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Hello.
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Welcome to another
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episode of On the Floor
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with Wayne and Rob.
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I'm Wayne Highlander, director of sales,
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Bona Adhesives.
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And you are?
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How we doing, Rob?
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Pretty good.
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How's it going?
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Switched it up there a little bit,
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little bit.
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Looking at you, I got distracted.
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It looks like you live
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in a trailer home somewhere.
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What's.
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What's going on
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with that curtain that just like.
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Well, Chris is always saying,
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you know,
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Chris is the guy who does everything
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him and Eileen,
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and he's always saying, Hey, can you
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put up a curtain on that
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big sliding glass window?
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And I'm always like,
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No, I don't have one.
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So today I thought, great, I'll
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I'll throw this bathrobe up there.
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You know,
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I get some looks
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and everything we have
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for Christmas lights.
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It's time for me to go on a diet.
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Definitely time, because,
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yeah, that
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a bathrobe shouldn't be able to cover
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an entire wall.
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You know what I mean?
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Maybe a window.
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The whole curtain,
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the whole window and everything?
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Yeah.
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I love how you willy nilly through it.
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It like. I bet.
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I bet Pauline would be mortified
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if she saw what we see on the screen.
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That looks like your house
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with a curtain falling down.
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It's actually your bathrobe.
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It don't get much,
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much more redneck than that.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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yeah.
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But I know what you mean about the robe.
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The robe situation.
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I was in a hotel last week.
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Now, you know,
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I've been eating pretty good
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the last few months.
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You know, I'm feeling
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pretty good about myself.
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You know,
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I get up in the morning,
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I look in the mirror, and I go, you know,
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the bar is low.
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Okay, So let's, you know,
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let's get that established.
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But I look at
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let's keep your fanny,
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let's keep your face,
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let's keep you.
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Yes,
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but I get used to a certain, you know,
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whatever look at.
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I'm thinking, okay, you're not too bad.
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You know, after
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I give myself a little bit of grace.
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I'm 63 now.
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And all in all, not too bad.
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I was in a hotel room in Las Vegas
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the last few days,
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and in that mirror,
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it was a whole different story.
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Yeah,
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I think some mirrors
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are just not friendly.
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You know what I mean?
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I don't know if it's the lighting.
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I don't know what it is, but I went like,
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What the hell?
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So, yeah,
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I totally get where
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you're coming from, man.
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to do to get you a special mirror?
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But maybe she did to be kind.
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Yeah, maybe that's.
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Well, we'll never lose that mirror at
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after the mirror I came back from.
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I was able to get home
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to look at this beer.
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Like I said, the bar is low.
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Yes, wasn't it was busy this year.
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There's a lot of people there
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in their fancy suits
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and their fancy briefcases
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and their fancy leather,
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leather satchels and shoes
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and everything
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and all these big deals being brokered in
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all the big players come in.
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I said it last year when I came back,
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and I always
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I always think without the floor guy
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doing the floors or the floor girl,
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none of this matters.
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None of these deals matter. None.
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These products matter
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without the floor
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craftsmen doing the work,
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never take for
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granted your skills
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because it's
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a big, big, big deal
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when you learn decades,
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decades of of craftsmanship, stuff,
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how to do things
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that make things work
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and make things work that are not right
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and make things come together
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and meet expectations and everything
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and never take for granted those skills.
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Sometimes that's all you got left.
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And when these guys
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are doing all these deals
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and everything and walking around there,
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I just keep
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it always strikes me that
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none of this stuff matters.
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None of this big building,
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the all these different products in here,
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none of it matters
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without the floor, man.
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So
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yep, yep.
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All ready.
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I thought we would talk about, you know,
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we get almost. But this is another PSA,
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you know, in our in our
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ventures looking out after the floor.
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The floor Man
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about becoming a workaholic.
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Now, it's interesting to me because
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we probably all have friends
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that are not in the floor trade
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that don't work nearly as hard
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in as many hours as we do right.
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it's easy to become
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a workaholic
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when you own your own business.
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You kind of get sucked into that
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sometimes because you know it.
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You you work,
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you've got to get the job done.
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There's no you don't ever set like,
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we only work. Sorry, we don't work.
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Saturdays, Sunday, sorry,
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we only work 8 to 5.
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I mean, a lot of guys can do that.
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I had not mastered that.
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And so we work to like,
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you know,
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we like you said
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before many times that, you know, you're
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you work until the job is done.
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You get
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you got to go till you get it stained.
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You got to go with you.
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You get the first coat on
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because you got a schedule.
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And then when you come home,
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all your friends are floor guys.
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So you're still talking about floors.
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You look on social media.
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you guys,
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social media is all flooring stuff.
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it becomes all encompassing.
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So I think it's easy to become like,
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you know, a workaholic almost.
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So, you know,
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also we always say, you know,
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we've always heard,
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yeah, work hard, play hard.
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a, you know, a harmless and funny phrase
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and almost like a badge of honor
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for for a lot of people,
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you know, who wouldn't want to work
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hard and achieve success
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and that kind of stuff.
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it kind of
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that phrase kind of encourages a
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workaholic mindset.
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it's a positive connotation.
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So I thought we'd talk about that.
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Go ahead.
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that's tough, man, because.
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Because I think,
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well, okay,
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so that brings up
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something that's interesting.
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You said that
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I think a lot of people
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would say that about me.
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I've certainly had
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friends say that about me,
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that, no, that's all he does is work.
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And I've had friends say that you.
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You work to live.
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I live no, I live to work.
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And they lived, they worked.
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Deliver some crap like I can remember.
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But rise the stat rising yeah, yeah,
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I was too busy.
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Too busy working to hear the rest of it.
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Some people work to live.
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Some people live to work.
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And so I've been accused of that
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and I think that it would almost be
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a fair thing to say about me.
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I think also I part of
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that was to me like,
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okay, yeah, it's almost a badge of honor.
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You're not afraid to work,
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you'll work,
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you'll do whatever it takes
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to get the job done.
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And I you know, I grew up with a
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I've always worked hard
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and that was just, you know,
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I mean, that was we, the guys respected.
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We're hard working guys, right?
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But,
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you know, I mean, I guess
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so that answers your question.
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But but no, but here's something else.
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You said.
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I think I'm that way about everything
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I do, though. I'm.
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Yeah.
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So like fishing.
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I mean, you just
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you seem to have that kind of personality
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So I wonder if.
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I won't. Yes.
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I wonder if there's a fine line
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between passion
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and that phrase workaholic
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because when I finish the
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I'll be the first guy
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up every day fishing.
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I will fish till the sun goes down. Fish.
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Almost nobody will fish as many hours
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as I will.
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I don't know why.
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I just. That's why I'm driven.
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When I used to lift weights
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and I know that is a long time ago.
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I know
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I would.
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I would would never be satisfied in work,
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you know?
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I mean, to be in a gym
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all the time, whatever.
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I just think that's my approach to life.
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I think there's
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probably some deep seated reasons behind
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that I don't want to know about.
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But but
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yeah, I did.
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And I was in line.
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seeded stuff there.
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I wasn't like in the way
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that was article was going.
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the bat, when I started to read that,
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I just started chuckling like, all right,
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that this is perfect for
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because they said, Are you a workaholic
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or are you highly engaged in your job?
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And
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Yeah, I think you're more
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than highly engaged.
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yeah, probably so.
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I don't know man.
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I think there's a,
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there's a big part of me
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that just wants to win.
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I want to be the best at whatever I do,
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and I think that's tied into it too.
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And I'm not saying it's healthy,
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I'm not believing on that bragging
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and I'm not saying it's healthy.
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I'm saying it is.
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It is what it is mean.
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And
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and but here's the way I look at to
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what I
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what I turn around
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and do it any other way.
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And I don't think so.
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I'm not complaining.
328
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You know what I mean? I'm I'm okay.
329
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You know, my other people.
330
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I mean, I like it.
331
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I mean, but that's just waited.
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And I like some people say
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and I've seen this before,
334
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when a guy dies
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and he's like 70 years old
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and the guy goes, may never be tired.
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He works, he works his entire life.
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Poor guy.
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He never got to
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you know, he never he just worked.
341
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Well, that's okay.
342
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Maybe that's what the guy wanted.
343
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Maybe he was happy working.
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I maybe he liked what he was doing.
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There's still,
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you know, there's people out there
347
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that that love what they do.
348
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Yeah, so.
349
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but I do think there's
350
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this other thing that drives me.
351
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I have this reoccurring
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nightmare in my head. Okay?
353
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And here's.
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Here's what it is.
355
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Okay?
356
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Something happens to Judy.
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She dies somehow. God forbid.
358
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Okay?
359
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Somehow she's gone. Okay?
360
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Somehow I remarry, okay?
361
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And I remarry a girl that's, like,
362
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half my age.
363
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Okay?
364
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She's 31.
365
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I'm telling you,
366
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this is how the dream is going.
367
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Okay, I'm sorry, I know, but.
368
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Yes, but it's not as good as it sounds.
369
00:12:14,266 --> 00:12:16,635
Okay, Because.
370
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lot,
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you know,
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lots of 30 year
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olds out there, you know, Yeah,
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I picture her.
375
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You look losers.
376
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No, I picture she's,
377
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like, 38 years old in my dream.
378
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Okay?
379
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And she is an absolute wreck.
380
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I mean, a horrible human being.
381
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You find her in the gutter
382
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and that's in her hair.
383
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No, not in the gutter.
384
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Not in the gutter.
385
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She lives in a beat up trailer home.
386
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Okay? Okay? She's got red hair.
387
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All right?
388
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I'm not making this up.
389
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She's got two kids
390
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who are equally as messed up as her.
391
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I mean, just horrible, rotten kids,
392
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you know, like 15 years
393
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old, just miserable,
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rotten, big kids, dirty.
395
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And I pitch them dirty
396
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like the house is always dirty.
397
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Right Yeah,
398
00:13:14,827 --> 00:13:17,797
yeah, now, that's not the worst of it.
399
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The worst of it is this
400
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one day when we're arguing,
401
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she says to me,
402
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and we're living
403
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somewhere out in the country,
404
00:13:24,937 --> 00:13:26,038
okay, Like out in the country,
405
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in Tennessee, right
406
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here, like way out
407
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in the sticks somewhere.
408
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And the worst of it is, she says to me,
409
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she screams at me one day,
410
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what happened to all that
411
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California money?
412
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That's the nightmare.
413
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And I've had it.
414
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I've I mean, it must have eight
415
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times I've thought about this
416
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and that's
417
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that's also what I think motivates me.
418
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So.
419
00:14:00,573 --> 00:14:01,540
All right,
420
00:14:01,540 --> 00:14:02,107
I'm not sure
421
00:14:02,107 --> 00:14:20,793
I know what to say right now, I get
422
00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:25,898
Yes, Yes,
423
00:14:25,998 --> 00:14:27,299
yes.
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To be successful and to work hard.
425
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Yes,
426
00:14:44,083 --> 00:14:45,050
I.
427
00:14:45,050 --> 00:14:46,552
I know.
428
00:14:46,552 --> 00:14:48,387
Horrible. Horrible. I work.
429
00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:49,321
No, no, no.
430
00:14:49,321 --> 00:14:50,489
I would never want that to happen.
431
00:14:50,489 --> 00:14:52,658
But in order for this for this dream
432
00:14:52,658 --> 00:14:54,460
that dream to take place,
433
00:14:54,460 --> 00:14:56,795
she has to be gone somehow.
434
00:14:56,795 --> 00:14:58,030
And I just figured, okay, well,
435
00:14:58,030 --> 00:15:01,033
she was a died or something, God forbid.
436
00:15:01,233 --> 00:15:02,368
And I guess
437
00:15:02,368 --> 00:15:04,169
it's an all or nothing with me,
438
00:15:04,169 --> 00:15:05,738
you know what I mean? I guess it is.
439
00:15:05,738 --> 00:15:08,073
You have this success,
440
00:15:08,073 --> 00:15:11,043
and if not for that, it's this, you know,
441
00:15:11,043 --> 00:15:15,114
and I don't know why.
442
00:15:15,180 --> 00:15:19,118
just ending and a complete different way.
443
00:15:19,118 --> 00:15:21,720
Like you come in, like there,
444
00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:22,655
there, white knight
445
00:15:22,655 --> 00:15:24,089
there, knight in shining armor.
446
00:15:24,089 --> 00:15:26,258
You know, the white horse.
447
00:15:26,358 --> 00:15:40,773
I think
448
00:15:40,839 --> 00:15:43,909
yes, there's no there's no fixing.
449
00:15:43,943 --> 00:15:44,743
There's there's
450
00:15:44,743 --> 00:15:46,412
no fixing these people, Rob,
451
00:15:46,412 --> 00:15:48,447
you don't see in my head what the wreck
452
00:15:48,447 --> 00:15:49,982
that is in that trailer home.
453
00:15:49,982 --> 00:15:52,117
And then we the way
454
00:15:52,117 --> 00:15:53,652
the way we have to live.
455
00:15:53,652 --> 00:15:54,920
Yeah.
456
00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,122
yeah.
457
00:15:57,122 --> 00:15:59,525
So
458
00:15:59,525 --> 00:16:01,126
reasons for being an alcoholic
459
00:16:01,126 --> 00:16:02,161
workaholic.
460
00:16:02,161 --> 00:16:06,699
I've got.
461
00:16:06,765 --> 00:16:08,334
I was wondering
462
00:16:08,334 --> 00:16:10,102
who was going to be the first one
463
00:16:10,102 --> 00:16:12,938
to slip with Yes. Yes.
464
00:16:12,938 --> 00:16:17,142
You know, I think also,
465
00:16:17,242 --> 00:16:19,845
I think you the way the way that this
466
00:16:19,845 --> 00:16:21,780
sometimes happens with people
467
00:16:21,780 --> 00:16:24,249
is you get addicted to the grind
468
00:16:24,249 --> 00:16:25,951
and you get addicted to the adrenaline
469
00:16:25,951 --> 00:16:27,086
of getting the jobs done
470
00:16:27,086 --> 00:16:28,287
and starting another job.
471
00:16:28,287 --> 00:16:31,557
And the highs of of, you know, this chaos
472
00:16:31,557 --> 00:16:33,659
almost every day getting up
473
00:16:33,659 --> 00:16:35,127
and doing is getting you drunk and hammer
474
00:16:35,127 --> 00:16:35,728
and doing this job.
475
00:16:35,728 --> 00:16:37,062
Maybe I think
476
00:16:37,062 --> 00:16:37,629
almost it
477
00:16:37,629 --> 00:16:39,531
becomes like an addictive thing,
478
00:16:39,531 --> 00:16:42,534
like an adrenaline thing. And
479
00:16:42,601 --> 00:16:44,003
I think that's to be part of it.
480
00:16:44,003 --> 00:16:47,006
Also, I think some people
481
00:16:47,139 --> 00:16:48,374
have not
482
00:16:48,374 --> 00:16:50,876
figured out how to say no.
483
00:16:50,876 --> 00:16:52,845
And I think that's part of the problem
484
00:16:52,845 --> 00:16:53,545
that leads to it.
485
00:16:53,545 --> 00:16:56,548
Like it's habit, like anything else.
486
00:16:56,582 --> 00:16:59,418
And it's tough to say, no,
487
00:16:59,418 --> 00:17:00,586
I can't do this job
488
00:17:00,586 --> 00:17:01,153
because whatever
489
00:17:01,153 --> 00:17:02,054
I know, nope, I'm
490
00:17:02,054 --> 00:17:03,255
going to take a vacation this week
491
00:17:03,255 --> 00:17:05,524
and I'm just going to say no.
492
00:17:05,524 --> 00:17:06,291
And a lot of people
493
00:17:06,291 --> 00:17:08,861
just not learned that skill or trade
494
00:17:08,861 --> 00:17:12,531
or whatever that is.
495
00:17:12,598 --> 00:17:14,400
I think I was guilty of that, too.
496
00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:15,801
I think I was like, All right,
497
00:17:15,801 --> 00:17:16,835
I got to get the job
498
00:17:16,835 --> 00:17:18,170
or maybe someone else to get the job.
499
00:17:18,170 --> 00:17:18,604
I will never
500
00:17:18,604 --> 00:17:20,606
I won't get a job with this guy again.
501
00:17:20,606 --> 00:17:22,074
And I think that was part of it.
502
00:17:22,074 --> 00:17:23,142
I marvel at people
503
00:17:23,142 --> 00:17:24,343
that that have been able
504
00:17:24,343 --> 00:17:26,078
to treat it like a job.
505
00:17:26,078 --> 00:17:28,580
I mean, I remember talking to a flirt.
506
00:17:28,580 --> 00:17:30,315
He's I think he sold his business.
507
00:17:30,315 --> 00:17:31,884
He's not in the business anymore.
508
00:17:31,884 --> 00:17:33,952
But he was very successful
509
00:17:33,952 --> 00:17:36,255
and probably ten crews out there
510
00:17:36,255 --> 00:17:38,023
and he goes, Wayne, it's just floors.
511
00:17:38,023 --> 00:17:38,891
It's just, you know,
512
00:17:38,891 --> 00:17:40,659
because he got a callback in the job
513
00:17:40,659 --> 00:17:42,361
and it was legit call from there.
514
00:17:42,361 --> 00:17:44,897
And music is just floors
515
00:17:44,897 --> 00:17:45,964
and not that big a deal
516
00:17:45,964 --> 00:17:47,833
whatever is not life and death
517
00:17:47,833 --> 00:17:49,034
and we'll get to it Monday.
518
00:17:49,034 --> 00:17:50,035
We're not working this weekend
519
00:17:50,035 --> 00:17:52,471
and whatever and I admire that.
520
00:17:52,471 --> 00:17:54,106
I really do admire that.
521
00:17:54,106 --> 00:17:55,808
But that just wasn't me.
522
00:17:55,808 --> 00:17:58,944
a that's a shocker. I mean, because
523
00:17:59,011 --> 00:18:00,512
just about every floor guy
524
00:18:00,512 --> 00:18:02,314
I know is not that way.
525
00:18:02,314 --> 00:18:08,220
Yeah, Yeah.
526
00:18:08,287 --> 00:18:10,923
The problem with being
527
00:18:10,923 --> 00:18:13,125
sometimes a workaholic is
528
00:18:13,125 --> 00:18:14,259
that you can be emotionally
529
00:18:14,259 --> 00:18:18,063
unavailable to other people.
530
00:18:18,130 --> 00:18:21,133
I wouldn't say that I like
531
00:18:21,366 --> 00:18:24,736
I wouldn't say that about me.
532
00:18:24,837 --> 00:18:25,737
I mean, I,
533
00:18:25,737 --> 00:18:28,740
I get along phenomenal with my wife
534
00:18:28,740 --> 00:18:29,341
when we get
535
00:18:29,341 --> 00:18:30,375
and we have a great relationship.
536
00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:30,742
I have,
537
00:18:30,742 --> 00:18:31,043
you know,
538
00:18:31,043 --> 00:18:32,377
and I think that
539
00:18:32,377 --> 00:18:33,479
she's very independent, too.
540
00:18:33,479 --> 00:18:35,147
That's the other thing, too.
541
00:18:35,147 --> 00:18:36,615
She's very independent
542
00:18:36,615 --> 00:18:38,250
and has her own life and
543
00:18:38,250 --> 00:18:39,952
and does her own stuff and whatever.
544
00:18:39,952 --> 00:18:41,053
And so,
545
00:18:41,053 --> 00:18:41,820
you know,
546
00:18:41,820 --> 00:18:42,454
she's not
547
00:18:42,454 --> 00:18:43,021
I think if you
548
00:18:43,021 --> 00:18:43,856
if she was needy
549
00:18:43,856 --> 00:18:44,690
or if she was a different type
550
00:18:44,690 --> 00:18:48,427
of personality, maybe it wouldn't work.
551
00:18:48,494 --> 00:18:50,596
But we get along great.
552
00:18:50,596 --> 00:18:53,298
But I think a lot of times you could be
553
00:18:53,298 --> 00:18:54,199
I can see how you could
554
00:18:54,199 --> 00:18:55,267
be emotionally unavailable
555
00:18:55,267 --> 00:18:59,037
if you were like a workaholic.
556
00:18:59,104 --> 00:19:01,373
I used to work out with a guy one time
557
00:19:01,373 --> 00:19:02,608
who was a bodybuilder. Like.
558
00:19:02,608 --> 00:19:04,209
Like I was a slug working out.
559
00:19:04,209 --> 00:19:05,677
You know what I mean?
560
00:19:05,677 --> 00:19:06,812
But this guy was like a
561
00:19:06,812 --> 00:19:07,279
he was a
562
00:19:07,279 --> 00:19:08,080
he was a bodybuilder
563
00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:09,181
and he was he was on an
564
00:19:09,181 --> 00:19:09,815
he was on,
565
00:19:09,815 --> 00:19:11,483
you know, there's levels in life
566
00:19:11,483 --> 00:19:14,486
and he was that guy.
567
00:19:14,620 --> 00:19:17,156
And
568
00:19:17,156 --> 00:19:20,159
the way he was so consumed with that,
569
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,461
I say he was almost
570
00:19:22,461 --> 00:19:23,695
emotionally unavailable
571
00:19:23,695 --> 00:19:25,998
to his wife and his kids, by the way.
572
00:19:25,998 --> 00:19:26,698
I mean, he was
573
00:19:26,698 --> 00:19:27,900
he had to be in that gym
574
00:19:27,900 --> 00:19:30,202
every day, Every day
575
00:19:30,202 --> 00:19:30,869
no matter what.
576
00:19:30,869 --> 00:19:31,637
That's just the way it was.
577
00:19:31,637 --> 00:19:32,671
He had a
578
00:19:32,671 --> 00:19:34,373
he had to eat a certain disciplined way
579
00:19:34,373 --> 00:19:35,874
every every time.
580
00:19:35,874 --> 00:19:37,843
He was so rigid and whatever.
581
00:19:37,843 --> 00:19:39,811
And where he was
582
00:19:39,811 --> 00:19:40,212
at the age
583
00:19:40,212 --> 00:19:40,812
where his kids
584
00:19:40,812 --> 00:19:41,847
could be doing other things.
585
00:19:41,847 --> 00:19:42,614
And but for him,
586
00:19:42,614 --> 00:19:43,682
it was always in the gym and
587
00:19:43,682 --> 00:19:46,084
gym and gym all the time.
588
00:19:46,151 --> 00:19:47,953
But
589
00:19:47,953 --> 00:19:49,188
so I you see, if
590
00:19:49,188 --> 00:19:49,555
you took
591
00:19:49,555 --> 00:19:51,089
that same type of mindset to work
592
00:19:51,089 --> 00:19:52,524
and you had kids and whatever,
593
00:19:52,524 --> 00:19:54,493
yeah, I can see that being a problem.
594
00:19:54,493 --> 00:19:56,395
But
595
00:19:56,395 --> 00:19:57,629
I don't know, I just,
596
00:19:57,629 --> 00:19:58,764
I just think it would be good
597
00:19:58,764 --> 00:19:59,631
to talk about this
598
00:19:59,631 --> 00:20:01,500
because if you find yourself in this
599
00:20:01,500 --> 00:20:05,137
rat race of
600
00:20:05,237 --> 00:20:06,572
maybe some of the signs
601
00:20:06,572 --> 00:20:06,939
we have,
602
00:20:06,939 --> 00:20:08,307
some of the signs here,
603
00:20:08,307 --> 00:20:10,943
they send you that list of Rob.
604
00:20:10,943 --> 00:20:12,177
What's your name? Rob.
605
00:20:12,177 --> 00:20:15,080
Yeah, I mostly.
606
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,715
And
607
00:20:16,715 --> 00:20:18,884
unavailable too.
608
00:20:18,884 --> 00:20:20,285
No, no, no, no, no. I wouldn't.
609
00:20:20,285 --> 00:20:20,919
I don't.
610
00:20:20,919 --> 00:20:24,323
Yeah, I got I got my own thing going on.
611
00:20:24,389 --> 00:20:25,257
I could be a Paul.
612
00:20:25,257 --> 00:20:26,425
I can see me as Paul.
613
00:20:26,425 --> 00:20:27,659
Could you. I could actually.
614
00:20:27,659 --> 00:20:30,929
That would work for me too. Yeah. Yeah.
615
00:20:30,996 --> 00:20:31,730
All right.
616
00:20:31,730 --> 00:20:33,298
for the rest of the day.
617
00:20:33,298 --> 00:20:35,100
Okay. Here, here.
618
00:20:35,100 --> 00:20:36,134
Here's a way
619
00:20:36,134 --> 00:20:36,802
that you might know
620
00:20:36,802 --> 00:20:39,438
that you're a workaholic.
621
00:20:39,438 --> 00:20:40,672
Workaholics experiencing
622
00:20:40,672 --> 00:20:41,707
negative emotions
623
00:20:41,707 --> 00:20:43,008
like anxiety and guilt
624
00:20:43,008 --> 00:20:45,143
when they aren't working.
625
00:20:45,143 --> 00:20:46,245
Okay?
626
00:20:46,245 --> 00:20:48,013
And that is a trap.
627
00:20:48,013 --> 00:20:51,250
And I've kind of fallen into that.
628
00:20:51,250 --> 00:20:54,253
And I think a lot of guys do that
629
00:20:54,419 --> 00:20:55,621
because there's, like,
630
00:20:55,621 --> 00:20:56,922
all your business never ends.
631
00:20:56,922 --> 00:20:57,089
Like,
632
00:20:57,089 --> 00:20:58,357
you could always be doing something.
633
00:20:58,357 --> 00:21:01,026
I mean, it's like a former almost a day.
634
00:21:01,026 --> 00:21:01,893
They could never end.
635
00:21:01,893 --> 00:21:03,462
You could just keep going.
636
00:21:03,462 --> 00:21:05,764
I know I used to joke when years ago
637
00:21:05,764 --> 00:21:07,065
that my next job
638
00:21:07,065 --> 00:21:07,733
I should have a job
639
00:21:07,733 --> 00:21:08,700
that they open at eight
640
00:21:08,700 --> 00:21:10,669
and they close it for you.
641
00:21:10,669 --> 00:21:11,270
That's it.
642
00:21:11,270 --> 00:21:12,271
You can't do any more.
643
00:21:12,271 --> 00:21:12,971
You can't get in there.
644
00:21:12,971 --> 00:21:14,806
That's it. Whatever.
645
00:21:14,806 --> 00:21:18,877
Because as a flooring contractor,
646
00:21:18,944 --> 00:21:20,279
they can never end.
647
00:21:20,279 --> 00:21:21,480
And so you do feel guilty
648
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,814
sometimes By now
649
00:21:22,814 --> 00:21:25,050
I could be doing this or I could be.
650
00:21:25,050 --> 00:21:25,917
We got the baseboard.
651
00:21:25,917 --> 00:21:26,885
At least I'm home now.
652
00:21:26,885 --> 00:21:27,152
I could
653
00:21:27,152 --> 00:21:28,687
I could hit the baseboard or I could
654
00:21:28,687 --> 00:21:29,621
I could do the risers
655
00:21:29,621 --> 00:21:31,790
and trends with my shop because
656
00:21:31,790 --> 00:21:35,994
blah, blah, blah, whatever
657
00:21:36,061 --> 00:21:36,328
work.
658
00:21:36,328 --> 00:21:37,562
I tend to
659
00:21:37,562 --> 00:21:38,263
work beyond
660
00:21:38,263 --> 00:21:39,998
what is reasonably expected of them,
661
00:21:39,998 --> 00:21:44,403
even by the organization.
662
00:21:44,469 --> 00:21:46,438
So
663
00:21:46,438 --> 00:21:46,972
we're colleagues
664
00:21:46,972 --> 00:21:48,573
and persistent thoughts about work
665
00:21:48,573 --> 00:21:50,809
when they're not working.
666
00:21:50,809 --> 00:21:51,543
I like the way this is.
667
00:21:51,543 --> 00:21:53,078
Go.
668
00:21:53,078 --> 00:21:53,545
I don't
669
00:21:53,545 --> 00:21:55,814
I don't like the way this is going.
670
00:21:55,814 --> 00:22:05,390
Yeah, I work.
671
00:22:05,457 --> 00:22:06,291
Yeah.
672
00:22:06,291 --> 00:22:08,460
I'm starting to think this is a
673
00:22:08,460 --> 00:22:11,763
is why I know that there's a
674
00:22:11,830 --> 00:22:12,931
that you and I
675
00:22:12,931 --> 00:22:15,133
are both mentioned in this article.
676
00:22:15,133 --> 00:22:16,768
You're a workaholic.
677
00:22:16,768 --> 00:22:18,770
And then there's somebody
678
00:22:18,770 --> 00:22:20,272
who is not a workaholic,
679
00:22:20,272 --> 00:22:22,974
but highly motivated with his job.
680
00:22:22,974 --> 00:22:23,942
Okay,
681
00:22:23,942 --> 00:22:26,311
now, that one right there, you know it.
682
00:22:26,311 --> 00:22:26,912
You've heard me
683
00:22:26,912 --> 00:22:29,247
tell other guys who work at Bowen
684
00:22:29,247 --> 00:22:31,750
and who I've worked with
685
00:22:31,750 --> 00:22:34,653
all my life, Hey,
686
00:22:34,653 --> 00:22:35,921
do your job right.
687
00:22:35,921 --> 00:22:37,155
Work as hard as you can
688
00:22:37,155 --> 00:22:38,256
when you're supposed to be there,
689
00:22:38,256 --> 00:22:39,458
whatever that.
690
00:22:39,458 --> 00:22:42,761
Kill it. Okay, then when it's over.
691
00:22:42,861 --> 00:22:44,029
But that bag of bricks
692
00:22:44,029 --> 00:22:45,564
down don't carry it around.
693
00:22:45,564 --> 00:22:48,333
It's a bag of bricks. Put it down.
694
00:22:48,333 --> 00:22:49,368
Get on with your life.
695
00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:52,170
There are some guys who can't do that,
696
00:22:52,170 --> 00:22:52,738
and it.
697
00:22:52,738 --> 00:22:55,707
It eats them alive.
698
00:22:55,907 --> 00:23:04,249
yeah,
699
00:23:04,349 --> 00:23:11,390
yeah,
700
00:23:11,490 --> 00:23:12,624
yeah, yeah, yep,
701
00:23:12,624 --> 00:23:34,379
yep, yep,
702
00:23:34,446 --> 00:23:35,580
yep.
703
00:23:35,580 --> 00:23:37,082
start and a finish time.
704
00:23:37,082 --> 00:23:38,283
That's beautiful.
705
00:23:38,283 --> 00:23:41,286
Well, that's fantastic,
706
00:23:41,453 --> 00:23:42,254
You just reminded me
707
00:23:42,254 --> 00:23:45,223
of one of my favorite phrases.
708
00:23:45,223 --> 00:23:47,893
My, my really good friend Jeff Rose
709
00:23:47,893 --> 00:23:49,327
passed away several years ago.
710
00:23:49,327 --> 00:23:51,696
That man, what a great guy.
711
00:23:51,696 --> 00:23:53,098
He used to say,
712
00:23:53,098 --> 00:23:53,331
You know,
713
00:23:53,331 --> 00:23:54,166
if you're going to be a bear,
714
00:23:54,166 --> 00:23:55,934
you might as well be a grizzly.
715
00:23:55,934 --> 00:24:01,807
And I like that expression.
716
00:24:01,873 --> 00:24:04,176
Yeah, but my response to that is, hey,
717
00:24:04,176 --> 00:24:05,510
somebody's got to worry about
718
00:24:05,510 --> 00:24:07,379
about things when everybody else is
719
00:24:07,379 --> 00:24:10,115
is not so
720
00:24:10,182 --> 00:24:13,552
I'm guilty of that one.
721
00:24:13,618 --> 00:24:14,219
guilty of that.
722
00:24:14,219 --> 00:24:16,254
I want Okay, let me see.
723
00:24:16,254 --> 00:24:19,691
Hear a motivational negative emotions
724
00:24:19,691 --> 00:24:21,393
like anxiety and guilt
725
00:24:21,393 --> 00:24:23,595
when you aren't working.
726
00:24:23,595 --> 00:24:27,599
I'm not me.
727
00:24:27,666 --> 00:24:28,467
the experience
728
00:24:28,467 --> 00:24:29,501
negative emotions,
729
00:24:29,501 --> 00:24:31,670
anxiety and guilt when not work.
730
00:24:31,670 --> 00:24:32,237
Yeah I would say
731
00:24:32,237 --> 00:24:33,939
I have been guilty of that in the past.
732
00:24:33,939 --> 00:24:38,043
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
733
00:24:38,143 --> 00:24:39,044
that you feel guilty
734
00:24:39,044 --> 00:24:40,679
about not fishing sometimes,
735
00:24:40,679 --> 00:24:43,381
if you haven't fished in a while,
736
00:24:43,381 --> 00:24:45,250
It's not that I feel guilty about it is
737
00:24:45,250 --> 00:24:46,318
I need to.
738
00:24:46,318 --> 00:24:48,019
If I have a vision. Well, I have to.
739
00:24:48,019 --> 00:24:49,788
I have to go fishing.
740
00:24:49,788 --> 00:24:51,590
That's. That's it for me.
741
00:24:51,590 --> 00:24:52,557
I mean, that's my,
742
00:24:52,557 --> 00:24:54,359
that's, that's my favorite thing to do.
743
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,428
So.
744
00:24:56,428 --> 00:24:59,364
I mean, you and I have known each other
745
00:24:59,364 --> 00:25:01,032
well, almost 20 years.
746
00:25:01,032 --> 00:25:04,703
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
747
00:25:04,769 --> 00:25:06,238
And we've hung out,
748
00:25:06,238 --> 00:25:10,075
travel right, worked everything great.
749
00:25:10,141 --> 00:25:11,810
Right?
750
00:25:11,810 --> 00:25:20,785
Slept.
751
00:25:20,852 --> 00:25:22,387
No, I wouldn't work.
752
00:25:22,387 --> 00:25:26,925
I would not work.
753
00:25:27,025 --> 00:25:28,627
We're not here to have fun.
754
00:25:28,627 --> 00:25:29,160
know, there's
755
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,163
athletes and social athletes.
756
00:25:32,397 --> 00:25:33,632
Okay?
757
00:25:33,632 --> 00:25:36,668
And nobody in our family
758
00:25:36,668 --> 00:25:40,438
really realized that until Rebecca
759
00:25:40,438 --> 00:25:48,113
married Kyle, Yeah.
760
00:25:48,179 --> 00:26:07,666
Yeah.
761
00:26:07,766 --> 00:26:08,233
no.
762
00:26:08,233 --> 00:26:11,002
Yeah, But I guess if you're a kick
763
00:26:11,002 --> 00:26:13,872
D3 football playing guy,
764
00:26:13,872 --> 00:26:14,873
there's athletes
765
00:26:14,873 --> 00:26:16,942
and there's social athletes.
766
00:26:16,942 --> 00:26:19,477
And I thought as soon as he said that,
767
00:26:19,477 --> 00:26:21,346
I started cracking up thinking,
768
00:26:21,346 --> 00:26:23,315
I can't go fishing with Wayne.
769
00:26:23,315 --> 00:26:25,083
I'm a social fisherman.
770
00:26:25,083 --> 00:26:26,184
yeah.
771
00:26:26,184 --> 00:26:28,887
I'll drive him crazy.
772
00:26:28,887 --> 00:26:30,221
You would.
773
00:26:30,221 --> 00:26:31,823
And then the more I see you going
774
00:26:31,823 --> 00:26:35,794
crazy, the more I'm going to Yeah.
775
00:26:35,894 --> 00:26:37,629
Yeah.
776
00:26:37,629 --> 00:26:39,464
That would not end well for.
777
00:26:39,464 --> 00:26:45,870
For either of us.
778
00:26:45,937 --> 00:26:46,237
But.
779
00:26:46,237 --> 00:26:47,939
But here's the thing.
780
00:26:47,939 --> 00:26:49,407
People think I'm not having a good time
781
00:26:49,407 --> 00:26:51,743
because I'm real serious like that.
782
00:26:51,810 --> 00:26:52,777
I remember when my.
783
00:26:52,777 --> 00:26:54,879
I've got a friend and his wife,
784
00:26:54,879 --> 00:26:56,348
You know, when we're going out,
785
00:26:56,348 --> 00:26:56,881
she knows me.
786
00:26:56,881 --> 00:26:58,216
I'm joking around a lot of time
787
00:26:58,216 --> 00:26:59,951
and we're having a good time, whatever.
788
00:26:59,951 --> 00:27:01,920
And then she sees me at work
789
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,488
or she's been out with our fish,
790
00:27:03,488 --> 00:27:03,989
with ball,
791
00:27:03,989 --> 00:27:05,290
and I don't talk at all
792
00:27:05,290 --> 00:27:07,092
when I'm fishing, I don't ever talk,
793
00:27:07,092 --> 00:27:08,660
I don't want to talk to anybody.
794
00:27:08,660 --> 00:27:10,161
And she thinks I'm
795
00:27:10,161 --> 00:27:11,997
there's like something wrong with me.
796
00:27:11,997 --> 00:27:12,897
But it's not.
797
00:27:12,897 --> 00:27:14,366
I'm I'm having a good time.
798
00:27:14,366 --> 00:27:15,867
My life is just that
799
00:27:15,867 --> 00:27:20,839
I just, you know, it's just different.
800
00:27:20,939 --> 00:27:22,707
You don't talk when you fish.
801
00:27:22,707 --> 00:27:27,545
never,
802
00:27:27,612 --> 00:27:30,148
never
803
00:27:30,148 --> 00:27:35,920
take it back.
804
00:27:36,021 --> 00:27:36,655
I could do that
805
00:27:36,655 --> 00:27:37,822
because I'm not serious about golf.
806
00:27:37,822 --> 00:27:39,090
I don't care about golf.
807
00:27:39,090 --> 00:27:41,292
I actually take it back.
808
00:27:41,292 --> 00:27:42,560
And when I go by myself,
809
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,797
I talk to myself a lot when I'm fishing
810
00:27:45,897 --> 00:27:47,198
a lot.
811
00:27:47,198 --> 00:27:48,967
But there's the other person in the boat.
812
00:27:48,967 --> 00:27:50,635
I we don't, we don't.
813
00:27:50,635 --> 00:27:51,770
I wouldn't talk.
814
00:27:51,770 --> 00:27:52,337
No. Yeah.
815
00:27:52,337 --> 00:27:53,738
hope there's no psychiatrists
816
00:27:53,738 --> 00:27:54,773
listening to this show.
817
00:27:54,773 --> 00:27:56,307
They're going to give you a call.
818
00:27:56,307 --> 00:27:56,508
Yeah.
819
00:27:56,508 --> 00:27:57,008
Like I said,
820
00:27:57,008 --> 00:27:58,309
I didn't like the way this was going.
821
00:27:58,309 --> 00:27:58,510
That's why
822
00:27:58,510 --> 00:28:03,048
I'm not going to read a lot of this.
823
00:28:03,148 --> 00:28:04,883
But when I talked about
824
00:28:04,883 --> 00:28:08,553
being emotionally unavailable,
825
00:28:08,653 --> 00:28:10,355
I'm going to tell you the best story
826
00:28:10,355 --> 00:28:12,123
I have ever known of
827
00:28:12,123 --> 00:28:12,757
about someone
828
00:28:12,757 --> 00:28:17,529
being emotionally unavailable and
829
00:28:17,595 --> 00:28:20,432
So let
830
00:28:20,432 --> 00:28:25,637
look,
831
00:28:25,737 --> 00:28:26,271
I don't care.
832
00:28:26,271 --> 00:28:27,572
I don't care about yours.
833
00:28:27,572 --> 00:28:31,376
Let me get to my gate.
834
00:28:31,443 --> 00:28:34,446
So we were in the Gatlinburg
835
00:28:34,446 --> 00:28:35,747
Pigeon Forge area,
836
00:28:35,747 --> 00:28:37,348
and it was around Christmas time
837
00:28:37,348 --> 00:28:38,249
and we went out to dinner
838
00:28:38,249 --> 00:28:40,919
and the anybody remembers,
839
00:28:40,919 --> 00:28:43,922
there was a massive fire in that area
840
00:28:44,089 --> 00:28:45,590
about a year earlier
841
00:28:45,590 --> 00:28:47,392
and several people were killed
842
00:28:47,392 --> 00:28:48,793
and homes and cabins were burned
843
00:28:48,793 --> 00:28:49,194
and everything.
844
00:28:49,194 --> 00:28:51,262
It was a terrible, terrible fire.
845
00:28:51,329 --> 00:28:52,597
And we were outside this
846
00:28:52,597 --> 00:28:53,732
restaurant
847
00:28:53,732 --> 00:28:56,735
and one of the guys I was with is is
848
00:28:56,935 --> 00:29:00,171
he's I say this Mentally challenged.
849
00:29:00,271 --> 00:29:02,107
He's like 56 years old.
850
00:29:02,107 --> 00:29:03,041
If you to look at him,
851
00:29:03,041 --> 00:29:03,641
you would not know.
852
00:29:03,641 --> 00:29:04,976
And by the way,
853
00:29:04,976 --> 00:29:07,078
the sweetest guy on earth,
854
00:29:07,078 --> 00:29:09,748
I mean, whenever we have a function, he
855
00:29:09,748 --> 00:29:10,815
if he doesn't come over,
856
00:29:10,815 --> 00:29:12,183
if he doesn't, someone doesn't
857
00:29:12,183 --> 00:29:13,718
bring him, it's a disappointment.
858
00:29:13,718 --> 00:29:16,087
We everybody loves him. He's a great guy.
859
00:29:16,087 --> 00:29:17,756
But the fact of the matter
860
00:29:17,756 --> 00:29:19,124
is he's about 58 years old
861
00:29:19,124 --> 00:29:19,691
and he is
862
00:29:19,691 --> 00:29:20,825
he's like
863
00:29:20,825 --> 00:29:22,460
mental capacity to like a six year old
864
00:29:22,460 --> 00:29:24,562
that would say something like that.
865
00:29:24,562 --> 00:29:26,264
So
866
00:29:26,264 --> 00:29:27,899
he lives to mow lawns.
867
00:29:27,899 --> 00:29:29,234
Okay. That is his favorites.
868
00:29:29,234 --> 00:29:31,836
All he cares about is mowing lawns.
869
00:29:31,836 --> 00:29:34,472
And we're outside this restaurant
870
00:29:34,472 --> 00:29:35,774
in Gatlinburg.
871
00:29:35,774 --> 00:29:36,908
And the owner was out
872
00:29:36,908 --> 00:29:40,111
there at the restaurant and I said,
873
00:29:40,211 --> 00:29:41,246
gosh, it's terrible.
874
00:29:41,246 --> 00:29:41,880
The fires, it
875
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,814
you know, they went through here
876
00:29:42,814 --> 00:29:43,448
and it looks like,
877
00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:43,848
you know, people
878
00:29:43,848 --> 00:29:45,683
starting to pick up on kind of move
879
00:29:45,683 --> 00:29:47,218
on a little bit and everything.
880
00:29:47,218 --> 00:29:48,319
And he said, yeah.
881
00:29:48,319 --> 00:29:48,953
He goes, it's
882
00:29:48,953 --> 00:29:51,523
it's a shame because as a matter of fact,
883
00:29:51,523 --> 00:29:53,892
the last person that died from that fire
884
00:29:53,892 --> 00:29:55,460
was my dear friend.
885
00:29:55,460 --> 00:29:57,428
And she died last weekend
886
00:29:57,428 --> 00:29:59,297
in the hospital.
887
00:29:59,297 --> 00:30:01,099
So
888
00:30:01,099 --> 00:30:03,268
my friend who is mentally challenged.
889
00:30:03,268 --> 00:30:05,537
says, well,
890
00:30:05,537 --> 00:30:08,173
I just got a lot more for Christmas,
891
00:30:08,173 --> 00:30:11,843
but gave.
892
00:30:11,943 --> 00:30:13,578
that was his response to that man
893
00:30:13,578 --> 00:30:17,549
saying his dear friend just died.
894
00:30:17,649 --> 00:30:18,616
And like I said,
895
00:30:18,616 --> 00:30:19,584
if you look at this guy,
896
00:30:19,584 --> 00:30:20,385
you would never know there's
897
00:30:20,385 --> 00:30:22,153
anything wrong with him.
898
00:30:22,153 --> 00:30:25,323
And the guy was like taken aback you.
899
00:30:25,323 --> 00:30:25,990
Of course
900
00:30:25,990 --> 00:30:26,791
he was like,
901
00:30:26,791 --> 00:30:27,926
Hey, listen, I got my problems,
902
00:30:27,926 --> 00:30:30,161
you got yours, is what it sounded like.
903
00:30:30,161 --> 00:30:32,163
And
904
00:30:32,230 --> 00:30:33,331
I wanted to circle
905
00:30:33,331 --> 00:30:34,766
back to that guy and say, Hey, man,
906
00:30:34,766 --> 00:30:37,202
just so you know, here's a situation.
907
00:30:37,202 --> 00:30:40,438
But our our table's ready.
908
00:30:40,538 --> 00:30:43,508
And, you know, I
909
00:30:43,775 --> 00:30:45,844
like to eat.
910
00:30:45,844 --> 00:30:46,344
Yeah.
911
00:30:46,344 --> 00:30:48,580
So anyhow,
912
00:30:48,580 --> 00:30:50,515
so this is the point of the podcast.
913
00:30:50,515 --> 00:30:51,583
I just realized that
914
00:30:51,583 --> 00:30:52,684
it would have been a good idea for
915
00:30:52,684 --> 00:30:54,519
you and I to offer some suggestions
916
00:30:54,519 --> 00:30:55,520
and how to break the habit.
917
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,222
If you, if you are
918
00:30:57,222 --> 00:30:59,624
a find yourself as a workaholic.
919
00:30:59,624 --> 00:31:02,627
I don't think you can.
920
00:31:02,794 --> 00:31:06,130
You're right.
921
00:31:06,197 --> 00:31:08,867
Yeah.
922
00:31:08,867 --> 00:31:10,668
Okay.
923
00:31:10,668 --> 00:31:12,704
Okay. Okay.
924
00:31:12,704 --> 00:31:20,111
All right.
925
00:31:20,211 --> 00:31:25,283
It's not going to happen.
926
00:31:25,383 --> 00:31:27,819
people when they're young, possibly.
927
00:31:27,819 --> 00:31:29,287
So this diagnosis is like
928
00:31:29,287 --> 00:31:29,954
you've got cancer.
929
00:31:29,954 --> 00:31:31,389
There's nothing you can do.
930
00:31:31,389 --> 00:31:32,690
Exactly. Enjoy it.
931
00:31:32,690 --> 00:31:34,592
Well, you got to embrace it.
932
00:31:34,592 --> 00:31:35,960
I think we
933
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,962
we we could do a little one
934
00:31:37,962 --> 00:31:38,663
better than that.
935
00:31:38,663 --> 00:31:40,665
I think, as I'm thinking here.
936
00:31:40,665 --> 00:31:44,002
you sure Well,
937
00:31:44,102 --> 00:31:45,303
I know
938
00:31:45,303 --> 00:31:47,138
We're not professionally trained
939
00:31:47,138 --> 00:31:48,640
in any of this stuff.
940
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:49,540
okay.
941
00:31:49,540 --> 00:31:52,310
Well, yeah, but, you know,
942
00:31:52,310 --> 00:31:56,514
you get a license online.
943
00:31:56,614 --> 00:31:57,548
Okay, here's what I would tell
944
00:31:57,548 --> 00:32:01,185
somebody else. Okay,
945
00:32:01,286 --> 00:32:02,587
here's what I would say.
946
00:32:02,587 --> 00:32:06,958
I'd say, okay, listen.
947
00:32:07,058 --> 00:32:09,193
Yeah,
948
00:32:09,193 --> 00:32:10,895
yeah.
949
00:32:10,895 --> 00:32:12,430
Physician, heal thyself.
950
00:32:12,430 --> 00:32:15,433
I would say I would say, look,
951
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:16,467
if you can find
952
00:32:16,467 --> 00:32:19,837
a hobby outside of your job,
953
00:32:19,904 --> 00:32:21,239
something that
954
00:32:21,239 --> 00:32:23,441
isn't with other floor guys
955
00:32:23,441 --> 00:32:25,276
doesn't have anything to do with floors,
956
00:32:25,276 --> 00:32:27,812
a complete distraction from floors.
957
00:32:27,812 --> 00:32:28,413
I mean, like,
958
00:32:28,413 --> 00:32:30,214
like painting or whatever or something
959
00:32:30,214 --> 00:32:31,149
or hiking or something,
960
00:32:31,149 --> 00:32:32,650
anything outside of the,
961
00:32:32,650 --> 00:32:34,519
of the flooring industry.
962
00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:36,854
I'd say that would be
963
00:32:36,854 --> 00:32:39,857
probably the best shot you got of,
964
00:32:39,958 --> 00:32:43,061
of rating, you know, number one,
965
00:32:43,127 --> 00:32:44,028
I would say number one.
966
00:32:44,028 --> 00:32:45,363
Well that's number two.
967
00:32:45,363 --> 00:32:47,332
Number one, I would say
968
00:32:47,432 --> 00:32:49,000
that you're aware of it,
969
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,336
that you make yourself at least aware
970
00:32:51,336 --> 00:32:52,270
that you have this trade.
971
00:32:52,270 --> 00:32:53,604
And where does it come from?
972
00:32:53,604 --> 00:32:55,740
I mean, if you read a of this,
973
00:32:55,740 --> 00:32:57,809
it goes way back to the childhood.
974
00:32:57,809 --> 00:33:03,881
And I know I don't we don't need to go.
975
00:33:03,948 --> 00:33:06,617
stuff and I'm like,
976
00:33:06,617 --> 00:33:08,386
where are we going to go with this thing
977
00:33:08,386 --> 00:33:10,188
today? Yeah.
978
00:33:10,188 --> 00:33:11,322
We don't think we need to go
979
00:33:11,322 --> 00:33:12,724
any further than this.
980
00:33:12,724 --> 00:33:14,859
But I think number one is
981
00:33:14,859 --> 00:33:16,627
at least be aware that this might be
982
00:33:16,627 --> 00:33:18,162
something you suffer with.
983
00:33:18,162 --> 00:33:18,997
And number two,
984
00:33:18,997 --> 00:33:19,931
that it may affect
985
00:33:19,931 --> 00:33:24,168
other loved ones in your life.
986
00:33:24,235 --> 00:33:26,304
Hey, I'm trying here
987
00:33:26,304 --> 00:33:27,505
and.
988
00:33:27,505 --> 00:33:29,974
All right.
989
00:33:29,974 --> 00:33:31,743
I am.
990
00:33:31,743 --> 00:33:33,177
And
991
00:33:33,177 --> 00:33:48,659
yeah,
992
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,629
yeah,
993
00:33:51,629 --> 00:33:52,697
yep, yep.
994
00:33:52,697 --> 00:33:54,665
day's work in, but.
995
00:33:54,665 --> 00:33:55,600
But I could definitely
996
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:56,534
see the difference.
997
00:33:56,534 --> 00:33:57,535
And maybe you're right.
998
00:33:57,535 --> 00:33:59,303
Maybe if somebody
999
00:33:59,303 --> 00:34:00,905
realizes their workaholic.
1000
00:34:00,905 --> 00:34:02,707
But I think you've always known
1001
00:34:02,707 --> 00:34:04,909
your workaholic and
1002
00:34:05,009 --> 00:34:09,680
Well,
1003
00:34:09,747 --> 00:34:13,618
second job.
1004
00:34:13,718 --> 00:34:15,153
fishing poles do you own?
1005
00:34:15,153 --> 00:34:15,720
Yeah.
1006
00:34:15,720 --> 00:34:16,320
We don't get in
1007
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,957
that about four more or the last week
1008
00:34:20,024 --> 00:34:23,027
I went to Texas about four.
1009
00:34:23,227 --> 00:34:27,198
So
1010
00:34:27,298 --> 00:34:29,901
yeah,
1011
00:34:29,901 --> 00:34:31,736
I probably got about five
1012
00:34:31,736 --> 00:34:33,571
that I've really never used before.
1013
00:34:33,571 --> 00:34:34,839
But,
1014
00:34:34,839 --> 00:34:35,907
but there are,
1015
00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,743
there's a reason for all of them.
1016
00:34:38,743 --> 00:34:42,346
I wasn't going to say.
1017
00:34:42,413 --> 00:34:43,948
Yeah,
1018
00:34:43,948 --> 00:34:44,582
yeah.
1019
00:34:44,582 --> 00:34:45,550
I mean, you know,
1020
00:34:45,550 --> 00:34:48,519
I think number one in the very least,
1021
00:34:48,553 --> 00:34:50,288
be aware of it.
1022
00:34:50,288 --> 00:34:51,055
Be aware of the
1023
00:34:51,055 --> 00:34:52,490
how it can affect your life
1024
00:34:52,490 --> 00:34:53,791
and other people.
1025
00:34:53,791 --> 00:34:54,992
If you wanted to change,
1026
00:34:54,992 --> 00:34:56,494
you could look into how that changes.
1027
00:34:56,494 --> 00:34:57,528
I think I mean,
1028
00:34:57,528 --> 00:34:58,029
you know,
1029
00:34:58,029 --> 00:35:04,368
some of this goes pretty deep, but
1030
00:35:04,469 --> 00:35:08,239
but here.
1031
00:35:08,339 --> 00:35:09,740
Yeah.
1032
00:35:09,740 --> 00:35:11,008
Yeah, right.
1033
00:35:11,008 --> 00:35:11,943
Maybe the first thing to do
1034
00:35:11,943 --> 00:35:14,946
is realize, Geez, I am a workaholic.
1035
00:35:15,012 --> 00:35:16,848
but here's the thing.
1036
00:35:16,848 --> 00:35:18,749
When I look at you, you're right.
1037
00:35:18,749 --> 00:35:20,751
I don't see that you're a workaholic,
1038
00:35:20,751 --> 00:35:23,421
but you're a hard worker, and there's no
1039
00:35:23,421 --> 00:35:25,790
there's no shame and there's no, like,
1040
00:35:25,790 --> 00:35:28,059
step down, because you know what I mean?
1041
00:35:28,059 --> 00:35:28,259
That.
1042
00:35:28,259 --> 00:35:30,194
I mean, you're as passionate as they get,
1043
00:35:30,194 --> 00:35:35,700
so there's got to be a fine line there.
1044
00:35:35,766 --> 00:35:36,734
if somebody
1045
00:35:36,734 --> 00:35:39,737
had talked to me about
1046
00:35:39,770 --> 00:35:42,673
right before Christmas, I did
1047
00:35:42,673 --> 00:35:45,977
15 schools in 16 weeks.
1048
00:35:46,043 --> 00:35:47,778
Unheard of, Wow.
1049
00:35:47,778 --> 00:35:50,781
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1050
00:35:50,848 --> 00:35:51,816
people that can't say
1051
00:35:51,816 --> 00:35:54,285
no, I had people call me,
1052
00:35:54,285 --> 00:35:55,586
you know, hey, I'd like to do a school.
1053
00:35:55,586 --> 00:35:57,355
Like do a school.
1054
00:35:57,355 --> 00:36:00,591
I had to plan vacations during that 16
1055
00:36:00,691 --> 00:36:01,058
weeks.
1056
00:36:01,058 --> 00:36:02,560
And I said, well,
1057
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,962
I'll I'll take time off later.
1058
00:36:04,962 --> 00:36:06,230
I'll do the school.
1059
00:36:06,230 --> 00:36:10,668
And a boy,
1060
00:36:10,735 --> 00:36:22,046
right?
1061
00:36:22,113 --> 00:36:23,581
Yeah,
1062
00:36:23,581 --> 00:36:34,759
yeah, yeah,
1063
00:36:34,825 --> 00:36:36,861
yeah,
1064
00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:37,428
right.
1065
00:36:37,428 --> 00:36:40,398
Yeah. Yep.
1066
00:36:40,398 --> 00:36:50,007
What?
1067
00:36:50,107 --> 00:36:51,542
Right?
1068
00:36:51,542 --> 00:36:55,947
Yeah.
1069
00:36:56,013 --> 00:36:57,848
So,
1070
00:36:57,848 --> 00:37:02,286
yeah,
1071
00:37:02,353 --> 00:37:04,855
yep,
1072
00:37:04,855 --> 00:37:05,590
yep.
1073
00:37:05,590 --> 00:37:06,891
No, I get it.
1074
00:37:06,891 --> 00:37:09,160
there's difference with workaholics
1075
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,062
where it's like they
1076
00:37:11,062 --> 00:37:12,129
they can't do what
1077
00:37:12,129 --> 00:37:13,464
I did at the end of that.
1078
00:37:13,464 --> 00:37:19,870
Just Yeah,
1079
00:37:19,937 --> 00:37:23,507
yeah, yeah,
1080
00:37:23,574 --> 00:37:25,243
yes, yes, yes.
1081
00:37:25,243 --> 00:37:26,744
Yeah. So.
1082
00:37:26,744 --> 00:37:29,981
Yeah Okay.
1083
00:37:30,047 --> 00:37:33,317
Yeah, I agree.
1084
00:37:33,384 --> 00:37:34,986
Yeah.
1085
00:37:34,986 --> 00:37:37,021
Yep.
1086
00:37:37,021 --> 00:37:38,489
Well,
1087
00:37:38,489 --> 00:37:41,859
the other thing too is that you can put
1088
00:37:41,926 --> 00:37:43,160
too much expectation issues
1089
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,829
on other people
1090
00:37:44,829 --> 00:37:45,630
if you're in is
1091
00:37:45,630 --> 00:37:47,431
if you're that type of guy, you know,
1092
00:37:47,431 --> 00:37:48,266
I mean you have to realize,
1093
00:37:48,266 --> 00:37:48,866
you know, everybody
1094
00:37:48,866 --> 00:37:51,269
everybody's made like you and
1095
00:37:51,269 --> 00:37:52,703
some people value their time lives and.
1096
00:37:52,703 --> 00:37:54,138
But like me,
1097
00:37:54,138 --> 00:37:55,473
working with the younger generation
1098
00:37:55,473 --> 00:37:57,808
today would be a problem.
1099
00:37:57,808 --> 00:37:58,509
Do you know what I mean?
1100
00:37:58,509 --> 00:37:58,909
The people
1101
00:37:58,909 --> 00:38:00,611
that really value their time off
1102
00:38:00,611 --> 00:38:01,178
and everything
1103
00:38:01,178 --> 00:38:04,115
and that would be a problem for me,
1104
00:38:04,115 --> 00:38:05,883
you know what I mean?
1105
00:38:05,883 --> 00:38:09,053
So, the do you remember the day
1106
00:38:09,153 --> 00:38:10,988
we were doing school in Nashville
1107
00:38:10,988 --> 00:38:13,958
and you came in, shut the door
1108
00:38:14,091 --> 00:38:17,094
to the office yeah,
1109
00:38:17,295 --> 00:38:21,432
yeah, I do.
1110
00:38:21,499 --> 00:38:23,467
that you were going to be
1111
00:38:23,467 --> 00:38:24,568
the adhesive guru.
1112
00:38:24,568 --> 00:38:27,438
You were taking over it easiest. Yeah.
1113
00:38:27,438 --> 00:38:28,673
What did I say to you?
1114
00:38:28,673 --> 00:38:30,007
Do you remember what I said to you
1115
00:38:30,007 --> 00:38:31,108
first thing?
1116
00:38:31,108 --> 00:38:33,244
You know, we deserve that better.
1117
00:38:33,244 --> 00:38:34,178
You're unbelievable.
1118
00:38:34,178 --> 00:38:37,114
I mean, I've never met a man like you
1119
00:38:37,181 --> 00:38:39,917
that it?
1120
00:38:39,917 --> 00:38:42,520
I put that in the letter
1121
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,255
Yeah. Yeah.
1122
00:38:44,255 --> 00:38:47,858
No, I say I don't remember.
1123
00:38:47,925 --> 00:38:54,098
No.
1124
00:38:54,165 --> 00:38:59,804
Yeah, yeah,
1125
00:38:59,870 --> 00:39:02,440
yep, yep,
1126
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:02,873
yep.
1127
00:39:02,873 --> 00:39:05,209
Well, luckily I've
1128
00:39:05,209 --> 00:39:06,711
got a good bunch of guys.
1129
00:39:06,711 --> 00:39:13,084
Are.
1130
00:39:13,150 --> 00:39:15,786
Yep.
1131
00:39:15,786 --> 00:39:17,121
There you go.
1132
00:39:17,121 --> 00:39:18,155
you're saying about working
1133
00:39:18,155 --> 00:39:20,291
with young kids,
1134
00:39:20,291 --> 00:39:21,225
I would like to tell you
1135
00:39:21,225 --> 00:39:23,327
that my travel story up to Montreal.
1136
00:39:23,327 --> 00:39:25,329
Know how you love a boring boy.
1137
00:39:25,329 --> 00:39:26,731
Here we go. Here we go.
1138
00:39:26,731 --> 00:39:28,299
Everybody get ready is going to.
1139
00:39:28,299 --> 00:39:29,567
customs into Montreal.
1140
00:39:29,567 --> 00:39:30,768
I'm not going to do that, though.
1141
00:39:30,768 --> 00:39:33,404
But
1142
00:39:33,404 --> 00:39:36,841
I had three kids at this school
1143
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that were all three under 21 years old.
1144
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Wow.
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Let me tell you,
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I think the future looks bright.
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If, as I told these kids,
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you remember the podcast we were doing
1149
00:39:49,987 --> 00:39:51,689
was like every
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00:39:51,689 --> 00:39:53,023
every ten guys retire
1151
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from the floor guys
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to replace the ten, Yeah, yeah,
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yeah,
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yeah.
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the end of the three days
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was a three day school.
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And these kids, you could tell
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they were all just out of high school.
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I have never had anybody at a class
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take the amount of notes Wow.
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No kidding.
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other kids took a bunch to.
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But also at that school, I had
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one of the best compliments
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anybody has ever
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given me in my life
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from one of these young kids.
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And the two kids came in
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and he's like nudging them.
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He's like, Tell me, tell him.
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Tell him what you said to me last night.
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No kidding.
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00:41:15,906 --> 00:41:17,908
wow, doing in me?
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man. he's like, You just have a way.
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You teach it and it's fun.
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I never learned more. Yeah, he was
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No, that is that.
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00:41:37,628 --> 00:41:39,196
I haven't told anybody that.
1179
00:41:39,196 --> 00:41:41,799
I told Pauline that, Yeah,
1180
00:41:41,799 --> 00:41:45,369
that in that because that was a man
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00:41:45,369 --> 00:41:47,738
that got me, that one,
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00:41:47,738 --> 00:41:49,406
That one to make it emotional.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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No seriously, that,
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00:41:51,575 --> 00:41:54,011
that is as a high honor man.
1186
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Pretty cool.
1187
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yeah.
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So, Can, can you imagine if they had met
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you.
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Can you imagine if they had met me.
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00:42:08,692 --> 00:42:10,361
I'm sorry Rob.
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00:42:10,361 --> 00:42:14,598
No, that is that it's an honor,
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but.
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stay tuned for another episode
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Well, we should get out of here anyhow.
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It's been a long time.
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00:42:20,271 --> 00:42:22,940
say, if you're a workaholic.
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There you go.
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This has been another episode
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of On the Floor with Wayne and Rob.
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Please stay tuned for another episode.