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Hello and welcome to another episode
of On the Floor with Wayne and Rob.
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I'm Wayne Highlander,
National Sales Manager for Bona Adhesives.
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And I'm Rob Johnson from Bona Training.
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Inflection in my voice there.
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Rob Yeah, yeah.
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I didn't get that excited from watching
you been here for the last 3 minutes.
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I'm sorry. Yeah.
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I don't want to make a big deal
about it, but
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you get now.
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I'm good. Yeah.
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All right. That feeling good?
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Yeah.
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We're going to do an episode today
on on reaching our potential.
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And I.
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It's a pet peeve of mine, and I think it's
one of the biggest names in life
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is not living up to your potential.
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I really do think it is
a almost criminal wasted talent.
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Yeah, I used to work with a guy before
I got in the flooring business.
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We're both the exact same age, starting
the exact same time in construction.
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And these are big,
massive construction jobs.
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I mean, like the 100 people
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on a job, different trades
and what have you done on commercial work.
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And I would always hear this guy,
oh, this guy's got so much potential, man.
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He's he's got a lot of
potential is so smart.
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He's got a lot of potential.
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Meanwhile, he's doing all the work
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now, the guy
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that didn't have all the potential
and he went on, in my estimation,
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just kind of really waste
whatever talent he had.
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I think he was a
really super bright guy. But
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so it's always been a
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and I also think as a poor kid coming
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up, opportunities
are so hard to come by in life.
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And I hate when I see someone
that doesn't live up to their potential.
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But I think with age comes wisdom.
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And you
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sometimes not always, always see some,
you know, sometimes you're a knucklehead.
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A 65 year old is still a dummy.
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It's always is interesting to me.
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But why are you staring at me
when you said.
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I didn't want to make a deal out of it?
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You just kind of stare and right.
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Now. And not to interrupt
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and then backtrack a little bit,
but I didn't know you were poor.
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You were poor.
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Yeah. Yeah. You grew up a poor kid.
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Yeah, it sure did. Yeah.
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That's why.
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Did you ever do an episode on that?
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We should, yeah.
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The poverty of Highland Islanders.
Poverty?
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Yeah.
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We said you guys all seem so happy.
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We we we watched The Grapes of Wrath
and thought it was like a like a great,
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happy story.
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You know that
you're watching the Donald Trump story.
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We we didn't ever have a car.
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Wow. They they got a car.
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Eddie Helper, I thought you were
in the Air Force or something.
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Yeah,
you could still be a back physically.
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Back then you'd be in the Air Force
and be eligible for food stamps.
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Not that we were on food stamps.
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I don't like is a long story, man.
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Come on, we got to.
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Be. Far enough.
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We are poor enough for that. Oh, yeah. We.
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We had to make money to be eligible
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So poor.
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No, but my. The thing is for.
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Especially for working kid
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growing up, there's opportunities
are very few and far between right.
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I mean you know, and
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to have an opportunity
to not be ready for it or not
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take advantage
but I think is the biggest crime.
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And I think some of the reasons why
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I think when people talk about
some reasons why you may not
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reach your potential
or live up to your potential,
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and what are the things
that hold you back?
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And I think some of it is just education.
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I think some people it's just that,
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you know, they don't know
what they're capable of doing or maybe no.
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And show them what
they're capable of doing or what have you.
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And I think one of the number one reasons
that holds people back is fear,
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because if you
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take the next step, it's
going to include more work maybe.
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Or it's going to it's going to
you might fail
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or you might
you might be asked to do more.
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This, that and the other.
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And I think that's
one of the biggest reasons.
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And it's a shame because
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it's like
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something
that probably could have been overcome.
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You know what I mean by practice or by
but by taking the leap.
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And I'll tell you, for as I said, with age
comes wisdom and talking about fear.
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I can't swim.
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I never it's crazy.
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Crazy.
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My wife still can't get over it.
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I'm scared to death. The water
I can't swim.
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If I had just at some point in my life
gotten past that fear,
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I could have I could have probably swam,
you know what I mean?
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So so I think that's a great example,
is that, you know, it's a come on,
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it's just for some
at some point, for heaven's sakes,
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I should have gotten over that,
but I never did.
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And so now I can't swim.
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So I never lived up to that.
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Now I it's a shame on me.
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You know, you can swim right?
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And I just said, I can't swim.
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I know you say you can't swim, but but
it's possible for human beings to swim.
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Well,
obviously. It's kind of a natural thing,
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even.
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And you and I were
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talking this week about this
because you say, hey, what's going on?
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I was like, Oh, we're in the pool.
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All we can, teaching the grandkids,
working with them on how to swim.
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And that's when you said, yeah,
I never learned how to swim.
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I couldn't couldn't believe it.
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You how poor were you?
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You couldn't you guys couldn't find water.
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No, there was no only
water was like drinking water.
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It was a we had to trudge to it and we
didn't want to swim in the drinking water.
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You know, I would have been fine with it,
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but my brothers,
would it be the hell out of me?
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Well, that whole thing, I think,
and I mean, just watching the grandkids.
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Um, and it's not about swimming.
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It was about overcoming their fear
of the water.
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And once that happens and, you know, like,
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It's just the funniest thing in the world.
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I mean, they went from not being able
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and now they're jumping in
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They'll do 100 cannonballs and swim in
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It was nuts, though,
once they got over that fear of the water.
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Well, everything.
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So I you know, I asked you
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this week,
I'm going to tell everybody again,
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if you get some time coming off
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when you grab a flight,
you know, Judy, come on up
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and I'll teach you how to swim.
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Told the grandkids, teach you how to swim.
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How old are the grandkids.
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They range in age from?
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Well, I get the newborn, but
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the boys are the boys are 3 to 7.
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You know how they ever say
when you're in a
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when you're in a boat and the boat
tips over there's a guy that can't swim.
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Do you need to get away from him?
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Yeah, he'll drown. You two.
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It'll take you down.
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I would take all the grandkids down.
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Absolutely.
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That's how much panic sets in.
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No, I got a nice lifejacket for you.
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Oh, life jackets. Fine.
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I can do all that.
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No problem. But you start there and.
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Yeah, all right. Yeah.
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So anyhow, I really think that
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I think that's probably
one of the biggest factors
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that were that cause people from that
maybe not reaching their potential
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and you know,
I think it carries over into business.
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And so I think that's that's
probably number one on my list here.
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You know, when you talk to me about
we wanted to do this podcast,
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what's the
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name of this one again
over reaching your potential.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Reaching your potential.
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So I started to look into a bunch of stuff
about.
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Does that work organizing.
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Were you just asked me
what the name of it was again.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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And I started, I started to see overcoming
something, which is not right.
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And then you remembered it.
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So you see, baby, that's it.
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That's the ABCs of you and me, baby.
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Mm hmm.
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So anyways, back to I start.
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So I started looking about this stuff, and
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this one article I found was it was called
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Adapting a Growth Mindset
Over a fixed mindset.
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And then there were some really there were
some really great things in there.
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So I think, you know,
I'll go off a little of that.
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You go off a little.
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But what you had negative thinking
nothing.
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And, you know,
we'll just kind of press on.
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If that's okay with you.
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Oh, absolutely.
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I didn't I didn't research anything.
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I didn't research
one single thing for this.
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So you think you're better than me?
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Well, I'm just saying.
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I know you're doing that.
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That's a silly question.
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I mean, why would you
why would you even ask? That's just so I.
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No, I just think that there's only one
corporate stooge on this show.
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That's that's actually my next.
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My next thing is negative thinking.
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I, I see
sometimes it's just been in my experience
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that some people think, oh, well,
it won't work or why should I even try?
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Because it may not work.
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I mean, I get there might be, you know,
I don't have enough money or I don't have
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blah, blah, blah, or I'll never learn
how to do a herringbone layout by myself.
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I'll never I'll never do this
or that or the other.
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it's like a shame
that that you would fall into this trap.
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But I think a lot of people absolutely do.
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And I think fear is a huge one.
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And I think
negative thinking is the other.
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life long.
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These things. They can
they can send you down this road.
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And I and those are for younger guys.
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And it's interesting for younger guys.
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Like I remember when I was in my twenties,
I used to think like, I see you do.
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Like he's was like 45 years old to me.
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That was an old guy.
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I mean, didn't you when you're 20 years
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guys, all these old guys over the hill
or whatever, right?
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Yeah. Oh, my God. Yeah.
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And now that we're in our sixties.
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45 seems like a puppy.
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Yeah, yeah, seems like six.
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Seattle is 60.
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Is the new 40.
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I say that now.
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Not everybody. Yeah.
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Okay, well,
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my reason for seeing that is
so if you were of the mindset that, well,
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man, I, you know, I would have done that
when I was younger or whatever.
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But now, you know, I'm
this age and it's too late for that.
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I think that's that's
and by the way, I will learn to swim.
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I will 100%.
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I told my wife,
I said, if I don't get done
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nothing this this, this summer,
so I'll learn how to swim.
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I mean, don't get me wrong,
I can swim from here to the
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you know, I can swim like 30 feet.
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But if you put me out on the lake
somewhere, I'm dead.
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I'm. I'm. I'm already dead. So.
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So you can swim.
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Well, see, that's what people say
because they'll,
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they'll see me swim
from one end of the pool, the other go.
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You can swim. Yeah, I could swim that far.
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But if there's another ten feet
and I'm out of breath, I'm done.
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It's over. I don't. I can't float.
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So I don't make a big deal about it
anymore than we already have.
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But that's that's the deal.
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So you can swim.
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You just can't swim in marathon.
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If I run out of breath
before I get to the end zone, I'm dead.
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Like, I can swim, like maybe 30 feet
or 40 feet or 50 feet or whatever.
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But once that's over, it's done.
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If there better be bank
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or I'm over,
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but I use
I wear a life jacket all the time.
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I never get a never, never
get in the water without a life jacket on
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about the age thing.
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I you know, one thing I realize too, like
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if you're like, say you're 50 years old,
you go, I'm already 50 years old.
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I mean, it would take me three
or four years.
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Well, one day you're going to be 54 years
old, God willing,
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and so you you're going to be that age
one way or the other.
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So you might as well, you know, keep
learning and learning as you go along.
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Here, I got one. Wait.
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We need to view our
challenges as opportunity.
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Isn't that sweet?
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Here's one for you.
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Why don't you embrace your weakness
instead of running from it
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and learn how to freaking swim?
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Well,
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okay. Give me another one.
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I was vulnerable there for a minute.
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I learned. Hey, I'll give you another one.
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You need to learn and to give and receive
constructive criticism.
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Holy crap, I didn't realize
how many these are for you.
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But here's, here's, here's.
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Here's the deal. The pal.
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I've reached my my potential.
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Oh. Oh, oh.
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All right. Oh, my.
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So I guess it's Julie.
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So it's just downhill from you.
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It's just downhill. All right.
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Let me go next.
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He reached his potential.
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That's it.
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You're done. You know that.
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You're a going to take a position.
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Hang on.
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Let me look down. That mountaintop.
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Oh, there. There you. Are. There I am.
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All right.
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The next one, which probably applies
to you, is handling pressure.
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I really again, is that that with with
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with responsibility comes,
you know, pressure and what have you.
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And I think that that I've seen people
that say, I don't want to.
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No pressure at all.
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No, no, no, no, no, I don't want it.
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And you know, hey,
if you're happy with that, that's fine.
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But with moving,
you know, with, with, with reaching
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your potential is
is having to do with pressure.
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And so all these things are learned
traits, fear,
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negative thinking and pressure.
Like I said, brilliant on my part.
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I didn't research nothing.
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This is all from the mind of Wayne.
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How do you figure that
pressure has anything to do with me?
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Have you never met me?
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Never.
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I never.
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I put that bag of bricks down.
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All right, let it go.
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Guys. Pauline nuts.
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I never sell stuff.
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That's for you corporate types.
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Not us.
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Not us. Lowlifes
at the bottom of the mountain.
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Okay, there's no pressure.
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Yeah, yeah.
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All right.
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You want me go again, or do you?
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Would you like to bring it back to me
again before I go again?
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Wow, Wayne.
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And this is definitely you.
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Your brains and talent
always need to keep improving.
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100%.
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Absolutely. Yeah.
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Never stop that.
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And look, I think that's actually a huge
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I see friends of mine that retire
and whatever.
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And I have visited a friend
not too long ago and and he retired
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and I came where they're going,
man, give me away from this dude.
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He's already done.
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You know what I mean? Like, he.
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He's, like,
doing crossword puzzles and stuff.
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Man, I got no time for that.
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You know what I mean?
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He's like, you know,
you got to keep going, man.
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You got to
345
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you got to keep learning all the time
and and challenge yourself all the time.
346
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And I got so many things I want to do
I haven't touched yet.
347
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Give me give me a couple of those.
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One is kayak fishing.
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I want
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to listen.
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Every time I've been, I.
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I thought you could say,
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like skydiving or something.
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I mean, I think you've done just about
every possible way to fish and that's
355
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that's the only one left.
356
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There are kayak fish.
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So I kayak fishing is on my bucket list.
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It scares the hell. It scares out of me.
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It scares me because I can't swim.
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And every time I've been in a.
361
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Boat, kayak, fishing without a lifejacket
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that bear that over coming up here.
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I got a lot of things I want to do, man.
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I got I got books I want to write.
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I got all kinds of stuff.
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I will I am not
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I'm not going to.
368
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I've got a long way to go, man.
You better get going.
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What do you.
370
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63. Yeah, you know. Oh, yeah.
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You got to get going, dude. I'm just.
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I mean, the clock is ticking.
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Oh, right. Yeah, I'm.
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Just bother me one bit.
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All right.
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The fourth one.
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The fourth one I have on my on my list.
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On your list
that you made up all by yourself
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where I had to go out
and do a little research.
380
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Yeah, this is distractions, I think.
381
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I think sometimes we go from one
382
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set of distractions
and short term pleasure to another.
383
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We just drift from one thing
to another thing to watch TV.
384
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Then we eat this food
because it makes us feel good to what
385
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I think we sometimes go through,
like just one distraction
386
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and short term
pleasure thing to another, to another.
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And I used to
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it kind of bugged me a little bit
when last was a year ago.
389
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Now that I'm all for the year
390
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I hate
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I mean, wait, wait, wait,
hold on, hold on.
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Is it there?
393
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Do you know the music is still there?
394
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I hear the music, man.
395
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They they definitely hear the music.
396
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Yes, they do.
397
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Yes. He's one floor. The year.
398
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The year that I won that I the year.
399
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That Aaron Chief
sanded that floor for you.
400
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Yeah, I did.
401
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I didn't watch any TV, any watch any,
any sports.
402
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I mean, I didn't do
I just got all distractions
403
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out of the way and
404
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it's amazing what you can accomplish when
you when you put your mind to something.
405
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And but there's so many distractions now.
406
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And like when I watch
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when I watch,
408
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like, say, professional fishing, okay?
409
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And I see those guys fishing all day and,
410
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you know, you got to put energy in
to get something back out of it.
411
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Like, I love to see that.
412
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I love to see a sunrise in the morning
413
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when the sun comes over the mountain
and first thing in the morning.
414
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But I got to get up at 4:00 in the morning
to do that.
415
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You know what I mean?
416
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If you want to get something out of it,
you got to put some energy into it.
417
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And I think if we let these distractions
418
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and whatever and hanging out with friends
and all these different things
419
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or whatever
that takes us away from for our potential,
420
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I think that's that's especially nowadays
I almost feel sorry for kids.
421
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There's so many distractions.
422
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I think that will stop a lot of people
423
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from the quality of life
of reaching their potential.
424
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If they if they let this overcome
some of the and, you know,
425
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maybe maybe you're happy.
426
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I don't play video games, period.
427
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I don't play
I've never played a video game.
428
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And the reason why is that
I know I would love it.
429
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I know that I would love playing
video games.
430
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I watch these things that incredible.
431
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And I can see being hours and hours
doing that.
432
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And I'm not knocking anybody
433
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that does that, but I mean, it
depends on what your goals are in life.
434
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So that's another one I have for for
435
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for me.
436
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That's one of your goals
is to start playing video games.
437
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No, that's nuts. That's the way I.
438
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What takes you away from hitting
your potential is.
439
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Is distractions. Distractions?
440
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Yeah, that's what
that's why I'm on the show.
441
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Right.
442
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So this is me pausing.
443
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This is this is why I'm on the show.
444
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I am direction.
445
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I am your distraction.
446
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Yeah. Word for it that I would use.
447
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When we think of learning
is more important
448
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than seeking someone's approval.
449
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Depends whose approval it is.
450
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You're trying to you're
you're trying to win favor with
451
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easy win.
452
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But I you're. The best baby.
453
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I definitely get the center the best. Yes.
454
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The sentiment of it. Yeah.
455
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When I when I told you that
456
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when you're like 20 in your twenties
457
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and you look at old guy,
he's like his forties or or fifties
458
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or whatever,
you think, that guy's over the hill?
459
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He's an old guy. Yeah. Yeah.
460
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Let me ask you personally, what was the
best time period in your life?
461
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Because clearly it's that now
462
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that I.
463
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I really don't know.
464
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I can't say.
465
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I swear to you,
466
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I'm dead serious.
467
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I can't tell you.
468
00:21:08,734 --> 00:21:09,635
Okay.
469
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Look,
I was telling you what I did last weekend,
470
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right?
471
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Yeah, last weekend.
472
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The guys that I went to school
with played hockey with a bunch of them,
473
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worked in the family business
with me and my dad at one point in time.
474
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Anyways,
475
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you know that group of guys that I've been
with for ever, like I said, since
476
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high school,
we go up to Saranac Lake, it's
477
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up in the Adirondacks every year
478
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and we golf.
479
00:21:41,633 --> 00:21:44,903
A buddy of ours has a beautiful camp
up there on a pond.
480
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It's just just an amazing place.
481
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We've been going there for 33 years.
482
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Wow. First time we went,
we were 27 years old.
483
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The next year we went we talked to
his mom, Peter and I talked to his mom
484
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for us to lay floor,
lay the floors in the cabin in the camp,
485
00:22:03,422 --> 00:22:07,559
you know, the floors look unbelievable
still today.
486
00:22:07,559 --> 00:22:08,860
They look great.
487
00:22:08,860 --> 00:22:11,263
I was so happy to
I mean, it would have been pretty bad
488
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if they look crappy,
but they look really good.
489
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But anyways, 33 years
490
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of the
491
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same group of guys going up to
this place is usually between
492
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eight and ten or 12 of us
that they will go every year
493
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and cook and golf and,
you know, swimming and stuff.
494
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It's just a blast.
495
00:22:30,582 --> 00:22:35,120
But I mean,
I started going there in my twenties
496
00:22:36,388 --> 00:22:40,158
and you said, what was my favorite,
you know, 20, 34, 56.
497
00:22:40,158 --> 00:22:43,495
So I really
I don't know. I can't tell you.
498
00:22:43,495 --> 00:22:48,300
I mean, the funny part is we all started
going up and we were in our twenties
499
00:22:48,934 --> 00:22:52,070
half of the guys this year that were
they're retired.
500
00:22:53,305 --> 00:22:54,673
They're retired.
501
00:22:54,740 --> 00:22:58,343
Can you imagine if we were talking back
when we're in our twenties about going
502
00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:02,447
to the men half of us would be retired
and we're going to be retired now.
503
00:23:02,481 --> 00:23:04,649
You just never saw it coming, you know?
504
00:23:04,649 --> 00:23:07,853
So I can't tell you
what would be my favorite.
505
00:23:08,854 --> 00:23:10,956
Favorite time period.
506
00:23:10,956 --> 00:23:12,624
I really don't know.
507
00:23:12,624 --> 00:23:14,426
I don't think I've really changed
that much.
508
00:23:14,426 --> 00:23:15,660
We're all pretty still.
509
00:23:15,660 --> 00:23:17,763
All the guys who grew up,
they're pretty immature.
510
00:23:17,763 --> 00:23:21,967
So what would be yours?
511
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,368
I love a good tradition.
512
00:23:23,368 --> 00:23:25,537
That's cool that you guys do that
and that's pretty cool.
513
00:23:27,539 --> 00:23:29,040
You want to hear something else?
514
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:29,441
What's it?
515
00:23:29,441 --> 00:23:29,875
All right.
516
00:23:29,975 --> 00:23:33,378
My golf game hasn't changed at all.
517
00:23:35,147 --> 00:23:37,582
Golf has got to be
one of the weirdest sports in the world.
518
00:23:37,582 --> 00:23:42,220
And, I mean, I think I've been
playing golf for 40 years
519
00:23:43,622 --> 00:23:46,992
and I am absolutely
520
00:23:47,125 --> 00:23:49,861
barely any better
than the first year that I played.
521
00:23:51,096 --> 00:23:53,932
Wow. How's that possible?
522
00:23:53,932 --> 00:23:55,967
I it's not possible.
523
00:23:57,002 --> 00:23:58,537
Yeah, that seems very odd.
524
00:23:58,537 --> 00:24:01,173
Well, you don't play that probably.
525
00:24:01,173 --> 00:24:01,706
Yeah.
526
00:24:01,706 --> 00:24:04,142
Yeah, maybe you should play
more than three or four times a year.
527
00:24:04,142 --> 00:24:07,579
Yeah, that's the that's the deal.
528
00:24:07,579 --> 00:24:10,582
And I think my, my favorite time
529
00:24:10,582 --> 00:24:14,519
period is actually right now today.
530
00:24:14,519 --> 00:24:15,487
Very much so.
531
00:24:15,487 --> 00:24:18,390
And I hope that someone in their twenties
532
00:24:18,390 --> 00:24:21,126
or thirties or whatever understands that.
533
00:24:21,693 --> 00:24:22,994
I mean, for some it's not for everybody.
534
00:24:22,994 --> 00:24:25,430
Some people will probably say, yeah,
it was when I was 20 years old
535
00:24:25,430 --> 00:24:29,468
or whatever, but be aware
that if you are young like that,
536
00:24:30,602 --> 00:24:33,171
don't think that there are the best
days are behind you or whatever.
537
00:24:33,171 --> 00:24:37,943
As I 100%, I'm enjoying myself more
now than I ever have.
538
00:24:38,543 --> 00:24:41,546
And and I'm not complaining because
I've always I mean, I've had a good ride,
539
00:24:42,581 --> 00:24:45,283
but I do I love where I'm at right now.
540
00:24:45,283 --> 00:24:50,055
And so, like I said, for for
you never stop learning.
541
00:24:50,055 --> 00:24:51,423
You never stop trying to get better.
542
00:24:51,423 --> 00:24:56,928
You I think it's very important in life
as you go through life to keep that
543
00:24:57,929 --> 00:25:00,332
that attitude
and that wanderlust and try to find out
544
00:25:00,332 --> 00:25:02,767
what's around the next corner
and what's the next best thing and
545
00:25:03,101 --> 00:25:06,304
and get better at your craft
and keep learning and don't think that
546
00:25:06,638 --> 00:25:08,273
you don't get stuck in a rut or whatever.
547
00:25:08,273 --> 00:25:09,474
You find yourself stuck in a rut.
548
00:25:09,474 --> 00:25:11,343
Find a way to get back out of it.
549
00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:15,947
Because, I mean, I've been there,
too, but, you know, you have to just.
550
00:25:16,214 --> 00:25:18,717
Right. Do a reset from time to time.
551
00:25:18,717 --> 00:25:20,218
And I think that's important.
552
00:25:20,218 --> 00:25:24,155
And I think I look and I say these
and I'll go through my brilliant list
553
00:25:24,155 --> 00:25:26,191
one more time really quickly.
554
00:25:26,191 --> 00:25:29,661
Fear and is again
not reaching your potential fear.
555
00:25:29,661 --> 00:25:34,866
Number one, negative thinking
pressure distractions for the year
556
00:25:37,102 --> 00:25:40,238
and that's
my four or five and that's four.
557
00:25:40,238 --> 00:25:40,839
I'll go with. Four.
558
00:25:40,839 --> 00:25:41,873
Oh you know what?
559
00:25:41,873 --> 00:25:45,410
I'm reading your notes
560
00:25:45,844 --> 00:25:49,347
and on your distractions
you had for a while
561
00:25:49,848 --> 00:25:54,019
and I kept thinking,
What the hell is f0y completely forgot.
562
00:25:54,619 --> 00:25:56,855
Please cue the music. f0y.
563
00:25:56,855 --> 00:25:59,124
I should have known for you.
564
00:25:59,524 --> 00:26:02,661
But I should be past my prime.
565
00:26:02,661 --> 00:26:03,728
You know what I mean? You know.
566
00:26:03,728 --> 00:26:05,964
Oh, that's not true.
567
00:26:05,964 --> 00:26:07,532
Not anymore.
568
00:26:07,532 --> 00:26:09,834
Do you think that now,
569
00:26:10,502 --> 00:26:13,405
God, look at what people are doing
into their seventies and eighties.
570
00:26:13,405 --> 00:26:15,707
Now it's a whole different time.
571
00:26:17,275 --> 00:26:18,677
I'm going to tell you something.
572
00:26:18,677 --> 00:26:22,147
Oh, elderly people
573
00:26:22,147 --> 00:26:25,884
today are smarter than they were less
than a generation ago.
574
00:26:26,184 --> 00:26:29,054
It's a new signal in a study
that I saw recently that
575
00:26:29,521 --> 00:26:31,756
74 years old is like the new 59.
576
00:26:32,524 --> 00:26:36,127
So this generation, we always say
the younger kids are smarter.
577
00:26:36,127 --> 00:26:38,863
Remember, we see that when they get gay,
people get them straight to their
578
00:26:38,863 --> 00:26:41,833
like the smartest generation ever,
getting a straight, more sophisticated.
579
00:26:42,434 --> 00:26:47,138
Well, on the other end of the spectrum,
this is the older generation
580
00:26:47,138 --> 00:26:50,475
is now smarter than any generation
that came before it as well.
581
00:26:50,475 --> 00:26:52,577
So just keep that in mind, too.
582
00:26:53,244 --> 00:26:54,946
So so there you go.
583
00:26:56,281 --> 00:26:57,949
You got any other brains
584
00:26:57,949 --> 00:27:01,453
you want to add to this?
585
00:27:01,453 --> 00:27:04,956
Focus on the process, Wayne,
not the end result.
586
00:27:06,091 --> 00:27:07,425
100%.
587
00:27:07,592 --> 00:27:11,763
Well, it's like they say the the journey
sometimes is better than the destination.
588
00:27:12,130 --> 00:27:14,933
And in this case,
this destination is death.
589
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:22,140
So definitely,
590
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,277
definitely very true in this case.
591
00:27:26,277 --> 00:27:29,280
What else did you learn? That's a tattoo.
592
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,582
That should be a tattoo.
593
00:27:30,582 --> 00:27:33,451
Do you have any tattoos?
I don't have any tattoo. Tattoo?
594
00:27:33,551 --> 00:27:35,854
I told you before,
you don't put you know you don't.
595
00:27:36,521 --> 00:27:36,888
Okay.
596
00:27:36,888 --> 00:27:40,291
One size on a steak like this. That
597
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,795
that could be a pretty good tattoo.
598
00:27:43,795 --> 00:27:46,264
What destination is death?
599
00:27:46,765 --> 00:27:48,366
Oh, yeah.
600
00:27:48,366 --> 00:27:49,501
Okay. For any of you
601
00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:52,504
listeners out there thinking of a tattoo,
that would be a good one.
602
00:27:53,538 --> 00:27:55,974
Destination, death.
603
00:27:55,974 --> 00:27:57,909
Someone with a ride.
604
00:27:57,909 --> 00:28:00,211
Don't listen to them, everybody.
605
00:28:00,211 --> 00:28:01,312
You're the one who said it.
606
00:28:01,312 --> 00:28:03,548
Not me. No,
but I never say. Put it on a tattoo.
607
00:28:03,782 --> 00:28:06,251
Destination is death.
608
00:28:06,251 --> 00:28:08,820
Somebody is going to put that on
as tattoo.
609
00:28:08,820 --> 00:28:09,921
Tell you what, if you make that,
610
00:28:09,921 --> 00:28:13,291
your tattoo will send you a t shirt
on on the floor t shirt.
611
00:28:13,758 --> 00:28:15,293
Make.
612
00:28:15,293 --> 00:28:15,894
All right, don't.
613
00:28:15,894 --> 00:28:19,197
Do send us a picture
of that tattoo destination of death
614
00:28:20,265 --> 00:28:23,201
and we'll
send you an autograph on the floor
615
00:28:24,135 --> 00:28:27,706
with Wayne and grab t shirt.
616
00:28:27,706 --> 00:28:30,475
Hey, the guys up north,
617
00:28:30,475 --> 00:28:33,845
you know, Pete was up there
telling everybody about the podcast,
618
00:28:34,212 --> 00:28:38,049
you know, because now Pete's listening.
619
00:28:38,049 --> 00:28:40,418
And they said, and one of the guys is
like, What's the name of the show?
620
00:28:40,418 --> 00:28:41,119
He's looking it up.
621
00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:43,788
And I said on the floor
with Wayne and Rob.
622
00:28:44,923 --> 00:28:48,560
And he goes,
Why is it they don't know you?
623
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,862
Right? They don't know.
They don't know. Floor of the year.
624
00:28:50,862 --> 00:28:52,063
They don't know who you are.
625
00:28:52,063 --> 00:28:54,532
Wow. And where are they from?
626
00:28:54,966 --> 00:28:56,367
New York.
627
00:28:56,367 --> 00:28:58,503
You know,
you're not a big name up here in New York.
628
00:28:58,703 --> 00:29:01,039
Must be. Anyways, they're all going, what?
629
00:29:01,172 --> 00:29:03,241
Why is it on the floor with Wayne and Rob?
630
00:29:03,241 --> 00:29:04,943
Why does he get top billing?
631
00:29:04,943 --> 00:29:09,180
Why does he get like, oh, well, first off,
he really does most of the talking.
632
00:29:09,180 --> 00:29:11,382
I just interrupt them a lot. Okay.
633
00:29:12,117 --> 00:29:15,153
I said, but the other thing
is, when you say on the floor
634
00:29:15,153 --> 00:29:18,990
with Robin Wayne,
it sounds like one name, a guy
635
00:29:18,990 --> 00:29:22,494
named Rob I and Robin Wayne.
636
00:29:22,994 --> 00:29:25,063
Keep telling yourself that. Yeah. Exactly.
637
00:29:25,063 --> 00:29:29,234
I did keep telling myself
that even when the show started, I'm like,
638
00:29:30,135 --> 00:29:32,504
Yeah, well,
then I kept thinking and then I.
639
00:29:32,570 --> 00:29:33,671
And then it hit me.
640
00:29:33,671 --> 00:29:38,076
Robin Wayne They're just going to think
that that's some kind of a country
641
00:29:38,076 --> 00:29:40,178
singer or something. Yeah,
you know what I mean?
642
00:29:40,879 --> 00:29:42,814
I do. But so you see how I just
643
00:29:44,282 --> 00:29:45,216
used funny.
644
00:29:45,216 --> 00:29:45,583
Yeah.
645
00:29:45,583 --> 00:29:48,987
Turn lemons into lemonade, baby,
right? Yep.
646
00:29:48,987 --> 00:29:52,023
And they're all up north nodding
their head like, Yeah, you're right.
647
00:29:52,023 --> 00:29:54,692
It does sound strange.
I got it. Yeah, exactly.
648
00:29:54,692 --> 00:29:57,996
It really has to be Wayne and Rob.
649
00:29:58,530 --> 00:30:00,331
Yeah, it's good explanation.
650
00:30:00,331 --> 00:30:01,232
Yeah, it was great.
651
00:30:01,232 --> 00:30:06,004
I thought when someone asked me
how come it was when Robin went to me
652
00:30:06,538 --> 00:30:07,539
because I'm the man.
653
00:30:07,539 --> 00:30:12,010
Would you please basically know
nobody asked you that?
654
00:30:12,377 --> 00:30:14,112
No, you're right.
655
00:30:14,112 --> 00:30:16,347
Nobody's ever had to ask that now.
656
00:30:18,149 --> 00:30:19,217
Okay.
657
00:30:19,350 --> 00:30:21,219
What else you got, Rob.
658
00:30:24,489 --> 00:30:24,789
Wayne,
659
00:30:24,789 --> 00:30:27,525
do you get inspired by other people's
success?
660
00:30:28,259 --> 00:30:29,327
Never.
661
00:30:29,961 --> 00:30:32,130
Wow. No, of course I do.
662
00:30:32,130 --> 00:30:36,868
I listen,
I think I'm actually inspired by by
663
00:30:38,269 --> 00:30:40,939
so many if flower men today
664
00:30:41,105 --> 00:30:45,176
and women, by the way,
I'm I'm constantly inspired by it.
665
00:30:45,510 --> 00:30:45,910
I see.
666
00:30:45,910 --> 00:30:49,080
Though, I follow a lot of Instagram
and what have you.
667
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,050
It's so complete. In fact, I want to
I want to have a show.
668
00:30:52,050 --> 00:30:53,685
I was thinking about this the other day.
669
00:30:53,685 --> 00:30:54,519
I thought they have a show
670
00:30:54,519 --> 00:30:57,922
with like five different people
cross country and find out what's next.
671
00:30:58,656 --> 00:30:59,657
What's next out there?
672
00:30:59,657 --> 00:31:01,860
We've burned floors, right?
673
00:31:01,893 --> 00:31:02,861
We've burned them.
674
00:31:02,861 --> 00:31:05,063
We've we've wire brush them.
675
00:31:05,063 --> 00:31:07,832
We've done
white plague. We've done some bruising.
676
00:31:07,832 --> 00:31:10,368
We've done all these different things.
We burned metal into them.
677
00:31:10,368 --> 00:31:11,603
We've what's next?
678
00:31:11,603 --> 00:31:13,705
What is the next thing
that's going to come along?
679
00:31:14,105 --> 00:31:15,607
And that's what I want to know.
680
00:31:15,607 --> 00:31:17,976
So I 100% get inspired by people.
681
00:31:17,976 --> 00:31:19,744
You know, I'm glad you said that.
682
00:31:20,745 --> 00:31:22,647
You know, this week.
683
00:31:22,647 --> 00:31:26,584
This week
I did a school in Albany, hometown baby.
684
00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:30,788
I felt like a little like Pauline
and I were a real married couple.
685
00:31:30,788 --> 00:31:33,658
I was getting up
and we're having coffee together
686
00:31:33,658 --> 00:31:37,095
and then I kiss her and go to work
and come home from work.
687
00:31:37,095 --> 00:31:39,397
And it was pretty nice,
you know, it was different.
688
00:31:40,131 --> 00:31:44,535
So first off, I want to give a shout out
to the guys who came to the school.
689
00:31:44,535 --> 00:31:48,573
We had guys from Acme Wood floors,
Bill Powell flooring
690
00:31:48,573 --> 00:31:52,143
fishers, floor
sanding and five one eighth floor care.
691
00:31:53,211 --> 00:31:56,247
And I'm only saying this
because of what you just said.
692
00:31:56,247 --> 00:31:57,548
What's next? Right.
693
00:31:57,548 --> 00:31:58,349
What is next?
694
00:31:58,349 --> 00:32:00,418
Wood floors. We've just about seen it all.
695
00:32:01,119 --> 00:32:04,022
Well, there's a kid who works for Bill
Powell flooring,
696
00:32:04,022 --> 00:32:07,458
and some people might have seen
him on Instagram and stuff.
697
00:32:08,459 --> 00:32:10,028
His name is Martine
698
00:32:10,028 --> 00:32:13,197
and he was just showing me pictures
699
00:32:14,098 --> 00:32:17,902
of an additive
that he's been adding into the coating
700
00:32:19,137 --> 00:32:22,407
that makes his floors
glow in the dark room.
701
00:32:22,774 --> 00:32:25,209
Have you seen that yet or have you?
702
00:32:25,677 --> 00:32:26,210
I've seen it.
703
00:32:26,210 --> 00:32:29,614
Parties that glow in the dark in paint,
a glow in the dark.
704
00:32:29,914 --> 00:32:30,515
Okay.
705
00:32:30,515 --> 00:32:33,551
Well, I had never seen a
and he said, this is it.
706
00:32:33,551 --> 00:32:36,187
I turned the lights out and then, boom,
707
00:32:36,187 --> 00:32:39,023
the floors are glowing in the dark
and I'm like, Wow, that would be
708
00:32:39,791 --> 00:32:42,327
pretty cool for a kid's room
or something like that.
709
00:32:42,327 --> 00:32:43,861
Yeah, that's awesome. By the way.
710
00:32:43,861 --> 00:32:44,562
I know them.
711
00:32:44,562 --> 00:32:46,531
You're good guy. And I believe.
712
00:32:46,531 --> 00:32:48,032
I know. Martinez.
713
00:32:48,032 --> 00:32:48,533
Martinez.
714
00:32:48,533 --> 00:32:51,102
Martinez is like his right hand man.
715
00:32:51,135 --> 00:32:54,005
I don't know why that would
I definitely no Bill powerful.
716
00:32:54,339 --> 00:32:54,906
Bill Powell.
717
00:32:54,906 --> 00:32:59,510
APPLAUSE Yes, you might have seen,
I think, on Instagram.
718
00:32:59,510 --> 00:33:03,047
He is listed under Marti
in some numbers or so.
719
00:33:03,047 --> 00:33:03,414
Okay.
720
00:33:03,414 --> 00:33:04,849
So you might have seen him there.
721
00:33:04,849 --> 00:33:07,151
Yeah, it sounds too familiar. And I know.
722
00:33:08,052 --> 00:33:11,122
I think you met him at the end, WFAA.
723
00:33:11,923 --> 00:33:14,025
Yes. Yeah,
I've talked to him down there and.
724
00:33:14,025 --> 00:33:15,827
And Bill, so. Yeah. Pretty cool. Yeah.
725
00:33:16,794 --> 00:33:18,830
Huh. And that was your last class?
726
00:33:18,830 --> 00:33:19,430
Yeah.
727
00:33:19,430 --> 00:33:22,200
You know, it was weird yesterday.
728
00:33:22,500 --> 00:33:23,601
So I get up.
729
00:33:23,601 --> 00:33:26,371
I get up around 530
730
00:33:26,571 --> 00:33:28,039
going start coffee
731
00:33:28,039 --> 00:33:30,274
and I'm figuring Pauly will be up
any minute now.
732
00:33:30,975 --> 00:33:31,709
You know.
733
00:33:32,276 --> 00:33:35,847
And I get finished coffee and I'm like,
I want to wake her up.
734
00:33:35,913 --> 00:33:37,782
Right. Right.
735
00:33:37,782 --> 00:33:40,184
So she didn't get up.
736
00:33:40,184 --> 00:33:43,287
So then I go in the bedroom,
sit down on the bed, start getting dressed
737
00:33:43,287 --> 00:33:47,458
and you know, the whole thing,
figuring she's going to wake up.
738
00:33:47,792 --> 00:33:50,561
Yeah, well, if you're getting dressed
739
00:33:50,561 --> 00:33:51,229
right.
740
00:33:51,429 --> 00:33:52,864
Oh, you're faking sleeping.
741
00:33:52,864 --> 00:33:54,032
Is that what you mean by that?
742
00:33:54,032 --> 00:33:56,134
Yeah. Okay. I've roomed with you before.
743
00:33:57,301 --> 00:33:59,170
So we don't need to go there.
744
00:33:59,170 --> 00:34:01,773
When you stole my toothbrush and used it,
that was just gross.
745
00:34:01,773 --> 00:34:02,974
Yeah. Get out of here.
746
00:34:04,208 --> 00:34:08,146
So the
lights on, she's still not waking up.
747
00:34:08,146 --> 00:34:11,783
I look over at her,
and she just looked so peaceful.
748
00:34:12,717 --> 00:34:16,087
And then I was looking to see
if you could tell if she was breathing,
749
00:34:16,220 --> 00:34:20,792
you know, I couldn't
tell if she was breathing or not.
750
00:34:21,959 --> 00:34:23,261
So what do you do.
751
00:34:23,528 --> 00:34:25,696
Puncher? Do
752
00:34:25,830 --> 00:34:28,566
do I try to wake her up, you know,
753
00:34:28,566 --> 00:34:31,669
and then I'm thinking, well,
if she's dead,
754
00:34:31,669 --> 00:34:34,572
they're really not much I can do.
755
00:34:34,639 --> 00:34:36,507
And if she's not dead,
why would I wake her up?
756
00:34:36,507 --> 00:34:38,843
She looks so peaceful, comfortable.
757
00:34:39,277 --> 00:34:39,811
So I.
758
00:34:39,811 --> 00:34:42,880
I just left, went to work,
and I'm driving to work.
759
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,650
I'm like, wow, she's dead.
You know, my my daughter in law.
760
00:34:45,650 --> 00:34:47,852
I'll probably find her
bringing the kids over or something.
761
00:34:47,852 --> 00:34:50,555
And the police will come over to the job
762
00:34:51,189 --> 00:34:54,358
and I go, you know,
you know what happened, blah, blah, blah.
763
00:34:54,358 --> 00:34:55,560
And then was thinking,
764
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,896
I'm going to have to put on this
big act like, oh, no, oh, my God, no.
765
00:34:58,896 --> 00:35:01,933
I, you know, I didn't know
because they would have said, well,
766
00:35:01,933 --> 00:35:05,570
you know, did you kill her or did you know
she was, you know what I mean?
767
00:35:05,803 --> 00:35:06,204
Yeah.
768
00:35:06,204 --> 00:35:09,841
So I had all those scenarios
going through my head.
769
00:35:09,974 --> 00:35:12,076
Well, good thing is, she's alive.
770
00:35:13,344 --> 00:35:14,312
That is good.
771
00:35:14,312 --> 00:35:15,813
She's alive. Yeah. Yeah.
772
00:35:15,813 --> 00:35:19,617
Texted me that morning, honey,
and all that, and I was like, Great.
773
00:35:19,617 --> 00:35:21,352
I thought you were dead.
774
00:35:21,352 --> 00:35:23,488
Yeah, that was my text. Back to her.
775
00:35:24,255 --> 00:35:26,324
It's funny where the mind goes. Yeah.
776
00:35:27,191 --> 00:35:28,893
That this. Mind?
777
00:35:28,893 --> 00:35:31,162
Yes, yeah, yeah. You know.
778
00:35:32,096 --> 00:35:34,532
Yeah, that was the whole thing though.
779
00:35:34,532 --> 00:35:35,766
The whole ride over there.
780
00:35:35,766 --> 00:35:40,204
I was thinking,
how can I look it look to the police that
781
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,840
oh got you know.
782
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,342
Yeah, yeah.
783
00:35:44,342 --> 00:35:47,345
We're I'm in my head going
yeah I knew she was dead hours ago.
784
00:35:47,345 --> 00:35:50,314
Yeah, I thought she was, but I went to
work cause I wasn't sure completely.
785
00:35:50,314 --> 00:35:52,783
I didn't want to wake her up.
Yeah. You know.
786
00:35:52,783 --> 00:35:56,187
Yeah, yeah.
787
00:35:56,220 --> 00:36:00,358
I could have checked in if she was dead,
maybe tried to resuscitate or something
788
00:36:00,358 --> 00:36:01,492
like that. That never
789
00:36:02,527 --> 00:36:03,794
crossed my mind.
790
00:36:03,794 --> 00:36:05,229
No, but.
791
00:36:06,030 --> 00:36:07,198
You know, 20.
792
00:36:07,198 --> 00:36:10,001
You know what they say about hindsight.
793
00:36:10,368 --> 00:36:10,968
Right? Yeah.
794
00:36:10,968 --> 00:36:13,771
Yep, yeah, yeah.
795
00:36:13,771 --> 00:36:15,039
All right.
796
00:36:15,039 --> 00:36:17,375
Well, Rob, I think we said it all.
797
00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:19,610
I think we as usual,
798
00:36:20,077 --> 00:36:23,114
I think we covered everything again.
799
00:36:23,114 --> 00:36:24,182
Yeah. Yep.
800
00:36:24,182 --> 00:36:25,316
Got everything on my list covered.
801
00:36:25,316 --> 00:36:28,452
So and thanks for your your input as well.
802
00:36:29,287 --> 00:36:31,956
I think there was a sentence
are there two there that might have
803
00:36:33,424 --> 00:36:34,225
worked.
804
00:36:34,559 --> 00:36:36,794
It won't get cut there on the floor.
805
00:36:36,794 --> 00:36:39,063
Dropped on the floor. Huh? Yeah.
806
00:36:40,164 --> 00:36:41,165
All right.
807
00:36:41,299 --> 00:36:44,769
Well, this has been another episode
of On the Floor with Wayne and Rob.
808
00:36:45,803 --> 00:36:47,071
Please stay tuned.
809
00:36:47,071 --> 00:36:49,106
And actually, we're going to talk about
two new finishes.
810
00:36:49,273 --> 00:36:52,310
I'm excited about this one, Rob Yeah.
811
00:36:52,610 --> 00:36:55,279
Okay. That's going to be pretty exciting.
812
00:36:55,279 --> 00:37:05,223
Well,
so please stay tuned for another episode.