,518

She got. What?

 

703

00:21:26,518 --> 00:21:28,754

And she got a nightmare for her.

 

704

00:21:28,754 --> 00:21:30,022

That turned out to be.

 

705

00:21:30,022 --> 00:21:31,990

I don't think so.

 

706

00:21:31,990 --> 00:21:33,992

No, I don't think so at all.

 

707

00:21:33,992 --> 00:21:37,262

One, she got a fortune for that.

 

708

00:21:37,262 --> 00:21:38,864

She sued the hotel and she she got

 

709

00:21:38,864 --> 00:21:40,599

I mean, millions and millions of dollars,

 

710

00:21:40,599 --> 00:21:41,833

which in that case, it would be cool.

 

711

00:21:41,833 --> 00:21:43,101

I would do that.

 

712

00:21:43,101 --> 00:21:45,270

It'd be worth it for that.

 

713

00:21:45,304 --> 00:21:46,605

And. Well, yeah.

 

714

00:21:46,605 --> 00:21:48,240

So I mean, obviously it's messed up.

 

715

00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,074

They shouldn't have done that.

 

716

00:21:49,074 --> 00:21:50,075

It's a horrible thing.

 

717

00:21:50,075 --> 00:21:52,210

It's a complete invasion of privacy.

 

718

00:21:53,345 --> 00:21:54,780

But so yeah, you

 

719

00:21:54,780 --> 00:21:58,617

got to, you know, there you go.

 

720

00:21:58,617 --> 00:21:59,851

All right.

 

721

00:21:59,918 --> 00:22:00,485

All right.

 

722

00:22:00,485 --> 00:22:02,254

Let's keep going here.

 

723

00:22:02,254 --> 00:22:02,554

All right.

 

724

00:22:02,554 --> 00:22:04,323

Number three,

 

725

00:22:04,456 --> 00:22:06,992

the greater well-being.

 

726

00:22:06,992 --> 00:22:10,595

So people would take a vacation.

 

727

00:22:11,463 --> 00:22:13,799

And I look this up,

 

728

00:22:13,799 --> 00:22:16,168

they score on the I'm going to read

 

729

00:22:16,368 --> 00:22:20,572

the Gallup Heath Way Well-Being index.

 

730

00:22:22,174 --> 00:22:25,377

People who take vacations, they score 68

 

731

00:22:26,011 --> 00:22:27,879

people who don't take vacations,

 

732

00:22:27,879 --> 00:22:29,948

score 51.

 

733

00:22:29,948 --> 00:22:30,749

So I'm going to say that

 

734

00:22:30,749 --> 00:22:32,250

one more time, please.

 

735

00:22:32,250 --> 00:22:35,854

Gallup heath way well-being index.

 

736

00:22:36,521 --> 00:22:38,657

I have looked everywhere to try to

 

737

00:22:39,191 --> 00:22:40,225

take this test.

 

738

00:22:40,225 --> 00:22:42,861

I want to see where I'm at.

 

739

00:22:43,862 --> 00:22:44,596

The Gallup

 

740

00:22:44,596 --> 00:22:47,866

heath way well-being.

 

741

00:22:47,866 --> 00:22:49,167

You're writing that down.

 

742

00:22:49,167 --> 00:22:52,437

That poll brought to you by Hilton.

 

743

00:22:52,437 --> 00:22:53,071

Hotel.

 

744

00:22:53,205 --> 00:22:54,940

Hotel chain.

 

745

00:22:57,075 --> 00:22:57,609

It's.

 

746

00:22:59,711 --> 00:23:01,480

I don't know about that, man.

 

747

00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,181

Oh, I want you to take that.

 

748

00:23:03,181 --> 00:23:04,082

You know what?

 

749

00:23:04,082 --> 00:23:05,751

We got to find it,

 

750

00:23:05,751 --> 00:23:07,719

and you and I both have to take it.

 

751

00:23:07,719 --> 00:23:08,286

I would

 

752

00:23:08,286 --> 00:23:09,621

I would gladly take that

 

753

00:23:09,621 --> 00:23:11,456

because I maintain

 

754

00:23:11,456 --> 00:23:12,758

I like my little

 

755

00:23:12,758 --> 00:23:14,393

I give me a day fish on a weekend.

 

756

00:23:14,393 --> 00:23:15,260

I'm happy.

 

757

00:23:15,260 --> 00:23:16,194

I really doesn't take much

 

758

00:23:16,194 --> 00:23:16,862

to make me happy.

 

759

00:23:16,862 --> 00:23:18,363

I love what I do. I love working.

 

760

00:23:18,363 --> 00:23:20,665

I really, truly do. I love the job.

 

761

00:23:20,665 --> 00:23:22,234

I love the challenge, I love the job.

 

762

00:23:22,234 --> 00:23:25,270

I so I don't need a lot of vacation time.

 

763

00:23:25,570 --> 00:23:27,172

I need sometimes like a

 

764

00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,908

little downtime to recover.

 

765

00:23:29,908 --> 00:23:31,243

And then even that

 

766

00:23:31,243 --> 00:23:32,644

I enjoy, I start thinking,

 

767

00:23:32,644 --> 00:23:34,246

all right, what do I got to do?

 

768

00:23:34,246 --> 00:23:35,547

And then that I get

 

769

00:23:35,547 --> 00:23:37,249

I get geared up and I go

 

770

00:23:37,249 --> 00:23:39,551

and and Judy lets me do it

 

771

00:23:39,851 --> 00:23:42,587

and which is heaven for me, you know,

 

772

00:23:42,587 --> 00:23:43,922

that's my passion, whatever.

 

773

00:23:43,922 --> 00:23:45,524

So I don't,

 

774

00:23:45,524 --> 00:23:46,491

I don't really need

 

775

00:23:46,491 --> 00:23:48,226

a lot of vacation time.

 

776

00:23:48,226 --> 00:23:49,561

I really don't.

 

777

00:23:49,661 --> 00:23:52,264

Now, when we did that episode on stress.

 

778

00:23:52,664 --> 00:23:53,398

Mm hmm.

 

779

00:23:54,533 --> 00:23:55,767

What's your problem?

 

780

00:23:55,767 --> 00:23:58,036

I was.

 

781

00:23:58,036 --> 00:23:58,804

I was wondering

 

782

00:23:58,804 --> 00:24:00,238

where you were going to go with fishing.

 

783

00:24:00,238 --> 00:24:01,106

I thought you were going to say,

 

784

00:24:01,106 --> 00:24:03,708

Oh, fishing. That's my

 

785

00:24:03,708 --> 00:24:05,210

that's my stress free zone.

 

786

00:24:05,210 --> 00:24:07,379

When I'm fishing. Absolutely not.

 

787

00:24:08,013 --> 00:24:09,214

You're a competitive guy.

 

788

00:24:09,214 --> 00:24:12,350

So I think straight fishing just.

 

789

00:24:12,350 --> 00:24:13,151

Yeah.

 

790

00:24:13,151 --> 00:24:14,886

Hey, you know, the other thing?

 

791

00:24:14,886 --> 00:24:17,489

I've known you for a while.

 

792

00:24:17,489 --> 00:24:19,090

Some people embrace stress.

 

793

00:24:20,625 --> 00:24:22,561

I think you're one of those.

 

794

00:24:22,561 --> 00:24:25,163

But I think you could be a carrier.

 

795

00:24:25,297 --> 00:24:27,466

You're a carrier. I could be.

 

796

00:24:27,499 --> 00:24:29,434

I am fishing.

 

797

00:24:29,434 --> 00:24:30,869

Not in a bad way.

 

798

00:24:30,869 --> 00:24:35,941

Yeah, I told you that game fish

 

799

00:24:35,941 --> 00:24:36,341

with that.

 

800

00:24:36,341 --> 00:24:38,743

We can't fish in the same boat anymore.

 

801

00:24:38,743 --> 00:24:42,380

Years ago, we went.

 

802

00:24:42,547 --> 00:24:43,248

We went fishing

 

803

00:24:43,248 --> 00:24:44,616

and I told him

 

804

00:24:44,616 --> 00:24:46,852

in the nicest way possible.

 

805

00:24:46,852 --> 00:24:49,888

I said, Paul,

 

806

00:24:49,888 --> 00:24:50,822

my cousin is going to go

 

807

00:24:50,822 --> 00:24:52,290

with us on this trip.

 

808

00:24:52,290 --> 00:24:52,691

Okay.

 

809

00:24:52,691 --> 00:24:54,926

So he's not really a fisherman,

 

810

00:24:54,926 --> 00:24:56,161

you know, but Asia is.

 

811

00:24:56,161 --> 00:24:56,928

I really like him.

 

812

00:24:56,928 --> 00:24:57,362

He's you know, he's

 

813

00:24:57,362 --> 00:24:58,497

because he's a good guy.

 

814

00:24:58,497 --> 00:25:00,031

So, you know,

 

815

00:25:00,031 --> 00:25:01,032

let's just kind of,

 

816

00:25:01,032 --> 00:25:03,635

you know, it's just going to be nice.

 

817

00:25:03,735 --> 00:25:05,070

It's going to be on our best behavior,

 

818

00:25:05,070 --> 00:25:05,303

you know?

 

819

00:25:05,303 --> 00:25:05,871

I mean,

 

820

00:25:05,871 --> 00:25:09,541

you know, on this trip, oh, my God.

 

821

00:25:09,541 --> 00:25:11,910

First of all, the boat is 20 feet long.

 

822

00:25:12,210 --> 00:25:13,845

He's no more than 12 inches

 

823

00:25:13,845 --> 00:25:15,714

apart from me at any given time,

 

824

00:25:15,714 --> 00:25:17,649

because if there was another four inches

 

825

00:25:17,649 --> 00:25:18,416

on the front of the boat,

 

826

00:25:18,416 --> 00:25:20,185

we would both be standing on it

 

827

00:25:20,185 --> 00:25:22,320

to get the advantage in casting.

 

828

00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:26,157

And we are I mean, and at one point

 

829

00:25:26,157 --> 00:25:26,691

my cousin

 

830

00:25:26,691 --> 00:25:27,225

that I brought,

 

831

00:25:27,225 --> 00:25:28,093

he put his pole down,

 

832

00:25:28,093 --> 00:25:30,529

he just started laughing his ass off

 

833

00:25:30,529 --> 00:25:31,596

and he goes,

 

834

00:25:31,596 --> 00:25:32,797

I've never seen anything like this

 

835

00:25:32,797 --> 00:25:33,865

in my life.

 

836

00:25:33,865 --> 00:25:35,166

This is like a no kind of fishing

 

837

00:25:35,166 --> 00:25:36,468

I've ever seen before, man.

 

838

00:25:36,468 --> 00:25:37,669

I thought we were going to go out,

 

839

00:25:37,669 --> 00:25:38,937

have a nice time.

 

840

00:25:38,937 --> 00:25:41,172

You know, the waves rocking the boat

 

841

00:25:41,172 --> 00:25:42,007

a little bit, maybe.

 

842

00:25:42,007 --> 00:25:43,174

You know, we have the sandwich

 

843

00:25:43,174 --> 00:25:44,743

in, you know, in the sun and everything.

 

844

00:25:44,743 --> 00:25:47,078

You guys are out of control, man.

 

845

00:25:47,078 --> 00:25:47,612

He goes,

 

846

00:25:47,612 --> 00:25:49,848

You guys do this every time you go.

 

847

00:25:49,848 --> 00:25:51,883

We looked at it like in shame,

 

848

00:25:51,883 --> 00:25:53,018

you know what I mean?

 

849

00:25:53,018 --> 00:25:54,619

Like, he called us both out.

 

850

00:25:55,987 --> 00:25:57,455

Then we continued to fish.

 

851

00:25:57,455 --> 00:25:59,858

So to the point where

 

852

00:26:00,025 --> 00:26:03,662

we we put the boat in the water,

 

853

00:26:03,662 --> 00:26:03,995

I don't know.

 

854

00:26:03,995 --> 00:26:06,131

Around four in the afternoon

 

855

00:26:06,131 --> 00:26:08,133

we fish now start now.

 

856

00:26:08,133 --> 00:26:09,267

It's like two in the morning.

 

857

00:26:09,267 --> 00:26:10,702

Okay, we're still fishing.

 

858

00:26:10,702 --> 00:26:12,237

I take that back. I'm still fishing.

 

859

00:26:12,237 --> 00:26:13,638

The other two fell asleep.

 

860

00:26:13,638 --> 00:26:15,073

We hadn't done anything right.

 

861

00:26:15,073 --> 00:26:17,042

But I'm not going to take this downtime.

 

862

00:26:17,042 --> 00:26:17,776

I'm going to, you know,

 

863

00:26:17,776 --> 00:26:19,578

I got to keep fishing.

 

864

00:26:19,711 --> 00:26:21,212

So I caught one to

 

865

00:26:21,212 --> 00:26:22,847

put the beautiful three or four pounder

 

866

00:26:22,847 --> 00:26:24,115

I can't remember. Doesn't matter.

 

867

00:26:24,115 --> 00:26:25,850

And I flipped it right into Paul's lap

 

868

00:26:25,850 --> 00:26:27,152

while he was sleeping.

 

869

00:26:27,152 --> 00:26:30,055

And I go and I go, Yes, yes.

 

870

00:26:30,355 --> 00:26:35,660

You slept, you loser.

 

871

00:26:35,660 --> 00:26:36,328

Like my

 

872

00:26:36,328 --> 00:26:40,065

cousin never went with this anymore.

 

873

00:26:40,065 --> 00:26:41,132

I have a nickname

 

874

00:26:42,100 --> 00:26:43,802

when I'm fishing with.

 

875

00:26:43,802 --> 00:26:44,669

When we used to fish

 

876

00:26:44,669 --> 00:26:45,437

with Patrick,

 

877

00:26:45,437 --> 00:26:49,174

Peter and my son, I had a nickname.

 

878

00:26:49,174 --> 00:26:51,710

They called me Angry Bob.

 

879

00:26:51,710 --> 00:26:52,677

Matter of fact, they even.

 

880

00:26:52,677 --> 00:26:54,779

I'll show you a picture of a they.

 

881

00:26:54,779 --> 00:26:56,047

They made a little bobber

 

882

00:26:56,047 --> 00:26:57,916

with an angry face and gave it to me

 

883

00:26:57,916 --> 00:26:58,984

one time

 

884

00:27:00,085 --> 00:27:03,655

and got a spear, looked at me one day

 

885

00:27:04,189 --> 00:27:05,690

and he goes, You know,

 

886

00:27:05,690 --> 00:27:08,159

nobody wants to fish with angry Bob.

 

887

00:27:08,159 --> 00:27:09,661

Wow. You know.

 

888

00:27:09,928 --> 00:27:11,496

What are you angry about?

 

889

00:27:11,496 --> 00:27:13,098

Oh, I just used to get pissed

 

890

00:27:13,098 --> 00:27:15,634

if they weren't, you know, fishing or

 

891

00:27:16,568 --> 00:27:19,804

fighting, they weren't biting, you know?

 

892

00:27:19,804 --> 00:27:20,138

And I

 

893

00:27:20,138 --> 00:27:22,173

it was my boat, so,

 

894

00:27:22,173 --> 00:27:22,440

you know,

 

895

00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,275

I wanted to go where I wanted to go.

 

896

00:27:24,275 --> 00:27:24,943

And,

 

897

00:27:26,277 --> 00:27:27,512

you know, I got the

 

898

00:27:27,512 --> 00:27:28,980

I got the fish finder.

 

899

00:27:28,980 --> 00:27:29,681

And I used

 

900

00:27:29,681 --> 00:27:31,349

they just used to laugh like hell

 

901

00:27:31,349 --> 00:27:32,550

because they'd be

 

902

00:27:32,550 --> 00:27:34,386

constantly looking at that fish finder,

 

903

00:27:34,386 --> 00:27:35,654

you know, there, there, there, there.

 

904

00:27:35,654 --> 00:27:36,321

And, and

 

905

00:27:37,355 --> 00:27:39,157

so yeah, I used to.

 

906

00:27:39,157 --> 00:27:40,925

Yeah, it was just

 

907

00:27:40,925 --> 00:27:43,061

I loved it, but it was yeah.

 

908

00:27:43,728 --> 00:27:44,596

Stressful.

 

909

00:27:45,096 --> 00:27:46,197

Well, here's the other thing.

 

910

00:27:46,197 --> 00:27:47,198

You know, it was I tell you

 

911

00:27:47,198 --> 00:27:49,100

what else was stressful

 

912

00:27:49,100 --> 00:27:51,136

was fishing with Bum.

 

913

00:27:51,603 --> 00:27:52,237

There was one day

 

914

00:27:52,237 --> 00:27:53,204

him and I were in the boat,

 

915

00:27:53,204 --> 00:27:55,640

just him and I he's catching.

 

916

00:27:56,207 --> 00:27:57,142

He's hung over.

 

917

00:27:57,142 --> 00:28:00,011

I mean, I don't think he went to bed.

 

918

00:28:00,011 --> 00:28:00,812

I picked him up

 

919

00:28:00,812 --> 00:28:03,715

and I'm pretty sure he never went to bed.

 

920

00:28:03,715 --> 00:28:04,649

So he's in.

 

921

00:28:04,649 --> 00:28:07,252

Ruff, ruff, ruff shape

 

922

00:28:07,252 --> 00:28:09,821

and we're flipping docks

 

923

00:28:09,821 --> 00:28:12,157

and I'm doing exactly what he's doing.

 

924

00:28:12,157 --> 00:28:13,458

I'm using the same kind of stuff.

 

925

00:28:13,458 --> 00:28:17,062

He's he's catching I'm getting nothing.

 

926

00:28:17,562 --> 00:28:18,096

Yeah.

 

927

00:28:18,830 --> 00:28:19,564

So, you know,

 

928

00:28:19,564 --> 00:28:21,099

this is going on for a while

 

929

00:28:21,099 --> 00:28:24,302

and now the sun starts to hit him and he

 

930

00:28:24,302 --> 00:28:24,602

goes, I'm

 

931

00:28:24,602 --> 00:28:26,705

just going to shut my eyes for a second,

 

932

00:28:26,705 --> 00:28:28,139

you know? Yeah.

 

933

00:28:28,139 --> 00:28:29,407

And now we're,

 

934

00:28:29,407 --> 00:28:31,910

we're throwing stuff on top of lily pads

 

935

00:28:31,910 --> 00:28:32,544

and we're in a different

 

936

00:28:32,544 --> 00:28:33,211

part of the lake,

 

937

00:28:33,211 --> 00:28:34,112

and we're on top of the lily

 

938

00:28:34,112 --> 00:28:36,514

pad and stuff, and he's nailing them.

 

939

00:28:36,514 --> 00:28:37,916

Still nothing.

 

940

00:28:37,916 --> 00:28:39,384

So he goes to sleep and I go,

 

941

00:28:40,518 --> 00:28:43,021

I take his pole.

 

942

00:28:43,388 --> 00:28:44,856

Yeah.

 

943

00:28:44,856 --> 00:28:47,025

With the exact same thing he's using.

 

944

00:28:47,492 --> 00:28:52,263

I'm doing exactly what he was doing.

 

945

00:28:52,263 --> 00:28:54,065

Nothing, nothing, nothing.

 

946

00:28:54,065 --> 00:28:56,868

Meanwhile, he's watching me, right?

 

947

00:28:56,868 --> 00:28:58,837

I thought he was sleeping. Yeah.

 

948

00:28:58,837 --> 00:29:00,538

And then, like, under his breath,

 

949

00:29:00,538 --> 00:29:01,673

he's like,

 

950

00:29:01,673 --> 00:29:02,807

My pole is not working for you

 

951

00:29:02,807 --> 00:29:03,541

either, huh?

 

952

00:29:03,541 --> 00:29:05,677

And then he gets up.

 

953

00:29:05,677 --> 00:29:07,011

I swear, he does, like,

 

954

00:29:07,011 --> 00:29:08,313

you know, three tosses

 

955

00:29:08,313 --> 00:29:09,214

and gets another one.

 

956

00:29:09,214 --> 00:29:11,316

I'm like, this is just,

 

957

00:29:11,316 --> 00:29:11,916

I don't know,

 

958

00:29:11,916 --> 00:29:13,184

sometimes the fishing guys

 

959

00:29:13,184 --> 00:29:15,420

just don't look well down on me.

 

960

00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,522

So no fishing? No.

 

961

00:29:17,522 --> 00:29:19,224

Yeah, I love fishing.

 

962

00:29:19,224 --> 00:29:20,058

I would actually, like,

 

963

00:29:20,058 --> 00:29:21,526

go fishing with you one day.

 

964

00:29:21,526 --> 00:29:22,460

I really would.

 

965

00:29:22,460 --> 00:29:25,396

We we had but then out of bucket list.

 

966

00:29:25,396 --> 00:29:26,564

Yeah I would.

 

967

00:29:26,564 --> 00:29:28,600

I think we could have some laughs.

 

968

00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,535

Yeah I know we would.

 

969

00:29:30,535 --> 00:29:32,637

But like two years ago

 

970

00:29:33,171 --> 00:29:35,240

my grandson was in efficient contests

 

971

00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,541

for a school,

 

972

00:29:36,708 --> 00:29:37,242

so I said, Well,

 

973

00:29:37,242 --> 00:29:37,776

let's just go

 

974

00:29:37,776 --> 00:29:39,444

down to the little lake in town.

 

975

00:29:39,444 --> 00:29:40,812

Everybody fishes off of the.

 

976

00:29:42,413 --> 00:29:44,249

So I'm, you know,

 

977

00:29:44,249 --> 00:29:44,783

teaching my

 

978

00:29:44,783 --> 00:29:47,819

grandson how to fish bums with his kids,

 

979

00:29:47,819 --> 00:29:50,321

you know, are all the grandsons are there

 

980

00:29:51,322 --> 00:29:53,458

from the from the shore.

 

981

00:29:54,826 --> 00:29:56,628

He catches a four pounder.

 

982

00:29:56,628 --> 00:29:57,462

Wow.

 

983

00:29:57,662 --> 00:29:59,597

And I was like, how the

 

984

00:29:59,697 --> 00:30:02,033

I was right there how did it not you know

 

985

00:30:03,301 --> 00:30:03,868

I don't know.

 

986

00:30:03,868 --> 00:30:05,470

Some people have it.

 

987

00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:07,105

Yeah well sometimes it's

 

988

00:30:07,105 --> 00:30:08,273

just your day too.

 

989

00:30:08,273 --> 00:30:10,475

So there's that.

 

990

00:30:11,009 --> 00:30:11,810

Here's the other thing

 

991

00:30:11,810 --> 00:30:13,778

about taking time off.

 

992

00:30:13,778 --> 00:30:16,981

So you got a 3000 square foot job to do

 

993

00:30:16,981 --> 00:30:18,116

and it's it is cut up

 

994

00:30:18,116 --> 00:30:18,783

and there's stairs

 

995

00:30:18,783 --> 00:30:20,051

and there's a lot of hand scraping

 

996

00:30:20,051 --> 00:30:22,020

and whatever that are going on.

 

997

00:30:22,020 --> 00:30:24,489

And when your work takes takes day off,

 

998

00:30:25,423 --> 00:30:27,358

like I look at him

 

999

00:30:27,358 --> 00:30:29,260

like he's abandoned his post.

 

1000

00:30:29,260 --> 00:30:29,861

You know what I mean?

 

1001

00:30:31,729 --> 00:30:32,063

And the

 

1002

00:30:32,063 --> 00:30:33,565

every day that I'm hand scraping, I'm

 

1003

00:30:33,565 --> 00:30:34,899

thinking about him.

 

1004

00:30:34,899 --> 00:30:36,000

It could have been you're helping us.

 

1005

00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:36,301

But he

 

1006

00:30:36,301 --> 00:30:37,502

selfishly took time off

 

1007

00:30:37,502 --> 00:30:39,337

to be with his family.

 

1008

00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:40,772

Is

 

1009

00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,575

why do you have to go to the funeral?

 

1010

00:30:43,575 --> 00:30:45,410

You're not going to bring him back?

 

1011

00:30:45,410 --> 00:30:50,715

Yeah, exactly.

 

1012

00:30:50,715 --> 00:30:52,083

I think the weeks that they do

 

1013

00:30:52,083 --> 00:30:53,818

wakes at night, go to the wake at night.

 

1014

00:30:53,818 --> 00:30:55,854

Yes. And the other day.

 

1015

00:30:55,854 --> 00:30:57,455

Yeah. Come on.

 

1016

00:30:57,455 --> 00:30:58,723

Killing us.

 

1017

00:30:58,823 --> 00:31:01,659

So remember everybody, that is the Gallup

 

1018

00:31:02,727 --> 00:31:06,331

data heat waves well-being index.

 

1019

00:31:07,031 --> 00:31:08,700

I'm going to find it.

 

1020

00:31:08,700 --> 00:31:09,968

I'm going to send you one.

 

1021

00:31:09,968 --> 00:31:10,835

I want to take one.

 

1022

00:31:10,835 --> 00:31:12,103

I just want to know what our scores

 

1023

00:31:12,103 --> 00:31:12,737

are going to be.

 

1024

00:31:12,737 --> 00:31:13,238

Oh, I'm

 

1025

00:31:13,238 --> 00:31:14,005

not that not

 

1026

00:31:14,005 --> 00:31:15,273

that one is going to be better

 

1027

00:31:15,273 --> 00:31:16,307

than the other.

 

1028

00:31:16,307 --> 00:31:16,741

Yeah.

 

1029

00:31:16,741 --> 00:31:18,843

No, of course.

 

1030

00:31:18,843 --> 00:31:20,411

You know, everything is a competition

 

1031

00:31:20,411 --> 00:31:21,079

you talking about.

 

1032

00:31:22,914 --> 00:31:23,248

All right.

 

1033

00:31:23,248 --> 00:31:23,581

Rob.

 

1034

00:31:23,581 --> 00:31:24,649

So we we

 

1035

00:31:24,649 --> 00:31:26,651

we took a poll of some

 

1036

00:31:26,651 --> 00:31:27,852

super good contractor

 

1037

00:31:27,852 --> 00:31:29,921

ers and the same contractors

 

1038

00:31:29,921 --> 00:31:31,823

that were kind enough to work with this

 

1039

00:31:31,823 --> 00:31:33,591

or answer our questions on the,

 

1040

00:31:33,591 --> 00:31:35,793

the podcast we did on pressure.

 

1041

00:31:35,793 --> 00:31:37,528

And so I'm just going to name

 

1042

00:31:37,528 --> 00:31:38,329

some of these guys

 

1043

00:31:38,329 --> 00:31:39,130

that that were

 

1044

00:31:39,130 --> 00:31:40,231

we spoke with

 

1045

00:31:40,231 --> 00:31:43,001

with is Adam busy floors by the shore

 

1046

00:31:43,001 --> 00:31:43,668

Dan Gorse

 

1047

00:31:43,668 --> 00:31:45,670

and Jeremy Gorse and your brothers.

 

1048

00:31:45,670 --> 00:31:47,305

Bill Powell.

 

1049

00:31:47,305 --> 00:31:49,140

Bill Power pal hardwood floors.

 

1050

00:31:49,140 --> 00:31:50,642

Cesar Cardona.

 

1051

00:31:50,642 --> 00:31:53,144

Record owner hardwood floors.

 

1052

00:31:53,144 --> 00:31:54,345

Real antique wood floors.

 

1053

00:31:54,345 --> 00:31:55,780

Gary Horvath

 

1054

00:31:55,980 --> 00:31:57,916

and David Everly

 

1055

00:31:57,916 --> 00:32:00,151

with Everly Hardwood floors.

 

1056

00:32:00,151 --> 00:32:01,552

And I mean, that's a

 

1057

00:32:01,552 --> 00:32:02,520

who's who right there

 

1058

00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,022

as an all star team.

 

1059

00:32:04,022 --> 00:32:04,722

So let's

 

1060

00:32:04,722 --> 00:32:04,956

go ahead

 

1061

00:32:04,956 --> 00:32:07,592

and listen to what they had to say.

 

1062

00:32:07,592 --> 00:32:10,061

For me, we didn't really take vacations.

 

1063

00:32:10,061 --> 00:32:13,231

We were we were pretty much gung

 

1064

00:32:13,231 --> 00:32:14,532

ho the whole time,

 

1065

00:32:14,532 --> 00:32:16,334

you know, balls to the walls all the

 

1066

00:32:16,334 --> 00:32:17,101

time, just work.

 

1067

00:32:19,037 --> 00:32:19,804

And then

 

1068

00:32:19,904 --> 00:32:20,505

because I felt

 

1069

00:32:20,505 --> 00:32:21,606

guilty that

 

1070

00:32:21,606 --> 00:32:22,807

I would be off,

 

1071

00:32:22,807 --> 00:32:24,309

the guys would be working.

 

1072

00:32:24,309 --> 00:32:27,578

And then when it came

 

1073

00:32:27,578 --> 00:32:29,380

that the cost,

 

1074

00:32:29,380 --> 00:32:32,517

the customer or the guys would call me.

 

1075

00:32:32,517 --> 00:32:34,352

So I'm on vacation,

 

1076

00:32:34,352 --> 00:32:36,321

I'm straight, I'll work it now.

 

1077

00:32:36,321 --> 00:32:38,122

I'm on the phone anyway, so

 

1078

00:32:38,122 --> 00:32:40,825

I would like to schedule the time

 

1079

00:32:41,225 --> 00:32:43,995

that I did have off

 

1080

00:32:43,995 --> 00:32:46,164

around long holidays in between

 

1081

00:32:46,164 --> 00:32:47,365

special times,

 

1082

00:32:47,365 --> 00:32:48,633

and then know that

 

1083

00:32:48,633 --> 00:32:49,834

if I could send them on a job

 

1084

00:32:49,834 --> 00:32:50,935

that didn't require

 

1085

00:32:50,935 --> 00:32:53,972

any homeowner participation,

 

1086

00:32:54,272 --> 00:32:55,807

it made it a little easier.

 

1087

00:32:55,807 --> 00:32:58,209

But that was that was it for me.

 

1088

00:32:58,676 --> 00:32:59,510

It's a different life

 

1089

00:32:59,510 --> 00:33:01,746

now, but for my guys now, it's

 

1090

00:33:02,313 --> 00:33:03,982

they're allowed to take vacation.

 

1091

00:33:03,982 --> 00:33:06,150

I allow them to have that opportunity

 

1092

00:33:06,451 --> 00:33:07,051

to tell me

 

1093

00:33:07,051 --> 00:33:08,453

when they're going to want a vacation.

 

1094

00:33:08,453 --> 00:33:09,587

I like it.

 

1095

00:33:09,587 --> 00:33:12,123

Let's say get at least a month's notice.

 

1096

00:33:12,390 --> 00:33:14,492

At least that gives me an opportunity

 

1097

00:33:14,492 --> 00:33:15,593

to schedule around

 

1098

00:33:15,593 --> 00:33:16,260

which jobs

 

1099

00:33:16,260 --> 00:33:16,995

we're going to do, for

 

1100

00:33:16,995 --> 00:33:20,164

which guy that I may have their needs.

 

1101

00:33:20,164 --> 00:33:21,699

And if the customers can wait,

 

1102

00:33:21,699 --> 00:33:23,601

which they usually do, they'll wait.

 

1103

00:33:23,601 --> 00:33:24,736

But I'll you know,

 

1104

00:33:24,736 --> 00:33:26,204

I'm okay with the guys

 

1105

00:33:26,204 --> 00:33:28,272

taking off on vacation

 

1106

00:33:28,639 --> 00:33:30,241

and I'm not happy

 

1107

00:33:30,241 --> 00:33:32,310

when they miss after a holiday.

 

1108

00:33:32,310 --> 00:33:33,378

Yeah, you know, that

 

1109

00:33:33,378 --> 00:33:34,746

kind of gets under my coat

 

1110

00:33:34,746 --> 00:33:36,114

that I've paid them for the holiday

 

1111

00:33:36,114 --> 00:33:37,582

they take the next day.

 

1112

00:33:37,582 --> 00:33:39,250

That is the, the part

 

1113

00:33:39,250 --> 00:33:40,451

that we have a little bit of

 

1114

00:33:42,353 --> 00:33:43,488

resistance on because I

 

1115

00:33:43,488 --> 00:33:44,389

tell them this way, you know,

 

1116

00:33:44,389 --> 00:33:45,723

I can't pay you for the holiday

 

1117

00:33:45,723 --> 00:33:47,959

because you took the next day off. Yeah.

 

1118

00:33:48,026 --> 00:33:51,029

And sometimes it's hard

 

1119

00:33:51,029 --> 00:33:53,364

with certain people that they don't get

 

1120

00:33:53,364 --> 00:33:54,465

that makes sense, you know.

 

1121

00:33:54,465 --> 00:33:56,334

So what do you do about vacation?

 

1122

00:33:56,334 --> 00:33:57,535

You said obligation yourself.

 

1123

00:33:57,535 --> 00:33:58,202

Take a lot.

 

1124

00:33:58,202 --> 00:33:58,803

Do you really?

 

1125

00:33:58,803 --> 00:33:59,303

I try.

 

1126

00:33:59,303 --> 00:34:01,472

I do try my I do try.

 

1127

00:34:01,472 --> 00:34:02,340

And it's tough.

 

1128

00:34:02,340 --> 00:34:03,541

You know, I'm fortunate

 

1129

00:34:03,541 --> 00:34:06,477

because my father and I are partners.

 

1130

00:34:07,045 --> 00:34:09,113

So I can

 

1131

00:34:09,113 --> 00:34:12,383

you know, he can he can hold the ball.

 

1132

00:34:13,051 --> 00:34:15,386

And I do the same for him.

 

1133

00:34:15,386 --> 00:34:15,720

You know,

 

1134

00:34:15,720 --> 00:34:17,622

he's he's kind of stepped back

 

1135

00:34:17,622 --> 00:34:19,123

as far as

 

1136

00:34:19,157 --> 00:34:19,891

doing anything

 

1137

00:34:19,891 --> 00:34:21,592

like running the business wise.

 

1138

00:34:21,592 --> 00:34:22,894

He's just

 

1139

00:34:22,894 --> 00:34:25,463

in the field, wants to just work and,

 

1140

00:34:25,730 --> 00:34:27,598

you know, take care of things.

 

1141

00:34:27,598 --> 00:34:29,133

So, you know,

 

1142

00:34:29,133 --> 00:34:29,600

I can

 

1143

00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,601

I can go away

 

1144

00:34:30,601 --> 00:34:32,537

and have a nice kind of peak.

 

1145

00:34:32,537 --> 00:34:33,971

My phone never stops.

 

1146

00:34:33,971 --> 00:34:34,605

But yeah,

 

1147

00:34:34,839 --> 00:34:36,274

it don't matter where, you know, it

 

1148

00:34:36,274 --> 00:34:37,341

don't matter.

 

1149

00:34:37,341 --> 00:34:38,576

I'm on vacation or not.

 

1150

00:34:38,576 --> 00:34:40,511

The phone goes with me and you,

 

1151

00:34:40,511 --> 00:34:42,346

but it comes with the territory,

 

1152

00:34:42,346 --> 00:34:42,713

you know.

 

1153

00:34:42,713 --> 00:34:44,816

But it's it's one of the things

 

1154

00:34:44,816 --> 00:34:45,983

I got to take.

 

1155

00:34:45,983 --> 00:34:46,784

I got to get away.

 

1156

00:34:46,784 --> 00:34:48,553

Yeah. If I don't, you know. Yeah.

 

1157

00:34:48,553 --> 00:34:49,720

Then what's it all for?

 

1158

00:34:49,720 --> 00:34:51,089

So years ago

 

1159

00:34:51,089 --> 00:34:52,924

didn't take a lot of education time.

 

1160

00:34:52,924 --> 00:34:56,194

My kids were younger, and I can say that

 

1161

00:34:56,194 --> 00:34:57,662

I probably missed a lot of things

 

1162

00:34:57,662 --> 00:34:59,430

that I shouldn't have.

 

1163

00:34:59,430 --> 00:35:01,432

As I've gotten older, I've realized that

 

1164

00:35:02,433 --> 00:35:03,000

the important

 

1165

00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,303

stuff oftentimes happens when you're

 

1166

00:35:05,336 --> 00:35:06,170

when you're on vacation,

 

1167

00:35:06,170 --> 00:35:08,372

you know, S.W.A.T. time for it.

 

1168

00:35:08,372 --> 00:35:09,807

But I can also say that

 

1169

00:35:09,807 --> 00:35:11,342

I'm fortunate that over the years

 

1170

00:35:11,342 --> 00:35:13,478

I've been able to grow my team

 

1171

00:35:13,478 --> 00:35:15,146

and giving my team

 

1172

00:35:15,146 --> 00:35:16,981

the ability to make decisions

 

1173

00:35:16,981 --> 00:35:19,016

and to handle things when I'm not there,

 

1174

00:35:19,684 --> 00:35:22,487

to empower them to do their job

 

1175

00:35:22,753 --> 00:35:25,089

and not have to micromanage them

 

1176

00:35:25,089 --> 00:35:25,590

all the time

 

1177

00:35:25,590 --> 00:35:27,191

has also made a really big difference.

 

1178

00:35:27,191 --> 00:35:30,128

So give yourself a primer who you know

 

1179

00:35:30,161 --> 00:35:30,962

deals with everything

 

1180

00:35:30,962 --> 00:35:32,663

and you don't feel that you can trust

 

1181

00:35:32,663 --> 00:35:34,499

the people that work for you.

 

1182

00:35:34,499 --> 00:35:35,266

You don't empower them

 

1183

00:35:35,266 --> 00:35:36,534

to make those decisions.

 

1184

00:35:36,534 --> 00:35:36,901

Then yeah,

 

1185

00:35:36,901 --> 00:35:38,803

you're going to be stuck having to

 

1186

00:35:38,803 --> 00:35:41,072

all the time making every decision.

 

1187

00:35:41,072 --> 00:35:42,607

But if you can get to a point,

 

1188

00:35:42,607 --> 00:35:44,408

whether it's with one person or ten,

 

1189

00:35:44,408 --> 00:35:46,477

where you're able to empower

 

1190

00:35:46,477 --> 00:35:46,744

the people

 

1191

00:35:46,744 --> 00:35:49,680

that work for you to make decisions, that

 

1192

00:35:50,248 --> 00:35:52,083

you trust them, you've trained them,

 

1193

00:35:52,083 --> 00:35:54,752

you've spent the time building your team.

 

1194

00:35:55,052 --> 00:35:55,887

Then if somebody's

 

1195

00:35:55,887 --> 00:35:57,021

going to make more time for you

 

1196

00:35:57,021 --> 00:35:58,089

to be able to take vacation.

 

1197

00:35:58,089 --> 00:35:59,891

So as I've gotten older and

 

1198

00:35:59,891 --> 00:36:00,791

and had I've been fortunate

 

1199

00:36:00,791 --> 00:36:02,126

to grow, my team

 

1200

00:36:02,126 --> 00:36:03,394

definitely take advantage of the fact

 

1201

00:36:03,394 --> 00:36:04,662

that I can take some vacation time.

 

1202

00:36:04,662 --> 00:36:05,563

When my kids were younger,

 

1203

00:36:05,563 --> 00:36:07,398

we used to make sure to schedule in

 

1204

00:36:07,398 --> 00:36:08,132

day vacation.

 

1205

00:36:08,132 --> 00:36:10,201

Now they're getting older

 

1206

00:36:10,201 --> 00:36:12,270

and they're, you know, above 20.

 

1207

00:36:12,270 --> 00:36:14,772

So we don't really do that so,

 

1208

00:36:14,872 --> 00:36:16,440

so much anymore.

 

1209

00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,675

We're able to go out

 

1210

00:36:17,675 --> 00:36:18,910

and do your fake inventory

 

1211

00:36:18,910 --> 00:36:20,011

and want to go out there

 

1212

00:36:20,011 --> 00:36:21,279

and make sure to spend an extra day

 

1213

00:36:21,279 --> 00:36:21,679

or two

 

1214

00:36:21,679 --> 00:36:24,015

and see some sites and try to get away.

 

1215

00:36:24,081 --> 00:36:25,449

Being a weekend here

 

1216

00:36:25,449 --> 00:36:27,785

and a weekend there for for local stuff.

 

1217

00:36:27,785 --> 00:36:28,853

I mean, if something comes up,

 

1218

00:36:28,853 --> 00:36:30,655

I want to think twice about going.

 

1219

00:36:30,655 --> 00:36:31,956

I am finally at this point,

 

1220

00:36:31,956 --> 00:36:32,623

but I would say it

 

1221

00:36:32,623 --> 00:36:34,458

took me a long time to get there

 

1222

00:36:34,458 --> 00:36:35,459

and it really took

 

1223

00:36:35,459 --> 00:36:36,961

hiring the right people,

 

1224

00:36:36,961 --> 00:36:39,063

like having awesome people

 

1225

00:36:39,063 --> 00:36:41,532

to pull together when you're away,

 

1226

00:36:41,966 --> 00:36:42,200

you know,

 

1227

00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:42,500

because it

 

1228

00:36:42,500 --> 00:36:43,367

almost seems like

 

1229

00:36:43,367 --> 00:36:44,735

it's not just one person

 

1230

00:36:44,735 --> 00:36:45,937

who can handle your duties

 

1231

00:36:45,937 --> 00:36:46,504

when you're away.

 

1232

00:36:46,504 --> 00:36:48,806

It's got to be several people.

 

1233

00:36:49,273 --> 00:36:51,809

So between my office

 

1234

00:36:51,809 --> 00:36:53,044

and my lead guys in the

 

1235

00:36:53,044 --> 00:36:54,212

in the field

 

1236

00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:56,113

together that they pulled together

 

1237

00:36:56,113 --> 00:36:56,948

and then I,

 

1238

00:36:56,948 --> 00:36:58,616

I really believe it or not,

 

1239

00:36:58,616 --> 00:36:59,784

I don't get that many calls.

 

1240

00:36:59,784 --> 00:37:00,751

But anyway,

 

1241

00:37:00,751 --> 00:37:02,520

and it's really that's what it is.

 

1242

00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:03,120

It's the calls

 

1243

00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,288

I create, stressing

 

1244

00:37:04,288 --> 00:37:05,556

even when you're away,

 

1245

00:37:05,556 --> 00:37:06,691

because you can't go

 

1246

00:37:06,691 --> 00:37:08,459

and take care of a situation.

 

1247

00:37:08,459 --> 00:37:10,461

So I have found that the less calls

 

1248

00:37:10,461 --> 00:37:10,795

you get

 

1249

00:37:10,795 --> 00:37:11,262

and the more

 

1250

00:37:11,262 --> 00:37:12,096

that you're relying

 

1251

00:37:12,096 --> 00:37:15,066

on your employees to handle situations

 

1252

00:37:15,066 --> 00:37:16,601

and you just let them do their thing,

 

1253

00:37:16,601 --> 00:37:18,302

whether it's right or wrong.

 

1254

00:37:18,302 --> 00:37:19,570

And if it's wrong,

 

1255

00:37:19,570 --> 00:37:20,304

educate them on

 

1256

00:37:20,304 --> 00:37:22,573

how you would have done it in the future.

 

1257

00:37:23,074 --> 00:37:24,642

The more I put faith in them,

 

1258

00:37:24,642 --> 00:37:26,043

the more it comes back to me

 

1259

00:37:26,043 --> 00:37:28,279

and being able to

 

1260

00:37:28,279 --> 00:37:29,880

relax and actually go on vacation

 

1261

00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,515

and join my family, it's great to do.

 

1262

00:37:31,515 --> 00:37:33,184

Now is planning ahead

 

1263

00:37:33,184 --> 00:37:33,985

and try to

 

1264

00:37:33,985 --> 00:37:34,485

you know

 

1265

00:37:34,485 --> 00:37:34,785

week or

 

1266

00:37:34,785 --> 00:37:36,153

two weeks are going to be all right

 

1267

00:37:36,153 --> 00:37:37,922

that don't leave too much work

 

1268

00:37:37,922 --> 00:37:38,823

just the necessary

 

1269

00:37:38,823 --> 00:37:39,123

of what

 

1270

00:37:39,123 --> 00:37:40,324

a regular customer you know

 

1271

00:37:40,324 --> 00:37:41,058

to make sure I'm

 

1272

00:37:41,058 --> 00:37:42,560

not going to get those calls

 

1273

00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,562

I get asked me, you know, for a roller

 

1274

00:37:44,562 --> 00:37:45,563

when don't go in the van.

 

1275

00:37:45,563 --> 00:37:46,264

And, you know, they don't

 

1276

00:37:46,264 --> 00:37:47,331

they have their roller there.

 

1277

00:37:47,331 --> 00:37:48,733

That's what I'm trying to either try to

 

1278

00:37:48,733 --> 00:37:50,701

they're trying to schedule the week,

 

1279

00:37:50,701 --> 00:37:52,036

you know, like week

 

1280

00:37:52,036 --> 00:37:54,238

to be able to enjoy it.

 

1281

00:37:54,238 --> 00:37:55,339

So that's interesting.

 

1282

00:37:55,339 --> 00:37:55,773

Okay.

 

1283

00:37:55,773 --> 00:37:56,841

So, you know,

 

1284

00:37:56,841 --> 00:37:57,908

I like to hear

 

1285

00:37:57,908 --> 00:37:59,043

I like to hear other people's

 

1286

00:37:59,043 --> 00:38:00,878

perspective on everything.

 

1287

00:38:00,878 --> 00:38:02,480

You take a guy like Adam Busy,

 

1288

00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,348

who is a man,

 

1289

00:38:04,348 --> 00:38:05,950

he's got so much responsibility

 

1290

00:38:05,950 --> 00:38:07,718

and he has so much on his plate.

 

1291

00:38:07,718 --> 00:38:10,121

And some of these other guys that

 

1292

00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:12,323

how they handle things

 

1293

00:38:12,323 --> 00:38:14,025

and how they're able to delegate

 

1294

00:38:14,025 --> 00:38:15,359

and and

 

1295

00:38:15,359 --> 00:38:16,694

I think it's super interesting to me.

 

1296

00:38:16,694 --> 00:38:18,963

And so we really appreciate them

 

1297

00:38:18,963 --> 00:38:20,431

coming on with us.

 

1298

00:38:20,431 --> 00:38:21,899

Yeah. Yeah.

 

1299

00:38:21,899 --> 00:38:22,800

You know, it's, you know,

 

1300

00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,002

like Dan was saying,

 

1301

00:38:25,369 --> 00:38:26,804

it's nice to have other people

 

1302

00:38:26,804 --> 00:38:29,473

you can trust and rely on

 

1303

00:38:29,473 --> 00:38:31,375

because going on vacation

 

1304

00:38:31,375 --> 00:38:32,743

is almost going to be impossible

 

1305

00:38:32,743 --> 00:38:35,012

if you can't. Yeah.

 

1306

00:38:35,012 --> 00:38:37,381

If you don't have that, that key person.

 

1307

00:38:37,848 --> 00:38:39,617

Everybody is wired differently

 

1308

00:38:39,617 --> 00:38:40,785

and I joke around a little bit.

 

1309

00:38:40,785 --> 00:38:41,886

But I mean, I am serious.

 

1310

00:38:41,886 --> 00:38:43,287

I really don't take a lot of vacations.

 

1311

00:38:43,287 --> 00:38:43,921

I but

 

1312

00:38:43,921 --> 00:38:45,456

but if you're someone that does

 

1313

00:38:45,456 --> 00:38:46,891

and needs to,

 

1314

00:38:46,957 --> 00:38:48,125

I think it's important to schedule

 

1315

00:38:48,125 --> 00:38:49,360

it really for your mental health.

 

1316

00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,328

I really do believe that.

 

1317

00:38:50,328 --> 00:38:52,196

And here's the thing, too.

 

1318

00:38:52,196 --> 00:38:53,898

When you schedule vacation

 

1319

00:38:53,898 --> 00:38:55,333

schedule, bring in your big machine

 

1320

00:38:55,333 --> 00:38:57,201

to get to get serviced,

 

1321

00:38:57,201 --> 00:38:59,337

bring your edger and your big machine

 

1322

00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:01,005

if one of your guys is going on vacation.

 

1323

00:39:01,005 --> 00:39:05,009

And Xavier, August 15th schedule

 

1324

00:39:05,009 --> 00:39:06,010

with your distributor,

 

1325

00:39:06,010 --> 00:39:07,411

have them

 

1326

00:39:07,478 --> 00:39:08,112

working on,

 

1327

00:39:08,112 --> 00:39:09,480

you know, maintain his machines

 

1328

00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:10,114

while he's gone

 

1329

00:39:10,114 --> 00:39:11,549

because we know how hard it is to do it

 

1330

00:39:11,549 --> 00:39:12,216

when when he's

 

1331

00:39:12,216 --> 00:39:12,950

when he's you know,

 

1332

00:39:12,950 --> 00:39:14,085

we can't turn the machines off

 

1333

00:39:14,085 --> 00:39:15,386

when everybody's working,

 

1334

00:39:15,386 --> 00:39:16,821

have the bills looked at

 

1335

00:39:16,821 --> 00:39:18,689

and the machines cleaned out brilliantly.

 

1336

00:39:18,689 --> 00:39:21,959

You're your distributor guy and and

 

1337

00:39:22,526 --> 00:39:24,628

and be grateful that you have

 

1338

00:39:24,628 --> 00:39:25,629

a distributor

 

1339

00:39:26,731 --> 00:39:28,399

or somebody that can work on the machines

 

1340

00:39:28,399 --> 00:39:30,234

because there are few and far between.

 

1341

00:39:30,234 --> 00:39:31,068

I mean, you think it's hard

 

1342

00:39:31,068 --> 00:39:33,671

to find a good mechanic to do floors

 

1343

00:39:34,605 --> 00:39:35,072

is it's

 

1344

00:39:35,072 --> 00:39:35,740

hard to find someone

 

1345

00:39:35,740 --> 00:39:37,174

to work on a machine.

 

1346

00:39:37,174 --> 00:39:38,042

And you know something

 

1347

00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:39,477

I'll tell you something else too,

 

1348

00:39:39,477 --> 00:39:40,878

about about distributors in this

 

1349

00:39:40,878 --> 00:39:42,747

in this industry.

 

1350

00:39:42,747 --> 00:39:43,948

I've talked to a lot of distributed

 

1351

00:39:43,948 --> 00:39:44,582

across the country.

 

1352

00:39:44,582 --> 00:39:45,516

And they don't make money

 

1353

00:39:45,516 --> 00:39:46,817

on these machines.

 

1354

00:39:46,817 --> 00:39:48,252

They really don't.

 

1355

00:39:48,319 --> 00:39:49,587

It's something that they do it

 

1356

00:39:49,587 --> 00:39:50,521

because it's a service.

 

1357

00:39:50,521 --> 00:39:52,523

It's a service their customer.

 

1358

00:39:52,523 --> 00:39:53,824

Service to the customer

 

1359

00:39:53,824 --> 00:39:55,226

and they don't make a lot of money

 

1360

00:39:55,226 --> 00:39:55,593

doing it.

 

1361

00:39:55,593 --> 00:39:55,960

And so

 

1362

00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,261

and you look at the amount of parts

 

1363

00:39:57,261 --> 00:39:59,029

that they have to stock

 

1364

00:39:59,029 --> 00:40:00,030

and how long they have to

 

1365

00:40:00,030 --> 00:40:01,832

hang onto those parts

 

1366

00:40:01,832 --> 00:40:05,202

that might turn one, one screw random

 

1367

00:40:05,202 --> 00:40:06,704

screw that they need

 

1368

00:40:06,704 --> 00:40:07,805

when someone else needs it

 

1369

00:40:07,805 --> 00:40:10,274

and it might sit there for two years.

 

1370

00:40:10,274 --> 00:40:11,809

That's not making any money off of them.

 

1371

00:40:12,943 --> 00:40:13,477

So, you

 

1372

00:40:13,477 --> 00:40:16,680

know, as many distributor

 

1373

00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,048

people as I talked to,

 

1374

00:40:18,048 --> 00:40:19,083

sometimes I talk

 

1375

00:40:19,083 --> 00:40:19,984

to someone who says, well,

 

1376

00:40:19,984 --> 00:40:22,052

I think I'd like to be a distributor or,

 

1377

00:40:22,052 --> 00:40:22,286

you know,

 

1378

00:40:22,286 --> 00:40:24,255

we thought about being a distributor too.

 

1379

00:40:24,255 --> 00:40:27,191

I think really have no idea

 

1380

00:40:27,691 --> 00:40:29,760

how hard it is to be a distributor

 

1381

00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,562

and how many ways that they get hit

 

1382

00:40:31,562 --> 00:40:32,730

from all different directions.

 

1383

00:40:32,730 --> 00:40:34,432

And everything is a very tough business

 

1384

00:40:34,432 --> 00:40:35,132

to do.

 

1385

00:40:35,132 --> 00:40:37,635

And I'm grateful,

 

1386

00:40:37,635 --> 00:40:39,570

you know, and when I look at

 

1387

00:40:39,570 --> 00:40:40,704

when we come into a distributor,

 

1388

00:40:40,704 --> 00:40:42,173

that's their house.

 

1389

00:40:42,173 --> 00:40:43,641

That's their house.

 

1390

00:40:43,641 --> 00:40:44,809

You know,

 

1391

00:40:44,809 --> 00:40:46,610

and they've put blood, sweat and tears

 

1392

00:40:46,610 --> 00:40:47,178

into that,

 

1393

00:40:47,178 --> 00:40:48,746

you know, every single day,

 

1394

00:40:48,746 --> 00:40:49,680

especially when they have

 

1395

00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,715

in multiple locations or whatever.

 

1396

00:40:51,715 --> 00:40:52,750

I mean, that's their

 

1397

00:40:52,750 --> 00:40:53,284

that's

 

1398

00:40:53,284 --> 00:40:54,418

every time they open one,

 

1399

00:40:54,418 --> 00:40:56,520

it's like opening up a brand new business

 

1400

00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,455

and employees

 

1401

00:40:57,455 --> 00:40:58,689

and everything that goes into that.

 

1402

00:40:58,689 --> 00:41:00,224

And then there's deliveries

 

1403

00:41:00,224 --> 00:41:00,858

on top of that

 

1404

00:41:00,858 --> 00:41:02,259

and all these different things.

 

1405

00:41:02,259 --> 00:41:04,195

And you'd be surprised

 

1406

00:41:05,229 --> 00:41:05,896

they don't make a

 

1407

00:41:05,896 --> 00:41:06,897

lot of a lot of these things.

 

1408

00:41:06,897 --> 00:41:08,232

They're doing this for as a service

 

1409

00:41:08,232 --> 00:41:10,167

to their clients and their customers.

 

1410

00:41:10,167 --> 00:41:11,068

So

 

1411

00:41:11,802 --> 00:41:13,571

shout out to distributors.

 

1412

00:41:13,571 --> 00:41:14,738

Rob I you feel the same way.

 

1413

00:41:14,738 --> 00:41:15,873

We both worked at one.

 

1414

00:41:15,873 --> 00:41:17,074

We understand

 

1415

00:41:17,074 --> 00:41:18,342

on a small level

 

1416

00:41:18,342 --> 00:41:19,877

the some of the complexities

 

1417

00:41:19,877 --> 00:41:21,078

of that business.

 

1418

00:41:21,078 --> 00:41:23,280

And so we're grateful for.

 

1419

00:41:24,782 --> 00:41:25,883

I tell you,

 

1420

00:41:26,083 --> 00:41:26,350

you know,

 

1421

00:41:26,350 --> 00:41:28,252

when I ran the pro shop from God,

 

1422

00:41:28,252 --> 00:41:30,721

that was 25 years ago for Hoboken.

 

1423

00:41:31,822 --> 00:41:33,757

Did you say ran it into the ground?

 

1424

00:41:33,757 --> 00:41:34,658

No, hold on.

 

1425

00:41:34,658 --> 00:41:37,795

No, maybe they.

 

1426

00:41:37,795 --> 00:41:38,562

That was unfair.

 

1427

00:41:38,562 --> 00:41:40,965

You guys were so appreciative.

 

1428

00:41:40,965 --> 00:41:43,000

I mean, if somebody brought in a nailer

 

1429

00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:43,534

or an edger

 

1430

00:41:43,534 --> 00:41:45,903

and say it's doing this, it's doing that,

 

1431

00:41:45,903 --> 00:41:46,637

and just drop it.

 

1432

00:41:46,637 --> 00:41:47,972

I was doing

 

1433

00:41:48,138 --> 00:41:51,008

and you see that a lot with distribution

 

1434

00:41:51,342 --> 00:41:53,444

service centers and distribution is

 

1435

00:41:53,444 --> 00:41:54,645

they know how important it is.

 

1436

00:41:54,645 --> 00:41:55,846

They know that,

 

1437

00:41:55,846 --> 00:41:59,149

you know, things break down, everything

 

1438

00:41:59,149 --> 00:41:59,984

comes to a halt.

 

1439

00:42:01,185 --> 00:42:02,086

And a lot of these

 

1440

00:42:02,086 --> 00:42:03,554

service centers were like,

 

1441

00:42:03,554 --> 00:42:04,855

we used to do it, where

 

1442

00:42:04,855 --> 00:42:05,856

if I can get to it right

 

1443

00:42:05,856 --> 00:42:08,092

now, I'm going to get to it right now.

 

1444

00:42:08,092 --> 00:42:09,159

I'm going to drop what I'm doing

 

1445

00:42:09,159 --> 00:42:10,261

and get your machine done.

 

1446

00:42:10,261 --> 00:42:12,930

And when we see that all over the place

 

1447

00:42:12,930 --> 00:42:14,298

with a lot of these service centers,

 

1448

00:42:14,298 --> 00:42:16,333

so they get it.

 

1449

00:42:16,333 --> 00:42:17,134

But here's a guy,

 

1450

00:42:17,134 --> 00:42:18,035

you pull your car in

 

1451

00:42:18,035 --> 00:42:19,403

for breaks or something like that.

 

1452

00:42:19,403 --> 00:42:21,005

We'll get to it. Yeah.

 

1453

00:42:21,005 --> 00:42:22,106

But here's what you see

 

1454

00:42:22,106 --> 00:42:23,674

more often than not,

 

1455

00:42:23,674 --> 00:42:25,943

and I've seen this a lot,

 

1456

00:42:25,943 --> 00:42:27,244

where you go into the shop

 

1457

00:42:27,244 --> 00:42:28,212

with a guy repairs

 

1458

00:42:28,212 --> 00:42:28,946

the machines

 

1459

00:42:28,946 --> 00:42:30,948

and it's there's machines everywhere.

 

1460

00:42:30,948 --> 00:42:31,315

There's

 

1461

00:42:31,315 --> 00:42:33,183

there's drum centers and edgers

 

1462

00:42:33,183 --> 00:42:35,786

and nail guns lined up wall to wall.

 

1463

00:42:36,387 --> 00:42:38,122

And that guy is busy.

 

1464

00:42:38,122 --> 00:42:39,590

He's. He's humping.

 

1465

00:42:39,590 --> 00:42:41,458

Yeah, but you always see a guy

 

1466

00:42:41,458 --> 00:42:42,693

come in with a machine.

 

1467

00:42:42,693 --> 00:42:44,962

I got to have this. I got a job.

 

1468

00:42:44,962 --> 00:42:45,863

I mean, you know,

 

1469

00:42:45,863 --> 00:42:47,131

the job's got to go now.

 

1470

00:42:47,131 --> 00:42:49,266

It's an emergency, whatever. So

 

1471

00:42:50,768 --> 00:42:52,770

that's a lot of stress on those guys

 

1472

00:42:52,770 --> 00:42:53,904

because they feel the stress.

 

1473

00:42:53,904 --> 00:42:55,472

They feel the stress from the contractors

 

1474

00:42:55,472 --> 00:42:56,206

bringing the machines

 

1475

00:42:56,206 --> 00:42:56,941

and they know

 

1476

00:42:56,941 --> 00:42:58,742

they have to get the machines out.

 

1477

00:42:58,742 --> 00:43:01,545

And as I said, a lot of times

 

1478

00:43:01,845 --> 00:43:03,514

they're really doing it as a service.

 

1479

00:43:03,514 --> 00:43:05,583

It's not a moneymaking venture for them.

 

1480

00:43:06,350 --> 00:43:07,151

It's more of a service

 

1481

00:43:07,151 --> 00:43:08,485

to their customers.

 

1482

00:43:08,485 --> 00:43:10,054

So hats off to all those guys

 

1483

00:43:10,054 --> 00:43:10,654

who do that.

 

1484

00:43:10,654 --> 00:43:12,990

And and that's distributors,

 

1485

00:43:13,290 --> 00:43:14,525

just distributors in general.

 

1486

00:43:14,525 --> 00:43:14,992

That's a

 

1487

00:43:14,992 --> 00:43:16,060

very such an important role

 

1488

00:43:16,060 --> 00:43:17,294

in our industry.

 

1489

00:43:17,294 --> 00:43:19,530

I used to have one guy who would

 

1490

00:43:19,530 --> 00:43:22,866

maybe bring his gun in, like run in once

 

1491

00:43:22,866 --> 00:43:25,069

every six months and go rob,

 

1492

00:43:25,069 --> 00:43:26,704

I need that real quick fix.

 

1493

00:43:26,704 --> 00:43:27,805

You know that.

 

1494

00:43:27,805 --> 00:43:29,373

You know the quick fix you do.

 

1495

00:43:29,373 --> 00:43:31,075

And there's one

 

1496

00:43:31,075 --> 00:43:33,711

washer on the inside of a plunger

 

1497

00:43:33,711 --> 00:43:35,112

on the busted nailer.

 

1498

00:43:35,112 --> 00:43:36,614

It's like that.

 

1499

00:43:36,614 --> 00:43:38,549

It, it's an o ring wash.

 

1500

00:43:38,549 --> 00:43:40,751

Yeah, but it's flat sided.

 

1501

00:43:40,784 --> 00:43:41,552

Yeah. Yeah.

 

1502

00:43:41,552 --> 00:43:43,354

And once that wears right,

 

1503

00:43:43,354 --> 00:43:45,055

you know, the one I'm talking about

 

1504

00:43:45,055 --> 00:43:46,390

that wears

 

1505

00:43:46,390 --> 00:43:47,625

now you're just blowing air, you're

 

1506

00:43:47,625 --> 00:43:48,692

not getting any. Yeah.

 

1507

00:43:49,793 --> 00:43:50,928

And I would just pop that.

 

1508

00:43:50,928 --> 00:43:51,695

I'll put it again.

 

1509

00:43:51,695 --> 00:43:52,096

I bet

 

1510

00:43:52,096 --> 00:43:53,764

I get to the point where I could do that

 

1511

00:43:53,764 --> 00:43:55,532

repairing about 10 minutes

 

1512

00:43:55,532 --> 00:43:56,967

and the guy was like, Oh,

 

1513

00:43:56,967 --> 00:43:58,168

you're the greatest.

 

1514

00:43:58,168 --> 00:43:58,869

And I'm like,

 

1515

00:43:58,869 --> 00:44:00,571

you know, I can show you how to do it.

 

1516

00:44:00,571 --> 00:44:01,672

Yeah, I didn't

 

1517

00:44:01,672 --> 00:44:02,573

I didn't go to school for it,

 

1518

00:44:02,573 --> 00:44:04,174

as any rocket science is really

 

1519

00:44:04,174 --> 00:44:05,643

you know, it was. No, no, no.

 

1520

00:44:05,643 --> 00:44:07,645

I just the way you do it, like.

 

1521

00:44:07,645 --> 00:44:08,812

Yeah, all right.

 

1522

00:44:08,812 --> 00:44:10,014

Yeah, no problem.

 

1523

00:44:10,014 --> 00:44:11,515

Sounds familiar.

 

1524

00:44:11,715 --> 00:44:13,817

It's good stuff, Rob.

 

1525

00:44:13,817 --> 00:44:14,451

All right.

 

1526

00:44:14,451 --> 00:44:15,052

Thank you, Rob.

 

1527

00:44:15,052 --> 00:44:18,355

Always great to spend some time with you.

 

1528

00:44:18,355 --> 00:44:19,957

This has been another episode

 

1529

00:44:19,957 --> 00:44:21,825

of On the Floor with Wayne and Rob.

 

1530

00:44:21,825 --> 00:46:27,284

We stay tuned for another episode.

 

1531

00:46:27,284 --> 00:46:29,853

For me, we didn't really take vacations.

 

1532

00:46:29,853 --> 00:46:33,056

We were we were pretty much gung

 

1533

00:46:33,056 --> 00:46:34,324

whole the whole time,

 

1534

00:46:34,324 --> 00:46:35,793

you know, balls to the walls

 

1535

00:46:35,793 --> 00:46:36,927

all the time, just work.

 

1536

00:46:38,829 --> 00:46:39,630

And then

 

1537

00:46:39,696 --> 00:46:40,264

because I felt

 

1538

00:46:40,264 --> 00:46:41,398

guilty that

 

1539

00:46:41,398 --> 00:46:43,867

I would be off the guys would be working.

 

1540

00:46:44,101 --> 00:46:47,805

And then when it came to that,

 

1541

00:46:48,438 --> 00:46:49,173

the cost,

 

1542

00:46:49,173 --> 00:46:52,309

the customer or the guys would call me.

 

1543

00:46:52,309 --> 00:46:54,144

So I'm on vacation,

 

1544

00:46:54,144 --> 00:46:56,146

I'm straight out work now.

 

1545

00:46:56,146 --> 00:46:57,181

I'm on the phone anyway.

 

1546

00:46:57,181 --> 00:47:00,617

So lot I would like to schedule the time

 

1547

00:47:01,018 --> 00:47:03,754

that I did have off

 

1548

00:47:03,754 --> 00:47:05,789

around long holidays in between

 

1549

00:47:05,956 --> 00:47:07,157

special times,

 

1550

00:47:07,157 --> 00:47:08,392

and then know that

 

1551

00:47:08,392 --> 00:47:09,660

if I could send them on a job

 

1552

00:47:09,660 --> 00:47:12,129

that didn't require any

 

1553

00:47:12,129 --> 00:47:14,064

homeowner participation,

 

1554

00:47:14,064 --> 00:47:15,632

it made it a little easier.

 

1555

00:47:15,632 --> 00:47:18,001

But that was that was it for me.

 

1556

00:47:18,435 --> 00:47:19,269

It's a different life

 

1557

00:47:19,269 --> 00:47:21,572

now, but for my guys now, it's

 

1558

00:47:22,139 --> 00:47:23,740

they're allowed to take vacation.

 

1559

00:47:23,740 --> 00:47:25,976

I allow them to have that opportunity

 

1560

00:47:26,210 --> 00:47:26,810

to tell me

 

1561

00:47:26,810 --> 00:47:28,212

when they're going to want vacation.

 

1562

00:47:28,212 --> 00:47:29,379

I like it.

 

1563

00:47:29,379 --> 00:47:31,882

Let's say get at least a month's notice.

 

1564

00:47:32,182 --> 00:47:32,616

At least

 

1565

00:47:32,616 --> 00:47:34,318

that gives me an opportunity

 

1566

00:47:34,318 --> 00:47:35,352

to schedule around

 

1567

00:47:35,352 --> 00:47:36,787

which jobs we're going to do, for

 

1568

00:47:36,787 --> 00:47:38,188

which guy

 

1569

00:47:38,188 --> 00:47:39,356

that I may have

 

1570

00:47:39,356 --> 00:47:39,990

their needs

 

1571

00:47:39,990 --> 00:47:41,491

and the customers can wait,

 

1572

00:47:41,491 --> 00:47:42,893

which they usually do.

 

1573

00:47:42,893 --> 00:47:43,393

He'll wait.

 

1574

00:47:43,393 --> 00:47:44,528

But I'll you know,

 

1575

00:47:44,528 --> 00:47:45,996

I'm okay with the guys

 

1576

00:47:45,996 --> 00:47:48,065

taking off on vacation

 

1577

00:47:48,432 --> 00:47:50,033

and I'm not happy

 

1578

00:47:50,033 --> 00:47:52,436

when they miss after a holiday. Yeah.

 

1579

00:47:52,603 --> 00:47:53,170

You know that

 

1580

00:47:53,170 --> 00:47:54,571

kind of gets under my coat

 

1581

00:47:54,571 --> 00:47:55,873

that I've paid them for the holiday

 

1582

00:47:55,873 --> 00:47:57,374

they take the next day.

 

1583

00:47:57,374 --> 00:47:58,308

That is the

 

1584

00:47:58,308 --> 00:48:00,210

the part that we have a little bit of

 

1585

00:48:02,145 --> 00:48:03,247

resistance on because I

 

1586

00:48:03,247 --> 00:48:04,147

tell them this way, you know,

 

1587

00:48:04,147 --> 00:48:05,549

I can't pay you for the holiday

 

1588

00:48:05,549 --> 00:48:07,751

because you took the next day off. Yeah.

 

1589

00:48:07,818 --> 00:48:10,821

And sometimes it's hard

 

1590

00:48:10,821 --> 00:48:13,156

with certain people that they don't get

 

1591

00:48:13,156 --> 00:48:14,224

that makes sense, you know.

 

1592

00:48:14,224 --> 00:48:16,059

So what do you do about vacation?

 

1593

00:48:16,059 --> 00:48:17,995

You schedule occasion. Tagalog.

 

1594

00:48:17,995 --> 00:48:20,397

Do you really? I try. I do try.

 

1595

00:48:20,397 --> 00:48:22,165

I do try. And it's tough.

 

1596

00:48:22,165 --> 00:48:22,833

You know, I'm

 

1597

00:48:22,833 --> 00:48:24,835

fortunate because

 

1598

00:48:24,835 --> 00:48:26,837

my father and I are partners,

 

1599

00:48:26,837 --> 00:48:30,641

so I can, you know, he can

 

1600

00:48:30,674 --> 00:48:32,809

he can hold the ball

 

1601

00:48:32,809 --> 00:48:35,178

and I do same for him.

 

1602

00:48:35,178 --> 00:48:37,381

You know, he's he's kind of stepped back

 

1603

00:48:37,381 --> 00:48:38,882

as far as

 

1604

00:48:38,949 --> 00:48:39,650

doing anything,

 

1605

00:48:39,650 --> 00:48:41,351

like running the business wise.

 

1606

00:48:41,351 --> 00:48:42,719

He's just

 

1607

00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,255

in the field, wants to just work and,

 

1608

00:48:45,489 --> 00:48:47,391

you know, take care of things.

 

1609

00:48:47,391 --> 00:48:48,959

So, you know,

 

1610

00:48:48,959 --> 00:48:49,393

I can

 

1611

00:48:49,393 --> 00:48:50,394

I can go away

 

1612

00:48:50,394 --> 00:48:52,329

and have a nice kind of peak.

 

1613

00:48:52,329 --> 00:48:54,598

My phone never stops, but

 

1614

00:48:54,598 --> 00:48:56,033

it don't matter where, you know,

 

1615

00:48:56,033 --> 00:48:57,100

it don't matter.

 

1616

00:48:57,100 --> 00:48:58,368

I'm on vacation or not.

 

1617

00:48:58,368 --> 00:49:00,304

The phone goes, me and you,

 

1618

00:49:00,304 --> 00:49:02,139

but it comes with the territory,

 

1619

00:49:02,139 --> 00:49:02,506

you know.

 

1620

00:49:02,506 --> 00:49:04,574

But it's, it's one of them things

 

1621

00:49:04,574 --> 00:49:05,776

I got to take.

 

1622

00:49:05,776 --> 00:49:06,910

I got to get away. Yeah.

 

1623

00:49:06,910 --> 00:49:09,513

If I don't, you know, then what's it all

 

1624

00:49:09,513 --> 00:49:10,881

so years ago?

 

1625

00:49:10,881 --> 00:49:12,416

Didn't take a lot of mediation time.

 

1626

00:49:12,416 --> 00:49:16,019

My kids were younger and I can say that

 

1627

00:49:16,019 --> 00:49:17,654

I probably missed a lot of things

 

1628

00:49:17,654 --> 00:49:19,256

I shouldn't have.

 

1629

00:49:19,256 --> 00:49:21,224

As I've gotten older, I've realized that

 

1630

00:49:22,259 --> 00:49:23,493

the important stuff

 

1631

00:49:23,493 --> 00:49:25,295

oftentimes happens when you're away,

 

1632

00:49:25,295 --> 00:49:25,929

you're on vacation,

 

1633

00:49:25,929 --> 00:49:28,198

you know, so you don't have time for it.

 

1634

00:49:28,198 --> 00:49:30,367

But I can also say that I'm fortunate

 

1635

00:49:30,367 --> 00:49:31,168

that over the years

 

1636

00:49:31,168 --> 00:49:33,270

I've been able to grow my team

 

1637

00:49:33,270 --> 00:49:34,938

and giving my team

 

1638

00:49:34,938 --> 00:49:36,773

the ability to make decisions

 

1639

00:49:36,773 --> 00:49:38,809

and to handle things when I'm not there.

 

1640

00:49:39,476 --> 00:49:42,245

To empower them to do their job

 

1641

00:49:42,546 --> 00:49:44,881

and not have to micromanage them

 

1642

00:49:44,881 --> 00:49:45,782

all the time has also made

 

1643

00:49:45,782 --> 00:49:46,984

a really big difference.

 

1644

00:49:46,984 --> 00:49:49,920

So give yourself a primer who you know

 

1645

00:49:49,953 --> 00:49:50,754

deals with everything

 

1646

00:49:50,754 --> 00:49:52,422

and you don't feel that you can trust

 

1647

00:49:52,422 --> 00:49:54,291

the people that work for you.

 

1648

00:49:54,291 --> 00:49:55,058

You don't empower them

 

1649

00:49:55,058 --> 00:49:56,326

to make those decisions.

 

1650

00:49:56,326 --> 00:49:57,327

Then yeah, you're going to be stuck

 

1651

00:49:57,327 --> 00:49:58,595

having to work

 

1652

00:49:58,595 --> 00:50:00,831

all the time, making every decision.

 

1653

00:50:00,831 --> 00:50:02,432

But if you can get to a point,

 

1654

00:50:02,432 --> 00:50:04,201

whether it's with one person or ten,

 

1655

00:50:04,201 --> 00:50:05,235

where you're able

 

1656

00:50:05,235 --> 00:50:06,303

to empower

 

1657

00:50:06,303 --> 00:50:06,570

the people

 

1658

00:50:06,570 --> 00:50:09,439

that work for you, make decisions that

 

1659

00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:11,875

you trust them, you've trained them,

 

1660

00:50:11,875 --> 00:50:14,544

you've spent the time building your team.

 

1661

00:50:14,845 --> 00:50:15,679

Then if somebody's

 

1662

00:50:15,679 --> 00:50:16,680

going to make more time

 

1663

00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:17,881

for you to be able to take vacation.

 

1664

00:50:17,881 --> 00:50:19,750

So as I've gotten older enough

 

1665

00:50:19,750 --> 00:50:20,584

and I've been fortunate

 

1666

00:50:20,584 --> 00:50:21,918

to grow, my team

 

1667

00:50:21,918 --> 00:50:23,220

definitely take advantage of the fact

 

1668

00:50:23,220 --> 00:50:24,421

that I can take some vacation time.

 

1669

00:50:24,421 --> 00:50:25,389

When my kids were younger,

 

1670

00:50:25,389 --> 00:50:26,757

we used to make sure to schedule

 

1671

00:50:26,757 --> 00:50:27,924

in ten day vacation.

 

1672

00:50:27,924 --> 00:50:29,993

Now they're getting older

 

1673

00:50:29,993 --> 00:50:32,062

and they're, you know, 1220.

 

1674

00:50:32,062 --> 00:50:34,631

So we don't really do that so,

 

1675

00:50:34,664 --> 00:50:36,233

so much anymore.

 

1676

00:50:36,233 --> 00:50:37,501

We able to go out

 

1677

00:50:37,501 --> 00:50:38,735

and do your face convention.

 

1678

00:50:38,735 --> 00:50:39,803

And when I go out there,

 

1679

00:50:39,803 --> 00:50:41,438

I make sure to spend an extra day or two

 

1680

00:50:41,438 --> 00:50:43,807

and see some sites and try to get away.

 

1681

00:50:43,907 --> 00:50:45,242

Being a weekend here

 

1682

00:50:45,242 --> 00:50:46,076

and a weekend there

 

1683

00:50:46,076 --> 00:50:47,577

for for local staff

 

1684

00:50:47,577 --> 00:50:48,612

and mean if something comes up

 

1685

00:50:48,612 --> 00:50:50,414

I want to think twice about going

 

1686

00:50:50,414 --> 00:50:51,782

I am finally at this point,

 

1687

00:50:51,782 --> 00:50:53,250

but I would say it took me a long time

 

1688

00:50:53,250 --> 00:50:54,251

to get there

 

1689

00:50:54,251 --> 00:50:55,685

and it really took hiring

 

1690

00:50:55,685 --> 00:50:56,753

the right people,

 

1691

00:50:56,753 --> 00:50:58,889

like having awesome people

 

1692

00:50:58,889 --> 00:51:01,324

to pull together when you're away,

 

1693

00:51:01,758 --> 00:51:01,992

you know,

 

1694

00:51:01,992 --> 00:51:02,292

because it

 

1695

00:51:02,292 --> 00:51:03,160

almost seems like

 

1696

00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:04,528

it's not just one person

 

1697

00:51:04,528 --> 00:51:05,762

who can handle your duties

 

1698

00:51:05,762 --> 00:51:06,329

when you're away.

 

1699

00:51:06,329 --> 00:51:08,598

It's got to be several people.

 

1700

00:51:09,066 --> 00:51:11,601

So between my office

 

1701

00:51:11,601 --> 00:51:12,836

and my lead guys in the

 

1702

00:51:12,836 --> 00:51:13,970

in the field

 

1703

00:51:13,970 --> 00:51:15,005

together, they

 

1704

00:51:15,005 --> 00:51:16,740

they pull together and and I,

 

1705

00:51:16,740 --> 00:51:18,375

I really believe it or not,

 

1706

00:51:18,375 --> 00:51:19,576

I don't get that many calls

 

1707

00:51:19,576 --> 00:51:20,510

when I'm away.

 

1708

00:51:20,510 --> 00:51:22,312

And it's really that's what it is.

 

1709

00:51:22,312 --> 00:51:23,914

It's the calls that create stress.

 

1710

00:51:23,914 --> 00:51:25,382

And even when you're away

 

1711

00:51:25,382 --> 00:51:26,483

because you can't go

 

1712

00:51:26,483 --> 00:51:28,251

and take care of a situation.

 

1713

00:51:28,251 --> 00:51:30,220

So I have found that the less calls

 

1714

00:51:30,220 --> 00:51:30,554

you get

 

1715

00:51:30,554 --> 00:51:31,054

and the more

 

1716

00:51:31,054 --> 00:51:33,123

that you're relying on your employees

 

1717

00:51:33,123 --> 00:51:34,858

to handle situations

 

1718

00:51:34,858 --> 00:51:36,393

and you just let them do their thing,

 

1719

00:51:36,393 --> 00:51:38,095

whether it's right or wrong.

 

1720

00:51:38,095 --> 00:51:39,463

And if it's wrong and

 

1721

00:51:39,463 --> 00:51:39,963

you hate them

 

1722

00:51:39,963 --> 00:51:41,698

and how you would have done it

 

1723

00:51:41,698 --> 00:51:42,899

in the future,

 

1724

00:51:42,899 --> 00:51:44,434

the more I put faith in them,

 

1725

00:51:44,434 --> 00:51:45,869

the more it comes back to me

 

1726

00:51:45,869 --> 00:51:49,005

and being able to relax and actually

 

1727

00:51:49,005 --> 00:51:50,674

go on vacation, enjoy my family.

 

1728

00:51:50,674 --> 00:51:53,009

Time to do now is planning ahead

 

1729

00:51:53,009 --> 00:51:53,777

and try to

 

1730

00:51:53,777 --> 00:51:54,611

you know that a week or

 

1731

00:51:54,611 --> 00:51:55,979

two weeks are going to be all right,

 

1732

00:51:55,979 --> 00:51:57,747

that don't leave too much work,

 

1733

00:51:57,747 --> 00:51:58,715

just the necessity of

 

1734

00:51:58,715 --> 00:51:59,883

when a regular customer

 

1735

00:51:59,883 --> 00:52:00,150

you know

 

1736

00:52:00,150 --> 00:52:00,717

to make sure

 

1737

00:52:00,717 --> 00:52:02,319

I'm not going to get those calls

 

1738

00:52:02,319 --> 00:52:04,354

I get asked me, you know, for a roller

 

1739

00:52:04,354 --> 00:52:05,355

when I'm going to vent.

 

1740

00:52:05,355 --> 00:52:06,089

And, you know, they don't

 

1741

00:52:06,089 --> 00:52:07,090

they had the roller coasters.

 

1742

00:52:07,090 --> 00:52:08,125

That's what I'm trying to do

 

1743

00:52:08,125 --> 00:52:10,460

to try to try to schedule the week,

 

1744

00:52:10,460 --> 00:52:11,828

you know, lightweight

 

1745

00:52:11,828 --> 00:52:13,363

to be able to enjoy.